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Shaky Truths Untold
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 9:58 pm


I am currently very depressed. Randomly bursting out in tears one minute and then acting like nothing happened the next isn't uncommon right now. There is no real reason for these sudden feelings, other than me being bipolar. I just want it to stop. I want my life back.

My mom described it the other day as, "All the light has gone from her eyes. Its like she's not experiencing any joy anymore. I mean there are happy moments, but its not true joy."

Any clue on how to help fix this? I mean its gotten so bad that when I didn't show up to school this morning because I was at the doctors, my boyfriend thought that I committed suicide or something and was seriously freaked out.

Any thoughts?
-Shaky/Jessi
PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 10:16 pm


Hm... that's a hard one...

I used to be the same way. However, mine had a conclusion: I am broken, and there's no way in hell that can fix me. I doubt that you are as broken as I am, and you can be fixed, and get your life back.

What's probably going on with you, my dear, is possibly the return of a painful memory. You might not feel it, but something that you wanted to stay hidden, hasn't done very good at it. Talk to someone, just about anything, and eventually it will pop out.

It could also be, and I'm honestly being serious, boredom. I'm not trying to make a joke out of this, you really could be that bored. You just need to be more active, find some stuff to do.

If that all fails, DO NOT pretend to be happy for the sake of other people. DO NOT pop acid and pretend it's all better. And most especially, DO NOT ignore it! If you can't fix it on your own, GET HELP. DON'T END UP LIKE ZIM!!!

Heavy_m3tal_hippy
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 10:30 pm


One more thing:

You could be afraid. Maybe you don't like how your life's turning out. Maybe you don't think you'll be able to do something. Don't think ahead. Live today, die tomorrow (not literally of course... you know what I mean!)

Sorry, one LAST thing:

You could have MASSIVE amounts of stress. Take time for yourself, and relax a wee bit. I honestly hope this one's the answer... easiest to fix.

Once again, no ignoring it!
PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 10:57 pm


It probably started out as boredom and stress, but has now evolved and includes worry as well. neutral

Shaky Truths Untold
Crew


Heavy_m3tal_hippy
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 11:00 pm


Shaky Truths Untold
It probably started out as boredom and stress, but has now evolved and includes worry as well. neutral



Anything in particular you're worried about?
PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 11:04 pm


How I'm going to get out of this depressed state. sad

Shaky Truths Untold
Crew


Heavy_m3tal_hippy
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 11:11 pm


Shaky Truths Untold
How I'm going to get out of this depressed state. sad



That might be part of your problem too.

Try not thinking about it. Yea, I know that sounds like totally generic advice, but I think it's the only possible way to explain how to solve it. That kinda works in with the "boredom" possibility. Do some stuff, buy a video game, get a really long book (Full Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series is my recommendation.... this book saved MY life... not saying much, but still xd ) just something. Live your life, don't dwell on 'What if"s and "How come's and 'why's. There's only one way life can go when you feel down, and that's up. Ok, that's the most cliched bullshit, but hey, it's solid advice.
PostPosted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 11:26 pm


Lol. Thanks. I'll try.

Shaky Truths Untold
Crew


The Phantoms Apprentice
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 7:06 pm


shaky pease if you need someone to talk to when ur down pm ur phone number or something I have been down that road and I am a cutter. I know ur pain. i honestly think I may be bipolar. There are only two people out there who make me truly happy.... other then that im usually down
PostPosted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 7:57 pm


Shaky Truths Untold
I am currently very depressed. Randomly bursting out in tears one minute and then acting like nothing happened the next isn't uncommon right now. There is no real reason for these sudden feelings, other than me being bipolar. I just want it to stop. I want my life back.

My mom described it the other day as, "All the light has gone from her eyes. Its like she's not experiencing any joy anymore. I mean there are happy moments, but its not true joy."

Any clue on how to help fix this? I mean its gotten so bad that when I didn't show up to school this morning because I was at the doctors, my boyfriend thought that I committed suicide or something and was seriously freaked out.

Any thoughts?
-Shaky/Jessi

Well I know for stress massage therapy is really good, get your bf to maybe give you a massage, it really makes you feel better :3 (only if he knows what hes at, other wise he could make worse stress ^^'')

lantob


XxFluffy Bunny PoopxX

PostPosted: Wed Dec 29, 2010 5:54 am


Well maybe your just stressed out, But if you think its geting really bad maybe you should get some anti-depressaites. They really helped me out alot. maybe they will do the same for you hun.
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