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ask him out?

Stop bullshitting ******** that s**t, you get him alone, look him straight in the eyes and ask him what his intentions are. "I like you. You know this. I want to take this further. But are you interested? Yes or No."

Don't ******** around with a guy that's going to be a flirt and not give you a yes or no. Not worth your time. And being finicky about talking to him wont get anything done. You know what you have to do. You can do it face to face, on the phone, or through a piece of paper but the thing is you and I both know you have to do it. Just ask him his intentions/out on a date already.

If you're anxious about it, wear something that makes you feel confident, even if it's a ridiculously funny looking hat. Or grab a teddy bear. Something to hold onto that gives you strength. Studies have shown if you have a drink in your hand, especially a warm one, you're more likely to be warm and outgoing. (Though for me, a can in my hand makes me outgoing as ********.)

I don't know your background with psychology but you're making more complicated then it really is. You wanna solve it? You wanna feel better? You wanna stop feeling suicidal? ********. Ask. Him. Need help on what to say? I can give you a range of questions. I can write you a love note. Just as long as you get it done babe. mad