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 Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 9:04 am
I'm seriously on the verge of going insane! My mom is being entirely cruel with no good reason. Here is a list of what she ISN'T letting me do:
-Go visit my girlfriend for her birthday
-Visit my GF for our anniversary
-Let her come up here for a visit
-Let her come to prom with me
-Let her come to whatever my friends will be doing instead of prom
-Meet up with her and her mom in NYC
-Talk on the phone "too much"
-Say "I love you" on the phone when my brother is around
-Talk about her around my brother
-Say the word gay around my brother
I'm technically not supposed to marry a pink person when we play life but I do it anyways. We were playing this morning and she tried to give me a blue person but I gave her a look and she gave me a pink person.
But honestly, she's being totally unfair with no good reason! She's MET my girlfriend AND her mom. My dad met her WHOLE family. I... just... *twitch*
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 6:01 pm
Eeh. That does sound really annoying. x__o Man. I'd love to help you out, but, i have no idea how i could. Sorry. sweatdrop
Hehe, I've not played Life in forEVER. xDD I remember always losing to the little sixth grade girls at summer camp. Come to think of it, I lost to all the sixth graders in chess club too. wtf.. ninja
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 11:29 pm
BakaTulip I'm seriously on the verge of going insane! My mom is being entirely cruel with no good reason. Here is a list of what she ISN'T letting me do: -Go visit my girlfriend for her birthday -Visit my GF for our anniversary -Let her come up here for a visit -Let her come to prom with me -Let her come to whatever my friends will be doing instead of prom -Meet up with her and her mom in NYC -Talk on the phone "too much" -Say "I love you" on the phone when my brother is around -Talk about her around my brother -Say the word gay around my brother I'm technically not supposed to marry a pink person when we play life but I do it anyways. We were playing this morning and she tried to give me a blue person but I gave her a look and she gave me a pink person. But honestly, she's being totally unfair with no good reason! She's MET my girlfriend AND her mom. My dad met her WHOLE family. I... just... *twitch* *BIG hug* I really feel sorry for you Tulip. You are right that is totally unfair of your mother to do things like that to you *nuther BIG hug* I really hate seeing this kind of thing and not being able to do anything about it *third BIG hug*
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 2:53 pm
Wow, that totally sucks. Do you have anything on her that you can use against her to strike a deal? Perhaps your Dad could help you out in this matter. He seems to be a bit more lineant, yes?
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The Committee Staff Gaian
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 3:07 pm
Saknika Wow, that totally sucks. Do you have anything on her that you can use against her to strike a deal? Perhaps your Dad could help you out in this matter. He seems to be a bit more lineant, yes? Nah, not at all actually
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 5:40 pm
BakaTulip Saknika Wow, that totally sucks. Do you have anything on her that you can use against her to strike a deal? Perhaps your Dad could help you out in this matter. He seems to be a bit more lineant, yes? Nah, not at all actually Oh wow, than this poses a really difficult problem. Is there another relative that you could go live with that is more accepting of these things? Like an aunt or something? Because maybe you just need to get away from your Mom for a long time and show her that if she's going to restrict you to the point of suffocation, than you're going to cut off the sffocating ties. Of course, you can always see your Mom and stuff, hang out, whatever. But at least if you were in an accepting home things might be better for the both of you.
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The Committee Staff Gaian
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 5:48 pm
No, there is no legal standing that would get me out of this.
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 6:55 pm
You could wait. Its annoying and hard to do.. but if you wait untill you're in college and on your own you'd have a better chance. You might miss out on the things you want to do.. but sometimes that's the way it goes. I have to miss out on going to prom with my girlfriend. I cant even see her this Christmas and New Years because Im too ******** poor and my mom wouldnt/couldnt help me out. It tough.. but what else can you do..?
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 7:15 pm
AkureiKnight You could wait. Its annoying and hard to do.. but if you wait untill you're in college and on your own you'd have a better chance. You might miss out on the things you want to do.. but sometimes that's the way it goes. I have to miss out on going to prom with my girlfriend. I cant even see her this Christmas and New Years because Im too ******** poor and my mom wouldnt/couldnt help me out. It tough.. but what else can you do..? Well, that sucks but... like.. it's not as bad as being flat out told you're not allowed to.
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 7:39 pm
BakaTulip No, there is no legal standing that would get me out of this. Damn, that really sucks BT. Wish there was more I could do to help.
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The Committee Staff Gaian
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 9:06 pm
BakaTulip AkureiKnight You could wait. Its annoying and hard to do.. but if you wait untill you're in college and on your own you'd have a better chance. You might miss out on the things you want to do.. but sometimes that's the way it goes. I have to miss out on going to prom with my girlfriend. I cant even see her this Christmas and New Years because Im too ******** poor and my mom wouldnt/couldnt help me out. It tough.. but what else can you do..? Well, that sucks but... like.. it's not as bad as being flat out told you're not allowed to. Im not saying I have it worse. But honestly what can you do? I know it's important to you, I know it's tough, I know it's ******** stupid as hell that she's doing this to you, I know you probably want to just tell her a thing or two, but it's not going to help you. People like your mother are hard headed and they wont change. Like they cant change us, we cant change them. We can deal with it as best as possible and try to work our way around it though. And maybe, something will come up and things will go the way you want with prom. You never know.. Just.. try and keep your chin up. Things will get better for you.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 9:24 pm
I'm sorry, but your mom just sounds like shes in dinal of what you are and is being a phob.
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 3:18 pm
Shmoo-Chan I'm sorry, but your mom just sounds like shes in dinal of what you are and is being a phob. Definitely seems that way.
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 2:40 am
I would just sneak out (I do that anyway) but then I don't have the type of guardian that watches my every move. In a week I see him every other day cause he doesn't check on us. But If she is that type of mom, I'd sneak out. What is the worse she can do take your radio? (lock you in the house?) (would she kick her daughter out-that would be bad) but I don't know, that is just my option to everything.
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 10:41 am
Breosaight_firearrow I would just sneak out (I do that anyway) but then I don't have the type of guardian that watches my every move. In a week I see him every other day cause he doesn't check on us. But If she is that type of mom, I'd sneak out. What is the worse she can do take your radio? (lock you in the house?) (would she kick her daughter out-that would be bad) but I don't know, that is just my option to everything. Oh yeah, I guess you didn't know, most people here know this, my girlfriend lives about 144 miles away and that's a LONG way to sneak.
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