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 Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:30 pm
Okay, I did one of the most honest things this morning... I tell my parents ^.^
Neat huh? Well, my Mom thinks that I need to adhere to new kerfew rules, friend policies, etc. Well here's the thing, all my closest friends are straight! I told her that and she still thinks that I spend all the time I have with them fooling around... I mean, I'm still a virgin for cryin out loud!
What do I do? Do I rebel because my friends are important, or do I try to adhere to her new policies and hope for the best???
It's killing me! crying
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 8:38 pm
be yourself and don't change
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 8:46 pm
Try to evade making parental units angry...
And if you have to do it over long periods of time.
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 11:41 pm
Try to talk to your parents and have them understand that you don't just fool around with everybody, JUST because you're not straight. And make sure you don't get angry at them if they don't listen, I know it's hard but try not to get upset..
Good luck!
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 11:03 am
Tell you parents to respect you for who you are, not give you stricter guidlines for you to follow.
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 11:47 am
See they all give helpful advice ^.^
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 1:25 pm
What ever you do, don't move out or have shouting matches with them. I did this and the only purpost it served was to make some hard feelings between us. Not to mention if you burn the bridges behind you, then later when you need help with anything, they are4 not likely to help you in ANY way.
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 11:58 am
i avoid these problems by keeping things like this to myself from my parents, but for your case ask them y things should be any different, the oppertunities would have been the same for you wiether you were gay or not and so far you've used your good judgement. something like anyways, but i don't know your parents, that's just something along those lines i would have done if i was in your shoes
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 12:18 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 12:55 pm
just act like you're following what she says, she can't follow you around school, can she? don't worry, just don't have your friends over for a while, and she'll think you're being good
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 12:55 pm
HayRider Okay, I did one of the most honest things this morning... I tell my parents ^.^ Neat huh? Well, my Mom thinks that I need to adhere to new kerfew rules, friend policies, etc. Well here's the thing, all my closest friends are straight! I told her that and she still thinks that I spend all the time I have with them fooling around... I mean, I'm still a virgin for cryin out loud! What do I do? Do I rebel because my friends are important, or do I try to adhere to her new policies and hope for the best??? It's killing me! crying It depends on her policies, try to reach and agreement, negotiate. neutral
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 1:43 pm
wordman just act like you're following what she says, she can't follow you around school, can she? don't worry, just don't have your friends over for a while, and she'll think you're being good
3nodding
Good advice
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 1:43 pm
If you do negotiate, start out higher then what you really want so that way theres a good chance that you'll get what you really want...or something really close to it.
*hugs*
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 9:12 am
Hey thanks guys,
Your advice was taken in and used. We worked something out ^_^
Thanks to all of you, and i give you as much credit as I give myself. I'm happy that I don't have that hidden information inside of me any more to say the least... But yeah, my distant family knows now too, so who knows what they'll thing of me at the Christmas party rolleyes
Wish me luck ^_^
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 8:56 am
id have to disagree with the majority when they say to follow what they say..
rebel.. by following the stricter rules just ebcause you are a homo is wrong.. and by followign the rules they will just shorten the leash on you until you choke to death with their rules and boundaries. keep hanging with your friends but also explain how being gay doesnt mean being a slut (even though they go hand in ahnd usually) and keep explaining until the blinded and ignorant understand. majority of those who dont accept homosexuality just dont undertsand, all they need is explanations and reality.
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