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my step-dad used to always make pokes about my weight too....

he still does from time to time but I've learned to ignore him. How you look and how you wiegh are things that only concern YOU! Not your step-mom not anyone! Next time she says something like that ignore her, or realize that's she's just a selfish b***h and that what she thinks doesn't matter. She probably puts you down to make herself feel better anyway.

Things'll work out, you'll see! Some things just take time!! *snugs*

im sorry.....I hope you get this resolved, nothing worse than someone being rude to you about your wieght...
I would just talk to her about it in a nice conversation, and tell her that she should just except you for the person that you are, not your weight....
if that does not work you can always b***h about it too her everytime she says it... sweatdrop
I dont know what else to say, but I would stay cool about it....cause there is always bound to be someone who is mean.

I do know... my parents are really strict Christians 3nodding

remember when things get to bad in one day... who knows...tomorrow might be a wonderful day!

Never give up hope! That's my motto!! 3nodding

~Holds~ I hate skinny bitches.....especially the ones that insult them full figured ladies crying

I would say eat her......but I advise against it sweatdrop

Snatch her a** in a bear trap, yo.

Stepmoms always suck, but you'll get through it. Just try and be strong, and be just as evil back to her. She'll get the hint. Or send you to military school. Just kidding.

Hang in there.

Why do so many thin people *note, I didn't say ALL thin people...* feel it's their duty to inform us that we are not thin? Do they think we don't know? Why do they think it's appropriate to ridicule/nit-pick at us because we do not fit their standard of beauty/appropriate weight? No one is forcing a tray of cupcakes down their throat, telling them to beef up because they're too thin, so why do they feel compelled to either insult you or actually try and prevent you from eating?? Gah...people piss me off .

I would confront your father and tell her that you are hurt that

A) Your step mother won't get off your back about your weight and constantly insults you

and

B) That your own father would rather ignore your hurt and focus on his new wife no matter what

If you are 18 or over, I suggest you get a job, start secretly saving up and if after you've talked to him and explained how shitty you feel when your step mom gangs up on you and he still shows that he's not willing to tell her to back off, then you can get a place of your own. If your father is not willing to recognize that there is a problem with how both he and his wife treat you, then I'd get out of there a.s.a.p...no one needs that bullshit and emotional abuse.

If you're not of age to move out on your own, then you need to tell them that you are tired of their treatment of you and if they are going to constantly belittle you/ignore your feelings, that they will be pushing you away emotionally as well as physically because you will want nothing to do with them and will refrain from talking to them, period. Sometimes parents need to be shown the harsh reality of their actions, that way they can see what they're doing wrong and be given the chance to fix their wrong doings. If he still ignores you, then ignore the both of them...you warned them that you would, so follow through with your promise. Better yet, you can make snide remarks about their shortcomings in retaliation, but that may not be the best choice...I'm evil like that, heh twisted

Good luck to you hon, we're all here to help you out heart

Great idea Fuzz xd FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE!!! whee

But yeah.........you gotta talk to him...........if he really loves you he will tell that evil step mother of yours to stop wink