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I'm so irritated with Drew's BFF.
She seems pretty arrogant and shallow to me from the times I've met her, but I've tried my best to be polite and cordial with her.
And part of my irritation is from my jealous and envy, I know. I should be the girl he's spending tons of time with, not her. However as of now that's impossible.
But fuuuck.
He comes to see me once every OTHER week. (I go to him the other week.) So once while he was at my house, she wanted to hang out, but of course he couldn't cause he was an hour and a half away with me. She texted him back to dump me so they could have fun again.
Wtf. How rude is that. I'm sorry Drew found someone he wants to pursue a relationship with and not just get shitfaced. That's bullshit. And even though she said she was just kidding when Drew told her I was mad, it still stung. It just makes me pissed when he mentions her and how much fun they have together.
I understand they're bffs, and I'm not saying they should break their friendship or that he can't have girls as friends, but... yeah. >[

Reeeow. Cat fight.

wat.

I've tried ignoring it, but like, I don't think she knows how much of a b***h she is. I talked to drew and he said he thinks it's because she's jealous no one wants to go out with her right now.

He did. She said she didn't want him.

Visit her house with a tray of freshly baked cookies and a pistol.

Recite the following at gunpoint.*

"b***h, when you start slobbing his knob, you can call the shots, but until then, stay the ******** out of my life. I don't give a ******** who you think you are, or who you think you know, or how important you think you are. I. Will. ********. You. Up.

Enjoy the cookies! 4laugh "

Hand them to her and then leave.

*Please note that this is illegal in all fifty states. EL OH EL

DDD:
Wtf. That's pretty rude.
I think I would play nice with her for now, but keep a close eye on her secretly. e__e

I hope this doesn't come off too harsh, because I don't mean to be, but it does sound just like major jealousy issues rather than her actually being a b***h. Of course I don't know her so I can't really make that judgement, but based off what you've told us, your main gripe with her is that she spends time with your boyfriend. Even if she is arrogant and shallow as you said, it's not like you hang out with her so what's the deal?

She was clearly kidding with the text thing. There's probably a bit of jealousy there but there's clearly jealousy from both sides then. But I dunno, I think that's kinda normal rather than her having a secret uber crush on your boyfriend. We're all somewhat possessive of our friends.

I mean, at the end of the day, your boyfriend is unlikely to stop seeing this girl, she's his friend. And I don't think it's particularly right to make him choose between the two of you, if it comes down to that. That leaves you as the only person who can really do anything about this situation.

So again, I'm sorry if I'm way out of order here but it's what I think about this situation, given my super limited knowledge and this one side that I've seen.

Same.

I had a friend say that I should do better than Nick, and to find a "real" man, and I flipped.