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 Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 1:19 pm
okay i guess to try and explain my issues is that i have massive rejection issues and trust problams but ontop of it all, all the people i like are striaght for the most part and one of my friends is trying to put me with her ex girlfriend but like i said i have trust and refection issues so i have this thing were i think that no one realy likes me even though i no thats not true,
but any way when i'm around my friends and stuff i'm realy laid back and flirty lol
i can flirt with my friends witch is kinda a problam i guess becouse the people i like are in my friend group so they see that as normal and so one part of my friends knows i like one of my friend and the other friend knows i like the other so its this massive mind game thing going on but when it comes to the person i realy like being alone with them i become realy realy shy and quit i have low confidence and i'm afraid if i tell them i like them i will lose them as a friend or make things aqward......i dont' no what to do
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 4:34 pm
Talk to one of your best friends about it first and get information from them. Or, you could try to come out of your shell. I have the same problem. I am taken at the moment but when I like someone, I can't tell them that I like them because I think that they don't like me back, I will get rejected, or Ijust can't find the courage. Sometimes, I just want to blurt it out and it slips but other than that, I keep to myself.
Some people might go for you because you are quiet at times. That is what my girlfriend goes for. The quiet type. She got my to open up and be more optimistic.
Hope this helps confused Not very good at advice
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Posted: Tue Dec 15, 2009 5:49 pm
Your first paragraph really sounds like me.. And your second one i guess haha.. Just hang out one on one with the person you like, and let a bond form between you and just become really good friends and you can tell them it worked for me : ]
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