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Xalazar Draconis

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 29, 2005 8:33 am


crying crying ...............i got my heart broken by guy i was dating on the net, he lives in the same country i do, PR, we where good freinds, whe where close to becoming boyfriends..........for two months we have been talking and knowing each other, and then one day............he says to me that he can't talk to me anymore............becuase hes talking with a guy named Daniel..........and im like who's Daniel......???..........and he said; my boyfriend......... sweatdrop gonk stressed ...................i could not believe what he just told......after he had told me that he really reallly liked me.......... sweatdrop ..............im so sad i just want to cry all day.....i don't even want to call him anymore........ crying
PostPosted: Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:45 pm


Perhaps this is just me being terribly practical, but you should have been prepared for the possibility. You even said so yourself that, he wasn't even a boyfriend yet, meaning one or both of you were not ready to make this a serious relationship. He has already decided to end the relationship and has moved on to someone else. It really isn't about you, but him and the decision he has made.

Though I can't guarantee that it won't happen to you or anyone else again, I can say that tomorrow is a new day, and you'll have survived that much longer. Cheer up, X.D. you'll be alright. wink *hug*

Keithing
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 29, 2005 3:50 pm


Thanks.........(sniffs) (wipes his tears off)...........i really liked him alot......but i guess he just didn't wanted a relationgship with me.......what hurts me the most is that i just turned 20 on the 13th and i still haven't had a person in my life, not even a little boyfreind or someone to fool arounf (which i don't want to, becuase its best to be in a realtionship). What im trying to say is that im scared that i may fall into a depression soon, becuase off this........but i have a positive mind, and i know that i got freinds that love me and care for me, and one day i'll find my true love.
PostPosted: Sat Jan 29, 2005 4:22 pm


Or at least one not so false.

JoVo


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 29, 2005 5:16 pm


Yeah.............. crying ............i need a hugh
PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2005 5:55 pm


*hugs*

Pell

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2005 6:38 pm


The same thing happened to me. (sort of)
I loved this guy for two years. Well, I can't exactly say LOVE, but I'm sure it was at a degree much higher than just infatuation. He wasn't uber hot or anything, but liking someone isn't only about looks. (for me at least) He told me he was dating before, but what really broke my heart was "I'm sort of talking to someone.."
The difference between "I'm dating" and "I'm sort of talking to someone.." is that "I'm dating" is an indirect "Sorry, I'm taken for now", whereas "I'm sort of talking to someone.." is a straightforward "I'm single but I don't like you." I know it may not seem that extreme, but I'm pretty sensitive to this kind of stuff. This was the guy that I was feeling depressed about a while back. (Remember that thread where I wanted to talk on the phone and JoVo posted his phone number for everyone to see? xd )
PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2005 10:54 pm


The reason he gave did seem a bit fishy, but what can you do? People are terribly tricky with their wording, and double meanings can be read into next to anything. Practice caution, not neurotic fear, of what is and will always be part of the human condition.

Keithing
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2005 6:57 am


Pell
*hugs*


Thanks whee i still speak with him, but just as friends; even tho whe are not gowing to date or anything, i still talk to him, one can never keep hatred againts someone under any circumstance. But im feeling better now, Thank You guys for supporting me. ^_^
PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2005 11:24 am


Xalazar Draconis
i need a hugh


*introduces you to a Hugh*

Hugh, this is Xalazar. Xalazar, Hugh. Talk amongst yourselves.

JoVo


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2005 6:12 pm


JoVo
Hugh, this is Xalazar. Xalazar, Hugh. Talk amongst yourselves.

*laughs* Maybe a Hugh is just what Xalazar needs...
PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2005 12:06 pm


xp Thanks guys ^_^; and thank you Jovo ^_^ jejejejejeje i promise i'll take good care off hugh blaugh xd

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:43 pm


Xalazar Draconis
xp Thanks guys ^_^; and thank you Jovo ^_^ jejejejejeje i promise i'll take good care off hugh blaugh xd


You'd better! He costs $300 an hour.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 7:58 am


jajajajajajajaajaja i will i will ^_^ xd

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