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 Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 10:21 am
Dear Jack,
I really messed things up with a girl that I really like last night.
You see we went out to the show, and then had dinner afterwards. We were in my car and fogging up the windows.
Well, To get to the point. She had wanted too, and I didnt come prepared.
She said not too worry about it, that she had it covered. Well my concience
Kicked in, and I didn't do anything for fear of one getting her pregnant, and two catching a STD or something from her. I took her immediatly home.
She cussed me out, and called me a few other things. I really like this girl,
But she said that she didn't want too see me any more. I do not know if I should call her, or send flower's and apologieze, or what??
Can you help me out Jack with what I should do?
Thank you in advance. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 11:18 am
WOW..That is a tough one, and I salute you for walking away from the temptation to go thru with it regardless of how tempting the situation must have been for you.
I also commend you for thinking with your head that has a brain, and not the one below your belt line. Alot of guys would of went thru with it for the immediate cratification of the moment, and would of left the girl hanging in the breeze with the aftermath of problems. but you thought of her first by what your telling me, which also tells me that your a pretty good guy with a level head on his shoulders and also that you did the honorable and morale thing at the time.
If this girl that you really like doesn't understand that, and she doesn't understand what and why you did what you did. Then to be honest with you. You really do not need her in your life, you may want her, but you really don't need her. I suggest that you give it a couple of days to let her cool down and if she hasn't called you, You call her and explain to her why you did what you did and that you were thinking of her first and both of your futures. If she still doesn't understand that after you have explained it too her, Well there are plenty of girls out there that do want a gentleman. I wish you all the luck in the world on this and I'll keep you in my prayer's that GOD will send the right girl your way. Please let me know how it all turns out for you. Love,Luck,and Rose's to you my friend, and may the Angels always watch over you and your's!-Jack.-C.C.K.-
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Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 12:50 pm
Thanks Jack! I'll take your advice and keep you posted.
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 2:37 pm
Well Jack. I went up to that girl today and asked her to sit down as so that I could explain what and why from the other night.
She did not want to hear about it or how I felt about her or the situation.
So long story short, I dumped her. The way I look at it is there are other girls out there that do want a nice guy, and I can be picky till I find the right one. Thanks again. smile
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:04 pm
No worries mate. Best of luck to you on the hunt. If I can ever be of any help in the future with any other problems or questions. Feel free to contact me this way or by PM or comment. I will do my best to help you out if I can. GOD bless you and yours!! -C.C.K.- (Jack). smile
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