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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 2:44 am
A TON of misinformation floats out there about Pagan religions. I think we're all well aware of that. It's so prevalent that it's become a HUGE problem. But the fact is that we are incapable of *forcing* someone to believe anything, even if it is more historically legitimate.
So how do you respond to someone who believes that misinformation?
I personally believe that if you have to get aggressive (when it comes to their beliefs) its very rarely worth it. When they're set in their ways, the most you can do is chase them off so we don't have to deal with them. But, that just cuts them off from a good avenue for learning.
Thoughts? Rebuttals? Contributions?
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 5:12 am
The problem is that most of the time, the conversation doesn't start out aggressive. What usually happens is as soon as someone dares ask a question, the person being questioned freaks out and blows it all out of proportion. So where one may have started out being really nice about the whole thing, most of the time it doesn't get you very far since the other side almost always takes being questioned as a personal attack, when it really isn't.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 7:47 am
ncsweet The problem is that most of the time, the conversation doesn't start out aggressive. What usually happens is as soon as someone dares ask a question, the person being questioned freaks out and blows it all out of proportion. So where one may have started out being really nice about the whole thing, most of the time it doesn't get you very far since the other side almost always takes being questioned as a personal attack, when it really isn't. I also think it goes both ways. I've seen when someone questions the original questioner the said questioner freaks out as well. Approaching topics of religion in general require maturity and some humility on both sides. This is also where restating the issue may have to come in. I've done that a few times, even here. When it became clear people didn't want to actually hear me out despite my attempts to show a benign stance I've just walked away because it's energy wasted on, quite frankly, the internet. It's about priorities sometimes.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 12:18 pm
I don't try to seem aggressive or annoyed when I asked people questions of inform them. Usually when you as a supposed Wiccan their lineage and trad they freak out about it. Especially when they can't provide the info and still claim Wiccan when they aren't.
If the argument goes on for a long time I do get irritated because my patience is usually almost gone due to the work day. (Working in a temp agency is not fun. Do not do it. Seriously.) That's when I'll disappear for a week or too..>.>
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 3:56 pm
ncsweet The problem is that most of the time, the conversation doesn't start out aggressive. What usually happens is as soon as someone dares ask a question, the person being questioned freaks out and blows it all out of proportion. So where one may have started out being really nice about the whole thing, most of the time it doesn't get you very far since the other side almost always takes being questioned as a personal attack, when it really isn't. Now, if you'll read the thread in question, you'll notice that I'm not the one to whom the question was addressed. Yet, I'm the one who visibly blew up. The person to whom this was addressed has yet to reply to the thread again. The post which contained the question contained nothing else. While elegant in it's simplicity, the internet messageboard medium leaves especially the tone of the question open to interpretation. Given where the conversation eventually goes, how many members often participate in the attempt to convert one person in this matter of fact way, (which visibly lacks concern for their well-being and happiness,) of course they're going to blow up! "You all are persecuting me!" visibly becomes their attitude. No reassurance was given, which *would* serve to invalidate hostility and quicken the process of grieving the old belief system. Not a very strong way to effectively convert someone, as nothing was done to prevent the conflict. I believe we have seen this narrative play out before, both where the person converts, and where the person just gets a persecution complex. Also, as 4shi pointed out, this was derailed another thread. The Rules and Guidelines forbid this; the Terms of service reference those rules, effectively placing them in the ToS itself. I'm not saying this was done out of malice; the resurgence of scholarship you hope to bring would be an incredible boon to the Neo-Pagan community. However, when a pattern of derailed threads, failed conversions and mutual lingering resentments arises, as I believe it has among some guilds, most people would rather just walk away. I know of at least one guild which has banned folks for this method of spreading scholarship, and attempts to screen new members for the same attitude. Scholarship has improved some, but we have a needlessly fractured Pagan community here on Gaia. ncsweet, my response for xLady Tsukiyox is also intended for you. xLady Tsukiyox I don't try to seem aggressive or annoyed when I asked people questions of inform them. Usually when you as a supposed Wiccan their lineage and trad they freak out about it. Especially when they can't provide the info and still claim Wiccan when they aren't. If the argument goes on for a long time I do get irritated because my patience is usually almost gone due to the work day. (Working in a temp agency is not fun. Do not do it. Seriously.) That's when I'll disappear for a week or too..>.> I can understand being exhausted. I can relate; the professors in the Math department at my university loves to pretend I have nothing to do but homework for their class. The work for my major easily adds up to 8 hours a day outside of class, and I'm hunting for a job to make sure I can keep going biggrin but with this economy, we all know how well that's going. Then there's the constant papers for my minor, and other commitments I made... I need a break, and I hope you get yours too. As for the Neo-Wiccans who get defensive about their trad and lineage - yes it is a problem when they claim to be Gardinerian, Alexandrian or British Trad. Or when some claim to be Druids, Asatru, and any number of words that describe *someone else*. The fact is that ideas, even religions evolve and split. No one asked us to like it. They may not be Wiccans in the sense you're used to, but hey, ask the Pope what he thinks of those pesky Lutherans. From his pattern of erasing the progressive measures of previous Popes, Gregory might even give you an answer close that of a Pope during the Protestant Reformation. These Neo-Wiccans do have a trend of intellectual dishonesty. However, calling them on it won't stop all of them, in spite of how authenticity wins many. Giving them some info from/on other Trads, and letting them make the explicit choice between the Trads and Neo-Wicca without judgment, seems a more disciplined, diplomatic and ultimately community oriented solution, especially where Solitaries are concerned.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 5:56 pm
I’ll erase this feeling… I still have a long life don’t I? kono omoi wo keshiteshimau ni ha mada jinsei nagai deshou? I'm killing time from PWI because the Crazy Stone quest reward takes a wait period of nine minutes... Anyways, religion do evolve over time however Wicca is a young religion still. There is no need for it to evolve just yet. Christianity evolved after 100 years or so. However orthodoxy and orthopraxy are different things and operate much differently. We know what Wicca is from what Gardener the creator of Wicca states in his books. There is no question about it. It's re-iterated in other books such as Drawing Down the Moon by Margot Adler and Triumph of the Moon by Professor Hutton. Books by Mama Silver (still need to send her a nasty e-mail), Buckland, Starhawk, DJ Conway, Scott Cunningham, etc, pervert Gardner's true meaning by corrupting it, breaking their oaths, etc. Wicca is and always will be an oathbound, orthopraxic, lineaged, mystery, fertility witch-cult. There is no changing or evolving from it. Like my mother has always said "If it's written in stone then it's written in stone. There is no changing that." I’m missing the feeling… so this pain is also welcomed! natsukashiku naru konna itami mo kangeijan
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 6:28 pm
xLady Tsukiyox I’ll erase this feeling… I still have a long life don’t I? kono omoi wo keshiteshimau ni ha mada jinsei nagai deshou? I'm killing time from PWI because the Crazy Stone quest reward takes a wait period of nine minutes... Anyways, religion do evolve over time however Wicca is a young religion still. There is no need for it to evolve just yet. Christianity evolved after 100 years or so. However orthodoxy and orthopraxy are different things and operate much differently. We know what Wicca is from what Gardener the creator of Wicca states in his books. There is no question about it. It's re-iterated in other books such as Drawing Down the Moon by Margot Adler and Triumph of the Moon by Professor Hutton. Books by Mama Silver (still need to send her a nasty e-mail), Buckland, Starhawk, DJ Conway, Scott Cunningham, etc, pervert Gardner's true meaning by corrupting it, breaking their oaths, etc. Wicca is and always will be an oathbound, orthopraxic, lineaged, mystery, fertility witch-cult. There is no changing or evolving from it. Like my mother has always said "If it's written in stone then it's written in stone. There is no changing that." I’m missing the feeling… so this pain is also welcomed! natsukashiku naru konna itami mo kangeijan A pharaoh of Egypt tried to bring in monotheism to his nation. The god Aten was forced upon all, his name, and that of the Pharaoh engraved in stone wherever possible. When the people rebelled, they scored both names out of everything they could find to erase the history. It took painstaking reconstruction to find even this much, thousands of years later - but the people forgot this infraction on their culture, just as they wished. Neo-Wicca pulls from the Wicca you know in varying degrees. While Wicca to Neo-Wicca involves a relative compression of available religious information, we might compare it to the expansion of religious information from previous Christians to modern Mormons. Mormons are no less Christian, though some Christians would disagree. Is a Lutheran less Christian for not believing in the Trinity? The examples could go on for pages. I'm not saying Wicca should cast aside lineages and traditions. Instead, I propose allowing Neo-Wicca to exist as its own separate thing. Maybe we can encourage them lay down some sort of structure for themselves, though I doubt they'll take it. The virtues of this Millenarian religion, Neo-Wicca, reflect a new emphasis on individuality related to authority structures - as per the theory laid out by Kenelm Burridge. It is as though Anarchist punk let loose it influence in Western culture, and it found a home... in the virtues of Neo-Wicca, as practiced by teenagers. While the adherents of Wicca are relatively few, and it doesn't seem to have the follower-mass or age to need evolving, that's not my decision. Nor is it yours. I'm not proud of the fact that Peter Carrol's writings on Chaos Magic Theory contributed toward the cultural influence of... "The Secret" and "What the Bleep do we Know?", but those things are outside of the realm of my control. Burridge proposes that a changing relationship with authority pushes such new religious movements into existence, and I'm inclined to agree with him.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 6:38 pm
I’ll erase this feeling… I still have a long life don’t I? kono omoi wo keshiteshimau ni ha mada jinsei nagai deshou? I knew I was forgetting something. The reason why Wicca has few adherents compared to other religions is because Wicca is a priesthood. When someone is initiated they are declared a priestess or priest. They are the clergy. Neo-Wicca is considered a valid path by many or from what I've read about it. I have never ever picked up a Scott Cunningham in my life. I would like to but haven't really gotten the chance to. (PWI has been taking over my life lately xD). However Neo-Wicca is not nor will it ever be Wicca unless it holds the core of Wicca. The Core of Wicca being the lineage initiation not the beliefs. Being a Wiccan is like being a Catholic priest. You have to do years of learning and studying before even thinking about applying for clergy. And even then you still have to the rituals as well. Even more so, it's kinda like being Catholic in a sense, in which you have to do the rituals of the Reconciliation, Communion and more importantly the Confirmation before you can EVER declare yourself Catholic. (Baptism is moreso taking oaths) In other words, Neo-Wicca is fine as a valid path but it needs a better name. It's kinda of hard being called "New Wicca" when Wicca itself is 54 years old or so. Seems pretty silly to me. I’m missing the feeling… so this pain is also welcomed! natsukashiku naru konna itami mo kangeijan
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 7:35 pm
I understand your reservations about this; however, Neo-Wiccans are held to the same standard - no one is going to do their rituals for them. Self-initiated members of this belief structure especially know this.
When lineaged Wicca is unavailable, these people have little choice but to attempt to find the most credible rituals and practices they can find, and adopt the beliefs that come with it. Hopefully their information is not Scott Cunningham or Silver Ravenwolf, but all too often it is. When they're working in this context, they don't have the time to study everything before they begin - they have to learn as they go, or they don't get to be anything like Wiccan. And that's not what our culture values - hard work, when there's another way that we might not even know about?
Hence, these communities become one of the best resources they have; this makes it even worse to risk chasing them away. Good luck telling them they can't be Wiccan if you *really* want to. I must insist that if you do, you do so with understanding.
The best way I see to combat the academic dishonesty of it all would be to publish credible information from a lineage - and wouldn't that break an oath or two?
Besides... if you go to a Black Dahlia Murder show, where the band is Death Metal, how many of those kids listened to Korn or Linkin Park before they found their more authentic experience in Metal? The information was available to them, so they followed it - they didn't need to be hurried along. When the trend dies, the scene-sters just move on. Glam Rock in the 1980s, grunge, then Numetal in the 90s, and now metalcore and emo in the current decade.
I'm curious as to how much of this pattern many of the Neo-Wiccans will follow.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 7:52 pm
PrometheanSet... honestly I didn't even realize that your question related to a specific incident/thread. So the answer that I gave was a generalization of how I've seen these debates go for the 2+ years that I have been on Gaia.
Your analogy about the Pope taking issue Lutherans, etc... doesn't really hold water. Lutherans have a separate name for their Religion (there are other reasons as well, such as orthodoxy vs. orthopraxy, but I don't really feel like getting into that at the moment). The major issue with Wicca is that people are making up their own paths, but still calling it by the same name (Wicca), and basically claiming a title that they haven't earned.
Almost any one of us, who is attempting to clear up misinformation, has been (at one point or another) on the receiving end of the argument, so we understand very well, exactly what it is like to have someone tell us - "oh wait, you are doing it wrong". Truthfully, I think people (on Gaia) are a lot nicer about it now than they used to be. I don't think any of us are expecting them to automatically take us at face value, however we do expect that they will take the information that we give them and actually look into it. Because once one actually looks into it, the truth of the matter is usually easy enough to see. What I have found though, is most of the time, people dismiss what is said to them automatically - they refuse to admit (even to themselves) that they could be wrong, and in doing so miss out on a major opportunity to learn and grow. It's frustrating to say the least.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 8:12 pm
All of that aside, they'll still call themselves Wiccans. Chase Clifton, one of the widely acknowledged forerunners of the Neopagan movement has acknowledged Neo-Wicca as a rising trend. We can't stop it. Instead, I would propose that we make lineaged Wicca more available to ensure it's survival.
The rise of reading ability (though not necessarily literacy), culminating with widespread internet access has accelerated change in people's beliefs about the world; and this just one example. This was the thesis for my paper on Aliens in my folklore class.
"Operation Paperclip" was one interpretation of the Roswell incident which painted Nazi scientists carrying experiments in Roswell New Mexico, and connected this with a pre-existing theory of an Antarctic Nazi base. Suddenly in the 1970s, when publishing got easier (and paperback books were suddenly much cheaper than before, relative to hardcover books), we have books about Antarctic Nazi UFO bases, where the tests were carried out in New Mexico. One group claimed in the 90s that this base is waiting on the fleet of a race of giant Aryans from the Aldebaran system to arrive so they can take over the world for the Master Race.
Another interpretation, "Project Serpo" is visibly a hoax. It's account details an interplanetary citizen exchange program with the "Greys" who's home is in the binary star system Zeta Reticuli. These are your stereotypical anthropomorphic, gray, big-headed and bug-eyed, black eyed aliens. One major site documents the internet communication of a supposed Roswell informant detailing the story; another major site, quite literally, documents the alleged process of the prank, saying literally, "Stop it Chad. This isn't funny." However, people believe it anyway; it pulled from and corroborated with a vast array of conspiracy theory and alien lore on these "Greys".
This is just a small example thereof. I put these forward only as an example of the changes that rising reading ability and internet access have on our society. Neo-Wicca is another. In both instances, all we can do for most people involved is *watch* (or not, or maybe even laugh at the tinfoil hats). But among folks who want to take an educational role in the Neopagan community, it is necessary to stay abreast of the relevant trends.
I've got a paper to write. I'll be back tomorrow to check this thread.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 8:21 pm
ncsweet PrometheanSet... honestly I didn't even realize that your question related to a specific incident/thread. So the answer that I gave was a generalization of how I've seen these debates go for the 2+ years that I have been on Gaia. Your analogy about the Pope taking issue Lutherans, etc... doesn't really hold water. Lutherans have a separate name for their Religion (there are other reasons as well, such as orthodoxy vs. orthopraxy, but I don't really feel like getting into that at the moment). The major issue with Wicca is that people are making up their own paths, but still calling it by the same name (Wicca), and basically claiming a title that they haven't earned. Almost any one of us, who is attempting to clear up misinformation, has been (at one point or another) on the receiving end of the argument, so we understand very well, exactly what it is like to have someone tell us - "oh wait, you are doing it wrong". Truthfully, I think people (on Gaia) are a lot nicer about it now than they used to be. I don't think any of us are expecting them to automatically take us at face value, however we do expect that they will take the information that we give them and actually look into it. Because once one actually looks into it, the truth of the matter is usually easy enough to see. What I have found though, is most of the time, people dismiss what is said to them automatically - they refuse to admit (even to themselves) that they could be wrong, and in doing so miss out on a major opportunity to learn and grow. It's frustrating to say the least. The Pope and Lutherans... that name didn't form initially. And usually, these people *do* have a name for themselves, be it "Eclectic Wicca", "Egyptian Wicca", or something along those lines. And as far as someone discounting the evidence at face value - that tends to be what happens when it's another person telling them what to do. When you explain the credibility of a certain source, and link to it, so they can read it for free, that will trigger such the desired conflict within themselves. It gets much harder to externalize the issue and use the "attacker" as a personification of "oppression". When the individual *finds it themselves* (where you've planted it), and reads it themselves, they have no one to point to as an attacker. They could dispute academic credibility, but any reasonable forum where they could would look at it and disagree. Ironically enough, this follows current trends in website design psychology - you give the reader a more active role, so they can own their findings. It becomes more personal, thus more valuable to them, but also helps keep them in the process. Just build it up as this wonderful resource that's only recently being made widely available - a scholars' gem that the people have taken for themselves - to generate the initial interest and hook them into reading it. The information wants to be free. So spread it! Plant it like seeds everywhere you can. Just be sure that it's what you want to spread, otherwise you might come back to spread something else that contradicts it. Now I've really got to get to that paper.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 9:00 pm
Just so you know, I almost always link to valid sources and in most cases to the exact pages... doesn't usually make all that much of a difference.
On the name thing- the problem is that they are sill using the word Wicca, it only makes it worse if they are adding some other word in front of it. Wicca denotes something very specific - as someone who tried in vain to stick other deities into the roles of the Lord and Lady, I can tell you first hand it doesn't work very well. It is disrespectful to the Gods of the Wicca, and it is disrespectful to whatever Gods you are trying to force into those particular roles. Especially when you consider that they have myths/lore of their own, that have nothing to do with what Wicca believes in.
Each of those other things have religions associated with them - those interested in Egyptian beliefs have Kemeticism (either Orthodoxy or Recon), the Greeks have Hellenic Recon, Norse have Asatru and other forms of Heathenry... the list goes on. There is no need for them to be trying to make Wicca into something it is not, when there are plenty of other paths already available for them to choose from - if they would take the time to listen when others try to point them in the right direction. I wholeheartedly wish someone had told me 10 years ago about this, it would have sucked a whole lot less to find out when I was just starting out, then later when my practices were already more deeply ingrained.
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 10:04 pm
ncsweet Just so you know, I almost always link to valid sources and in most cases to the exact pages... doesn't usually make all that much of a difference. On the name thing- the problem is that they are sill using the word Wicca, it only makes it worse if they are adding some other word in front of it. Wicca denotes something very specific - as someone who tried in vain to stick other deities into the roles of the Lord and Lady, I can tell you first hand it doesn't work very well. It is disrespectful to the Gods of the Wicca, and it is disrespectful to whatever Gods you are trying to force into those particular roles. Especially when you consider that they have myths/lore of their own, that have nothing to do with what Wicca believes in. Each of those other things have religions associated with them - those interested in Egyptian beliefs have Kemeticism (either Orthodoxy or Recon), the Greeks have Hellenic Recon, Norse have Asatru and other forms of Heathenry... the list goes on. There is no need for them to be trying to make Wicca into something it is not, when there are plenty of other paths already available for them to choose from - if they would take the time to listen when others try to point them in the right direction. I wholeheartedly wish someone had told me 10 years ago about this, it would have sucked a whole lot less to find out when I was just starting out, then later when my practices were already more deeply ingrained. This is how they choose to call themselves, and they base their practices in the best info on Wicca and the culture in question they can find. Why can't they call themselves _______ Wiccan? Compound words do have a way of meaning something slightly different when taken separately. Alternative Medicine is somewhat another example - if we were to describe it more accurately, it's folk medicine. The Satanic Bible is another example, as our culture largely reveres Bibles as a purely Christian thing. LaVey's writings are not a reversed, backwards, or otherwise mucked up King James Version - historically reversing a Christian Symbol turned it in favor of the devil. 'Satanic Bible' could be interpreted to mean just such a thing, but we find LaVey chose a different avenue. For my strategy, you're still taking to much of a guerrilla role with these sources. It's one thing to come in and actively debate these things. It's another to (maybe have a mule) borderline spam a forum (a thread a week?) with sources that are actually relevant, hoping to stimulate discussion, and maybe have someone else there to *politely* answer questions or rebut any dismissals. You'd also need an attitude of detachment, where you can even be emotionally supportive of someone who dismisses it - without this, all the other changes just mean nothing and you've become a Spammer as opposed to a Thread-Derailer. If done right, you'll be loved for it and meet your goals. ------Idealistic Rambling follows, feel free to dismiss---------------- My ideal situation for a Pagan guild or forum would be to have a locked sticky thread which lists sources (screened for academic integrity and credibility) for each path, with each post containing sources for one path. List the topics covered in each source and rate how genuinely and thoroughly it covers each. Alphabetical Order make sense, just so we're impartial. This removes the person who submitted it from direct character assassination (which has become a rather large issue here). In each post, have a link to pm a mod to submit a source. Discuss privately why a source is good, bad, etc as time allows. When that's done, ask if we can discuss why a source is good or bad, and hold that discussion to rigorous standards of conduct. Maybe we could have threads discussing each source, maybe even a "capstone" thread to tie it all together. Maybe have threads discussing each topic listed in your sources registry. To encourage questions, have people ask even the most basic questions, just so another participant can come along to answer them. Move up to more comprehensive questions, discussion, even debate. Get enough people into a pattern of participating, and you won't have to do this as much, maybe even at all. As a thread wanders, make a new one that links to it's source. This gets labor intensive. It gets trying, because the staff have to know what's genuine among a wide variety of Paths and have the spare time to read through everything submitted. I don't consistently have the time or the gold to lead such a venture, nor do I have the popularity. Otherwise, I'd do it myself.
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 5:53 am
If they were basing their practices on the "best info on Wicca and the culture in question they can find", then they wouldn't be calling themselves "XYZ Wiccan" they would know that it would be inappropriate to do so. As I said, it is disrespectful to the Wiccan religion and to the culture they are trying to force into roles that don't fit with their own myths/lore.
You seem to be assuming that Wicca is a non-specific "umbrella" type term, that can be slapped on to anything that has a vague resemblance to the outer-court practices. It isn't, as it refers to something fairly specific.
The orthopraxic nature of the Wicca religion, means that the core practices cannot be changed (in an orthopraxy, the core practices are more important than the core beliefs). These core practices includes cross-gender initiation into a coven that can trace lineage to Gardner and belief in the Lord and Lady of the British Isles (whose names are oath-bound and can only be learned once one is an initiate), among other things. You can add to the core (within certain limitations), but you cannot take away from them. Do so, and it is no longer Wicca.
While Wiccans are free to practice other relgions/paths and/or worship other Gods, as well as being Wiccan. Each one must be maintained as a separate practice - they cannot be mixed. Obviously people can call their paths whatever they want to, however the question I (and others) have to ask is, why would anyone cling to a word that does not accurately describe what they are practicing? Why would anyone want to force the Gods that they claim to love and/or have a relationship with, into roles that don't fit them, or go completely against the cultures that those Gods are a part of? It makes no sense to do so, yet people continue to do so all the time, with no care or concern for what they are doing.
Is it so wrong to want people to be responsible about the way that they treat other religions and cultures? What gives anyone the right to pick and choose whatever they want, without a second thought to if they actually have the right to do so? There is such a sense of "entitlement" in the Neo-Pagan scene, it's enough to make anyone ill. The fact is, just because we want to be a part of something, doesn't necessarily mean that we are meant to be a part of it.
No one is saying that people cannot make their own paths... we're simply asking that they be responsible about it, be respectful about it, and for them not to claim things that they have not earned the right to claim.
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