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I'm a cuddly guy,

A huggy, kissy, hold on tight as long as I can type of guy...

I'm sure sex is good and all, but all the other gay/bi guys I've met in my area are one night pick-up and take home sex toys.

So, where are the other ones like me?

Yay!

In my younger days I had my share of one night stands. It gets very old, very fast. I want to find someone that wants to spend more than just a couple of hours with me. Its damn hard to find that here. Nobody wants to be seen out and about because of the damn culture. All those that don't care about being seen are the ones that only want the one night thing.

I need to move to a bigger city or something.

Are you forgetting about me love?

I feel the same way. I think it is just because I am too serious that most guys don't like me. They alwasy say" I want someone funny, and outgoing, and immature, and childish, and hugable, and blah blah blah blah blah!" I am not all that, but i am still available. And Most of the guys who want someone like that donet usually stay with someone that long because they don't fit their criteria, but the sex is good, so there's something. I am serious. I am kind. I am stone faced. I am the protector. I am the one used to cuddle agaisnt when you need to get your mind off of something or jsut to relax. I am a lover who is not there just ofr the sex and will only accept it if and only if there is a connection that i think witll lsast. i don't like waisting my time. I like someone childish, but with somewhit so i am not standign there like an idiot next to someone who is self obsorbed and ignorant becasue they thnk they can get away with their flawas becasue of their looks. I want someone who I can talkwith inteligently with. Someone who shares my interestsa dn an appriciation for art and theater. A relation silled with art, trust, love, romance, intense passion and compatability. I may not be most's up of tea, but I am a real guy who doesn't do one night stands. I (sadly) grade people on the spot to see if it will even remotely work. i am not trying to be consided either. i'm no big catch myself, but if you hand around me long enough you will realize that I am someone who knows himself. Someone of valor. And you will see that when the mood takes me I can be quite sweetheart, but alast I am yet to find a guy who will accept me for me. Women have shown more promise than men. If only, if only. So, I'll ask your question again. Where the bloody hell are they?!