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PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 10:45 pm


so like i have this friend who's a guy(whom i like) and we been friends for about 2 years now. once before he has admitted to me that he likes me and wants to go out with me but i had a bf then. He's always teasing me/making fun of me in front of others, and out of all that he's also nice to me. Though he can be sarcastic and mean as well >.> anyways later in the year he got a gf (he loves her) and he basically changed a bit wasnt all so noticeable but i noticed he was a lil more meaner. he would sometimes tell me to do something (like a boss ordering a worker to do some job kinda thing) and i always tell him "what if i dont?" and he'll usually say "or else" at the end >.> and like one time he told me to stay on msn until he goes off. >.> well me being curious i asked wat would happen if i went off b4 him and he was like or else and i asked or else wat and he said he'll hurt me mentally, psychically, and emotionally. now that suprised me cuz for one i didnt know if he was just joking or he meant it but i never bother asking him. he'll just say something mean or just be sarcastic about it >.> anyways the odd thing is i still like him even though he has a gf. lol well now recently like last month he kinda changed. he was a lil nicer than b4 and he did something that basically questioned me. like i was talkin to him on msn and he had to go so he said bye but b4 that he wrote "-kisses forehead-" and then a couple of days later he tells me he has a secret and its about me. but he wont tell me and still now he wont tell me. gonk idk but everytime i think about wat his secret might be it always ends up the same thought him tell me that he likes me. btw i dont have a bf anymore we kinda drifted into just being friends. xd
anyways a long post sweatdrop and idk if some parts made any sense.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 8:34 pm


THESE ARE WARNING BELLS!!!!
Control issues & has potential to be an abuser (either physicallly or mentally)

My suggestion:

RUN AWAY AND DO NOT LOOK BACK

This person will not prove to be a friend of any value until he's, let's say, 40.

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