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Friends of mine seem to feel the need to set me up on dates, because I have been single for quite awhile. So I go out on dates with these perfectly normal, rather pretty young women, and it goes quite well. It goes quite well, until 3 days in, in the middle of making out with this person, I do not like them. And I do not want to date them any longer, for two reasons: a) I do not want to continue in this relationship, for when I do break it off, it will hurt more and b) I do not like her.

Now I believe some of that is normal, but that is not it. I do not like normal girls. Yes I may something such as "oh hey she is pretty" but like... I get crazy infatuated with these really depressing or straight up abnormal girls. Is that good? I dunno. I do not have that many friends since I got back from my military school, and the ones I do have sereiously think there is something wrong with me.

I realize this is not a serious matter, but... Are there any good things that willl come out of this? Please respond, /b/

That /b/ was a joke. ._.

Are you dating the abnormally.. normal girls? You know.. the ones that've never experience a trauma greater then their parents calling them a "brat" once or twice as a child? I'd hate to date a guy like that. It's boring, you can't connect to people like that on a deeper level.

If you know what you want, take that as a blessing and go look for that, and settle for nothing less. Just.. make sure you don't get knight-in-shining-armor syndrome and try to save a girl with issues that's not trying to get better. That'll just keep you in a horrid place.

If you know what you want, it makes finding it that much easier. 3nodding No worries homefry.

you seem normal to me. lol.