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Prince Souldragon

Dapper Genius

PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 5:26 pm


Soooo... I want to tell my friends but uh... Im really not quite sure how to break the news to them. And google isnt much help repeating the same thing over and over. Anyone got some advice? (They are always in a group btw so I guess it'll need to be all at once)
PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 8:03 pm


Do you know for sure that you can trust your friends? Or, how would you feel if the news that you're gay got out in public? Not that I am suspicious of your friends, but y'know, people gossip.

Maybe invite them all over to your house just to hang out (so it's private and not in a public setting) and then just in the midst of conversation tell them you have something important to say, and let it out. Or tell them when you're hanging out some time, etc, just as long as other people won't overhear if you don't want them to.

It can be scary but it's so much better when you get stuff like this off your shoulders.

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Prince Souldragon

Dapper Genius

PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 9:40 pm


Wish it were so simple. This is a large group - a good 20-30 people. 22 of whom havent been to my house... And yeah, my friends do tend to gossip a lot, so it'd probably get out. My friends proly wouldn't care though cause almost all of them are HUGE fans of Yaoi, Yuri, ect... Even to the extent of *ahem* hardcore stuff.

Is it nice to not have stuff on your shoulders? I can't even remember such a time =/

EDIT biggrin ue to a bit of carelessness on my part one of my friends found a certain post and he knows. Huh, wonder why he didn't say anything erlier.

EDIT2: Probably because he was necroing old posts from nearly a week ago...(he found it about 2 hours ago (7:00)) It'd be nice to know I can trust this particular person but im on VERY uneven footing with said person atm sweatdrop
PostPosted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 9:27 pm


No one else? I still cant find anything on google either... Ah well. Guess Ill need to be creative!

Prince Souldragon

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