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Well... I think in about 9 months I may be on an episode of Jerry Springer.

Now... Let me introduce the characters in this drama. There's the good friend and his fiance. This friend of mine had to fly home from College for Thanksgiving but his fiance is from the same home town as myself so I offered to give her a ride. The ride down was fine, no big deal. I brought another friend down with us so it wouldn't be just her and I. Anywho, the trip back up was yesterday. My other friend couldn't go with us so it was just her and I. The trip itself went fine, just listening to music and such. We got to the dorm and we had about 4 hours to wait until her better half arrived from the airport. She was a bit... not subtle. One thing lead to another and while I normally jump at the chance for easy sex. But y'know, friends fiance is normally off limits. I sat there for about an hour resisting all my basic urges until she pretty much forcefully pushed me on the bed and stripped me. After we finished, we had to rush to get dressed to go pick up my friend from the airport. We get there and pretend like nothing happened. Later that night, she reveals that her breasts felt bigger, she was getting morning sickness, and craving weird things. So yeah, all in all I ******** my good friends fiance about 30 minutes before we picked him up at the airport and she might be pregnant with his kid.

Now then, telling him is not an option. So, any suggestions other than just not hanging out with them anymore on how to deal with this situation?

Well it can't happen like that. It takes weeks before women notice any symtoms of pregnancy.

Even if she's lying, you still need to tell your friend the truth. You betrayed his friendship, and his girlfriend sounds like a lying whore. Be prepared for your friend to be upset and/or angry with the both of you. I would be too if I were in his place.

Once you've told your friend, then the 3 of you can go from there. But he needs to know.

If you choose not to take our advice, that's fine. But if he's your friend, and if you cared about your friendship with him, you'd tell him. Why? Because he's going to be more pissed if he hears about it from his fiance, or worse, from someone else outside of your little triangle. And considering you slept with his fiance, regardless of the fact she might already be pregnant with his child, he has a right to know.

If you don't tell him and he finds out from her, or from someone else (like anyone you or she might have talked to about it)... then what? I don't know how your friend thinks, but I think I'd feel more betrayed by the lack of honesty than by the act itself.

I also think if he's your friend you'd want to prevent him from marrying someone who's fooling around on him behind his back before they're even married! And does he know she is saying she's pregnant and that he's the father?

Come to think of it, you really need to talk to your friend. Stop worrying about how it will affect you, and do the right thing for your friend. In the long run, you'll feel better about it if you do... and you and your friend will probably get past this, but you have to think about what's best for your friend for that to happen. Even if it's uncomfortable or strains the friendship now.