When I moved to a bigger city... well Toronto. I join "gta_Lolita" which is the local community in Toronto meaning "Greater Toronto Area". I went to a local convention, met some nice people and so on. But recently I noticed how horrible some of the people are. When I went of "Gtfo" (for those of you who know it) there was a post by another girl in my community about my now good friend Jackie.
Here are some of the GTFO "worthy" things she did.
Wore a Offbrand dress with polyester lace, and deleted a rude comment. Makes things and sells them. ALSO she asked two questions on her local community.
Now with normal people, it would have to happen again and again and again for some one to get annoyed. But not this chick (Vanity), it was more like she was just looking for drama and someone to hate. She started thread to when Jackie "deleted a comment"
Jackie was suggested a bodyline order and this girl "Aya" said it would be cheaper go through an order in the U.S . Turns shipping doesn't only deliver Lolita and my friend had experience with large orders. When you ship with an professional company, they will make exceptions for you. They wrote down every item in the package to avoid customs. Which worked, but they still acted like she was a noob who new nothing. When they new nothing themselves.
Then she invited a man who goes by the name of Cindy to a picnic. He is into Lolita and also fetish, but knows the difference between the two. The community didn't want him to come... It was heartbreaking because if you know even a little about cross dressing or even fetish it's not all about sex. I grew up with alot of transsexuals/drag-queens. They think of themselves as women and want to fit in. He didn't want to come to "have sex with us" because that's not what Lolita is about.
The only thing I do understand was that there were younger girls going to be at the meet up. The girls didn't want there mothers thinking it was fetish. Still, that is no reason to hate someone who invites him is it?
The ironic part is that the women who was "concerned" about the younger girls is a 45 year old women also into fetish.
Well Jackie apologized for all that she did, and took all the fault. Even though where was nothing to apologize for in my view.
Well apparently this was the last straw, they are making a whole new comm just to get rid of her... which was the most excessive think I think anyones ever done on one of these communities.
Here's another ironic part, the new leader of community is 10x worse then she is. She had one Lolita dress and died it black. it turn out navy blue with the threads still white. The lace was also horrid as well. She also wears cat years to Lolita meet ups, not "attached to a hood" cat years but full on brown fuzzy head band cat ears
I really don't want to be part of a local comm like that. But I don't want to miss out on other great people either.
I have no idea what do about the situation, what do you think?
