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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:39 pm
ok, so I don't really feel comfortable asking my friends for advice
so there's this girl...(yea one of those questions)
I think she's beautiful and awesome and fun and everything I would want in a girl. The thing is I think she only sees me as a friend and has no interest in a relationship with me.
I hadn't seen her in a long time, and when I saw her last week...I don't know, it just made my day. We went to a convention last week and we were having fun, but then she met this dude and took a pic with him and she was texting him for a while.
I'm not sure if she still is though. I would like to go out with her, but I'm afraid if I let her know ahe might not want to be friends or talk to me anymore...
what do yu guys think I should do? I'm confused
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:43 pm
the best advice i can give is to be honest with her, but dont be overbearing and pressure her about it. iv been in that situation, and i was nervous to, but i asked her anyway, and she said no, that she saw me as a friend. we still talk to this day, and we are still great friends. just dont pressure her, and be completely honest.
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Posted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 7:18 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:43 am
In person or text. Its more heartfelt in person.
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Posted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 11:34 am
well we don't go to the same school , and I don't see her very often. so I was hoping that by asking her out, we would be able to see each other more and maybe have a relationship.
I couldn't take it anymore, so I texted her sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 10:34 pm
psy Squall war well we don't go to the same school , and I don't see her very often. so I was hoping that by asking her out, we would be able to see each other more and maybe have a relationship. I couldn't take it anymore, so I texted her sweatdrop Well what she say?
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Posted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 10:50 pm
Is she still thinking about it? Let us know what she replies. *hope, hope*
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 9:40 am
talk about it with her on an honest level and say that her decision wont change the friendship either way
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:13 am
What did she say when you texted her?
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 1:42 pm
She was a little surprised about it lol she said she's not allowed to go on dates and that she likes the guy she met. She also told me that she won't count me out. I don't know...
it sucks being rejected, even if they do it politely and with good intentions
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 4:48 pm
my friend i feel ur pain ... but the one thing u must do is not give up .... even if all seem to fail, so in other words dont lose hope XD
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 5:43 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 7:56 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 8:50 pm
She didn't totally reject you though.
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Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 7:28 pm
End Crescendo She didn't totally reject you though. lol yea, I never thought of that.
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