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Levud

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 4:39 pm


Ok, so Im friends with a number of girls and I talk to them. They also always tell me how amazing I am and how cool I am. But why wont any of them ask me on a date or anything?
PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 4:56 pm


Maybe they are waiting for you to ask? Or maybe they just like you as a friend? It's hard to say. We don't know what they're thinking, so you won't know for sure either until you ask them.

But keep in mind that girls are all very different. We all like different things. So even if your friends didn't like you in a romantic way, that certainly doesn't mean that you are doing anything wrong or that other girls don't or won't like you. You just have to be yourself until you meet someone you click with.

So be yourself. Don't be desperate. And if you're interested in someone, ask if they want to do something sometime.

LorienLlewellyn

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kristinah321

PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 6:35 pm


well most of the time we girls don't ask boys out. ._. we usually wait for them to come to us o.o

or they might already have a bf or just not ready
PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 6:54 pm


Most Girls from my experience honestly expect the male to ask. Though my experience is far from rule. I am sure you are not doing anything wrong man.

SESauvie

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ShuyinKTepes

PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 11:21 pm


It is cause they see you more like a brother or a freind and nothing more they think of it as if they date you it will ruin the friendship and things wont be the same i know i went through it many times
PostPosted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 3:44 am


ShuyinKTepes
It is cause they see you more like a brother or a freind and nothing more they think of it as if they date you it will ruin the friendship and things wont be the same i know i went through it many times
I don't get how dating someone can then ruin a friendship? I tried asking out a friend one time, but she got creped out and stopped being near me or hanging out with me. Seeing where she is now, that was a good thing, lol.

Frankly, I can date any woman that is a friend and even if it doesn't work out and she wants to be friends, I'd be like. "Alright, it's no problem." Cause I just switch myself back to how things use to be before we dated. ^_^.

Valgex


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:52 pm


Well maybe they don't feel for yuh like that o.0
PostPosted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 3:03 pm


You're probably friend zone'd.

`pidi[queer]


IceTrey47

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 2:11 pm


ShuyinKTepes
It is cause they see you more like a brother or a freind and nothing more they think of it as if they date you it will ruin the friendship and things wont be the same i know i went through it many times


What this guy said. It happens to all of us and a few times it's happened to me it's left a mark. A negative one.
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