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I just recently since the day before thanksgiving start dating this girl that I met. She is the same age as me and has everything I'm looking for in a girl. And I'm kinda confused on something and I would like to hear your opinions on it. Here it goes:

We've known each other for a month or so and each time we hang out she always has a friend with her. There isn't really any her and I time besides when I took her out to dinner and the new years party at my house with another couple. I dont know what to do or how to go about things to figure out whats going on between her and I? Any suggestions or opinions to I guess try to help me figure out what to do would be helpful. Thank you ladies and gents.

~ Lestat_Silver

Well, a month isn't very long. She might not feel comfortable enough to be alone with you yet, and if that's the case then you should respect that.

I mean you could come out and ask her how she feels around you, if she's comfortable by herself, etc. Or you can make a suggestion involving something just the two of you could do - she could come over to watch a movie, you guys could go out to dinner, and see what she says. If she wants to bring other people along, you could politely request that it be just the two of you.

If she continues to put up resistance about being alone with you, then you might want to say something, but so far it sounds somewhat normal. You could always ask her about her feelings for you - maybe she's unclear about your feelings for her, and thinks you just like her as a friend and doesn't want to push/change that. It's hard to speculate since we can't read her mind. wink

Thanks and you too. ^_^

Can I move the thread if it's been resolved for now, or do you want me to leave it here for awhile longer?

Ok thank you. ^_^