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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 9:04 am
I'm a senior in High school and there is this girl who won't leave me alone. She is in my second period and also my lunch period. She follows me on Twitter, somehow found my phone number and email, and my adress and has been sending me letters. She knows i'm gay and taken but I'm afraid she might kill and rape me in my sleep or something
PS Nice to see my suggestion became a popular subforum thanks crew pplz!!!
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 1:26 pm
I'm not exactly sure what you need help with here, but I guess it's getting her off your back? xp
Have you told her that you're not interested? Even if she knows you're taken, she may not take that as a no. Some people need to hear it in person. (Tip: Do not say it badass style, tell her gently. If not, she may try to bust your a** somehow. rolleyes )
Otherwise, I guess I can't give you much more advise than blocking her. (You can do that on both websites, email and/or phone.) If it turns out waaaay more serious, I suggest you report her to the police. It may seem awkward, but if neccecary, do it. Hope this helped somewhat. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 1:49 pm
Cows go moo, ducks go quack i'm the first to sign your crack (pshh you wish xD) Obvously is she's stalking you, she must really like you. Have you tried getting on her nerves? For example if she really hates something like Bugs for spiders. Annoy her with them, buy fake bugs and send her a letter back with them in it. Sure it sounds mean and it may hurt her feelings but it'll kind of be worth it when she leaves you alone. I would also suggest haveing one of your friends or a relative stalk her to show her how it feels. Sort of like a prank, but only for a short peroid of time along with lableing her as crazy-salker-person (though lables arent that efficent...). Other than that I have no clue what else to tell you. Hope everything works out. Wow what's her problem? o-o? (im insane what do you expect? xD)
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 2:47 pm
Have you tried being blunt with her about your lack of feelings for her? You should also try to be switched out of your classes with her if you can, to really force the issue. Also try blocking her number, and ignoring her on Twitter. If she still persists, maybe try to get the school to intervene.
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:13 pm
Obviously you're being stalked. And her knowing that you're taken wont stop her if she's really interested. try blocking your number, or change it if possible. Block your twitter also. you could always make a new e-mail account also and give it to people you trust that wont give it to that girl. you could also report her for harassment, because i know what it feels like to be stalked, it's not a good feeling, i would seriously report it to the police if it becomes to out of hand. Hope i helped somewhat. =3
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:21 pm
Hmm touch her boob it worked for me, when i had a girl that wouldn't leave me alone
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 1:06 am
Be an a*****e. Not directly to her, but do tons of stuff that she doesn't like. It might take a few days, but soon her interest will decrease, most likely. Then again, if she's psycho... so far, it doesn't sound like she's taking it to truly insane levels. For instance, she apparently knows your address. However, she hasn't shown up at your house, I take it? Make her dislike you (or at least lose some interest in you) before it progresses.
But, you know... if she knows you're gay and taken, she could be one of those girls who's obsessed with the idea of two guys together. XD Not incredibly likely, judging by what you said, though... and usually girls like that (I have friends) are a lot less creepy (at least in person).
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 1:50 am
Give me her info I'll make sure she never talks to you again.
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 3:15 am
Try advoiding her and if that doesn't report her to the officers at your school and if she still is stalking go to the police and file a restring order aganist her.
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 2:52 pm
I would say ask her straight, clear, and consice. If you're too shy or afraid (definately me), just ask a close friend. I would say do it in person, not over phone or Internet, since you can see her body reaction as well.
I would start with "What do you want?" or "Why do you keep on following me?"
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Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 9:26 pm
Although her raping and/or killing you is sort of a worst case scenario, if she is bugging you, first tell her really nicely that she is making you uncomfortable, and ask her to "give you some space".
If she doesn't take this well, or if she persists any more after you have told her the situation, then basically it's a case of harassment, and you can report her to a teacher, the principal, or any other staff member at your school. You can also tell your parents if she is giving you home issues. Do not be afraid to talk to your parents about her bugging you. It doesn't matter if it is a girl or guy, if someone is harassing you, it needs to stop.
If the thought of being assaulted is not an exaggeration and a fully realized fear, you can also consider having your parents call the police.
Also, DO NOT do anything to get revenge on her. It makes you the bad guy to the authority figure, (especially since you're a guy).
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Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 3:26 pm
Best I can say is if you tell her to leave you alone and she doesn't, call the police. If shes harassing you and you've told her to stop, you can get a restraining order on her. It almost came to that with my ex bf. I wouldn't give her attention, cuz thats what shes looking for.
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Posted: Sat Dec 12, 2009 9:25 am
If you're with your bf near her start making out with him if she sees that she'll have second thoughts about following u
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Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:47 pm
Last time I had a stalker I just started to talk s**t to my friends who were also her friends, about how she followed me all the time and other stuff too. Eventually she got the hint, I'm to serious for a person who only talks about anime....and trust me she ruins alot of them for people by just talking about it.
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Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:47 pm
Last time I had a stalker I just started to talk s**t to my friends who were also her friends, about how she followed me all the time and other stuff too. Eventually she got the hint, I'm to serious for a person who only talks about anime....and trust me she ruins alot of them for people by just talking about it.
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