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 Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:54 pm
Well, the sad news is that my great uncle (who is my gran's younger brother, that would be called great uncle right?) had died on Saturday. My gran, her other brother, and sis. My mum, her brothers, my aunt, dad and me went to visit him for the last time, yesterday.
Almost everyone immediately started crying as soon as they saw him. I was the second person to go in, but had to get out as soon as people started crying. I know I will cry alot if people start crying. I still cried but I could still control myself. Even my mum who I never in my whole life seen upset was crying.
Im not overly upset that he died but, its just weird to think that he's no longer there, and everyone crying didnt help.
After we visted him, I went straight to uni.
The night went ok as I got use to the house. Though now we "might" have a problem. When I was taking a shower, the water kept rising, I thought the drians was a little blocked, so I ignored it and finish up quickly, (since it was a standing shower, not a bathtub one, so therel ittle room for too much water).
Anwyay, got out. And went in my room, dried my hair etc etc. I went back just to check if it went down. Which it hasnt, and I saw the water in the toilet had risen up a bit, with all mucky water.
Well I called our landlord, though it said to leave a message, which i DId. Thoug during which, my housemate tried flushing the toilet, and that seem to have worked since the water in the toiler and the shower immedaitely went down.
For NOW, its ok...just not sure whether its gona repeat again when someone use the shower. Which I take quite long, so Im just like, I dont want to use it....
-sigh- We're gona see how its goes, but the landlord might call us back so I'll probly tell him anyway just to see if he thinks we need to call someone.
Anyway, apart from that. I am bored.....And it doesnt help that I internet randomly shut off earlier....Its a good thing there is a tv here....though theres nothing to watch most the time....
-Anyone you never thought would cry, have cried?
-Cry when other people are crying/says something thats only considered 2% sad? (I seriously cry at ANYTHING remotely sad, being put on the spot, being talk about even if its not anything bad..<<...I need to sort myself out..)
-Stupid siblings that get you to do their homeworkhelp with their homework
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:00 pm
Sorry for your lose.
I know what it's like to have a loved one pass away.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:06 pm
There was a time that the pieces fit... I'm fortunate enough to not have anyone die in my family besides my grandpa and great aunt. But I have a feeling these fossils are gonna start dropping like flies here soon so it'd be very sad for me. I just need to accept people wont stay around forever and to love them as they are now.
Clogged shower? I clogged my own shower with my own hair and it was GROOOSSSS..... I fixed it though. It was manly my hair from my head. I shed like a wooly mamoth.
I cried during UP; apparently I was long due for crying since it's bee 2 years since I last cried and I balled like a baby that whole movie... before it even started. How dumb am I? ... But I watched them fall away
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:26 pm
Aw PL that's so cute. whee
I'm sorry about your great uncle.
Mostly I cry about stupid things rather than about people dying in such. For example, I didn't cry when my great aunt died. I had to tell my sister and I had to stop myself from smiling. Not that it was funny, I just didn't know how to handle it. I don't know why, but I'm much better at crying about more trivial things.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:36 pm
Simplified Arabic Aw PL that's so cute. whee I'm sorry about your great uncle. Mostly I cry about stupid things rather than about people dying in such. For example, I didn't cry when my great aunt died. I had to tell my sister and I had to stop myself from smiling. Not that it was funny, I just didn't know how to handle it. I don't know why, but I'm much better at crying about more trivial things. lol. I'd cry at nearly anything...Which is a little annoying, not to mention embarasing. @Lilac when I was small, I never thought about it, even after the death of another relative, I was still like, normal. Its not until now that I think, that people are just gona start leaving soon. like my grandparents and great uncle/aunts. Same here, my hair always come out...I think I might have clogged our shower last year >>;
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:52 pm
I'm sorry for the loss of your great uncle hun. Loosing a family member does hurt, but like sex-san said, we just need to realize that everyone will come and go eventually.
I, too, tend to cry a lot. Not just over hard tough stuff either. I cry and almost any little thing, it can be pretty embarressing >.>
Only person who I thought I would never see cry was my dad. I thought he was this person who never cried, but when his parents (my grandfolks) divorced, I saw him cry for the very first time. It felt odd, and I didn't know what to do as in comfort.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:55 pm
saturnwonder I'm sorry for the loss of your great uncle hun. Loosing a family member does hurt, but like sex-san said, we just need to realize that everyone will come and go eventually. I, too, tend to cry a lot. Not just over hard tough stuff either. I cry and almost any little thing, it can be pretty embarressing >.> Only person who I thought I would never see cry was my dad. I thought he was this person who never cried, but when his parents (my grandfolks) divorced, I saw him cry for the very first time. It felt odd, and I didn't know what to do as in comfort. I know, same here. I didnt really know what to do. And also I really dont know what to say in those situation as well. Especially when normally they are the ones that look after me my whole life....
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 3:04 pm
nwfan13_jez saturnwonder I'm sorry for the loss of your great uncle hun. Loosing a family member does hurt, but like sex-san said, we just need to realize that everyone will come and go eventually. I, too, tend to cry a lot. Not just over hard tough stuff either. I cry and almost any little thing, it can be pretty embarressing >.> Only person who I thought I would never see cry was my dad. I thought he was this person who never cried, but when his parents (my grandfolks) divorced, I saw him cry for the very first time. It felt odd, and I didn't know what to do as in comfort. I know, same here. I didnt really know what to do. And also I really dont know what to say in those situation as well. Especially when normally they are the ones that look after me my whole life.... Exactly. You just kinda stand there, confused and not sure what to do.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 10:06 pm
" I thought I had someone die, but he lied ^^ Um but I remember when my great grandmother died. It was before I was even TOLD. I grabbed my mom when she picked me up and I cried screaming "Where's grandma?!"
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 8:48 am
i've been to several funerals in my lifetime, but the only one i remember feeling any sense of loss for, or even remotely remembering anything about the person was my great-grandmother sometime earlier this year. we never talked much because she only spoke French, so if she understood me speaking English i could only barely understand her. she's the only one i remember with any clarity when going to the funeral because...well, even if i never understood her, she's been alive my whole life. but i didn't cry, and i don't mean to make that sound harsh or anything, i just didn't feel enough connection to her to cry.
i'm sure my friends or brother are surprised when i cry sweatdrop i'm known to be the strong one, the one that takes things as they go, but it takes a lot of stress and stuff to make me reach my breaking point in recent years (i used to be a real crybaby in elementary school). i am more likely to break down into tears if someone else is crying, especially if it's someone i'm close to like a friend or my brother. off the top of my head, the last form of fictional media (be it anime, manga, movie, or book) i cried at was the movie Click, and i seriously don't know why. it was at a special movie night at the theatre and i was with a friend. he'd fallen asleep at that point so i wasn't as embarrassed. maybe things were really stressful at the time and the movie was what made me break. i dunno.
otherwise...i can't remember a time where i've seen my mom or dad cry, and i just can't imagine them doing so.
i offered to do my brother's homework once, but that was because there was a chore i didn't want to do sweatdrop he didn't want to do it either, but he got away scot-free because he had homework stare
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