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 Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:47 pm
Other sexualities can look down on it and some people say that bisexuality isn't real. Others say that all bisexuals are perverts (well, I'm a pervert 8XP, but that doesn't mean all bisexuals are). Another thing about bisexuality is that sexuality isn't black, white, and one shade gray. There are a multitude of different hues of gray in the mix. There isn't one type of bisexual at all. There are many kinds and they vary between each bisexual person.
I'm a bisexual straight, because I'm probably somewhere between 1/2 and 1/3 gay. It doesn't mean that I'm a straight person pretending to be bi to get the girls like some losers at school. Even though I'm slightly more to the straight side, that didn't stop me from dressing my avi in flamboyant capes, making a yaoi porn story between Mega Man and Kung-Foo Kid, looking at naked male furries (for some reason, I like them as much or even more than female furries) in sexy poses, and having a really good boyfriend.
I don't like people who pretend to be bisexual just so they can have people of the opposite sex like them. Their selfish purposes makes it tougher for real bisexuals to come out, especially ones like me.
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:57 pm
Well I do agree but think about how bad trans have it.Most people think we're mentally screwed up because we want to be the other gender and because of that we get slammed on more than most.Not to mention that we get to deal with therapy and all the stupid government crap.
Lol now imagine being both...
Can you say super suckish?
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:41 pm
Samantha478 Well I do agree but think about how bad trans have it.Most people think we're mentally screwed up because we want to be the other gender and because of that we get slammed on more than most.Not to mention that we get to deal with therapy and all the stupid government crap. Lol now imagine being both... Can you say super suckish?
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 12:35 am
It's true, everyone gets looked down on! Even the so-called "socially acceptable" people get looked down on - by us! Or, well, maybe not us, necessarily... but they do. We all do. Why? Because people are different, and we all have this subconscious belief that our point of view is the best one. Why? Because it's ours. It is right and correct to us.
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Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 7:04 am
I can so relate to you about that. Im bisexual and I have had people that wont date me cus they think im always gonna want to opposite gender and not be fine with just 1
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 1:36 am
It's tricky, i will say. So much pressure to chose! And so much misunderstanding. I got so annoyed at one friend who assumed every chick who likes girls wants to be a guy.
And then there's that irritating presumption that it means you will screw anyone, which automatically makes you a whore. Not true!
Just because i'm bisexual does not mean i crack on to every girl i know, nor is it because i want to impress some boy.
I just know i am capable of loving either a man or a women.
Damn stereotypes. And how can anyone say bisexual isn't real? That doesn't make sense to me.
Bi pride smile
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 7:16 am
lifes4fun It's tricky, i will say. So much pressure to chose! And so much misunderstanding. I got so annoyed at one friend who assumed every chick who likes girls wants to be a guy. And then there's that irritating presumption that it means you will screw anyone, which automatically makes you a whore. Not true! Just because i'm bisexual does not mean i crack on to every girl i know, nor is it because i want to impress some boy. I just know i am capable of loving either a man or a women. Damn stereotypes. And how can anyone say bisexual isn't real? That doesn't make sense to me. Bi pride smile Totally agree! I've been with my partner (who's male and also bi) for the past 2 years with no want to stray.
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 7:41 am
Samantha478 Well I do agree but think about how bad trans have it.Most people think we're mentally screwed up because we want to be the other gender and because of that we get slammed on more than most.Not to mention that we get to deal with therapy and all the stupid government crap. Lol now imagine being both... Can you say super suckish? God, I feel you there. Everything thinks I'm just 'confused' or because despite identifying as transgendered sometimes I still like to crossdress as female, especially for halloween and such, I should 'make up my mind'....what if I don't want to?! Add to that being bi/pansexual...haha, yeah...trying to get people to believe you're for real is like convincing them Santa Claus still exists.
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Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 1:09 pm
SnakeHips_92 Samantha478 Well I do agree but think about how bad trans have it.Most people think we're mentally screwed up because we want to be the other gender and because of that we get slammed on more than most.Not to mention that we get to deal with therapy and all the stupid government crap. Lol now imagine being both... Can you say super suckish? God, I feel you there. Everything thinks I'm just 'confused' or because despite identifying as transgendered sometimes I still like to crossdress as female, especially for halloween and such, I should 'make up my mind'....what if I don't want to?! Add to that being bi/pansexual...haha, yeah...trying to get people to believe you're for real is like convincing them Santa Claus still exists.Very true and I'm sure much easier
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Posted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 5:09 pm
People don't give bisexuality enough credit. = it's really hard to have mixed feelings for both guys and girls and trying to figure out which you like more and sometimes having to hide it out of fear. It sucks. A lot. And when there's some chick who's just a stupid nympho or bar-sexual chick, I want to just smack them across the face because it's so wrong to toy with someone who actually likes girls.
It's confusing.
I think I like boys a little more... 55/45..
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 12:30 pm
I read some horrible blogg on this theme (some years ago)...
It was a women writing about gay and bi ppl. And she wrote something like:
"I guess gay-ppl are ok, I mean they don't know better. But bi-ppl on the other hand, what's wrong with them? They can at least choose the right gender..."
And then she went on and on about that ppl who where bi just messed up there life with having some unnecessary sexuality...
I was angry about this b***h in over a week.... stressed
I'm still angry when I think about it... sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 2:30 pm
I guess being anything other than straight is difficult.
I agree though, I often times feel out of place. For instance, why can't the GSA include bisexuals in it's name?
I just don't understand why other people don't understand that bisexuals are just very liberal/loving people who can see beauty in all people/genders.
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 6:57 pm
ReyKWU Other sexualities can look down on it and some people say that bisexuality isn't real. Others say that all bisexuals are perverts (well, I'm a pervert 8XP, but that doesn't mean all bisexuals are). Another thing about bisexuality is that sexuality isn't black, white, and one shade gray. There are a multitude of different hues of gray in the mix. There isn't one type of bisexual at all. There are many kinds and they vary between each bisexual person.
I'm a bisexual straight, because I'm probably somewhere between 1/2 and 1/3 gay. It doesn't mean that I'm a straight person pretending to be bi to get the girls like some losers at school. Even though I'm slightly more to the straight side, that didn't stop me from dressing my avi in flamboyant capes, making a yaoi porn story between Mega Man and Kung-Foo Kid, looking at naked male furries (for some reason, I like them as much or even more than female furries) in sexy poses, and having a really good boyfriend.
I don't like people who pretend to be bisexual just so they can have people of the opposite sex like them. Their selfish purposes makes it tougher for real bisexuals to come out, especially ones like me. Yeah I agree, when I came out to my parents they didn't believe me at first my dad kept saying, "you can only be gay or straight, not both." and my mom didn't believe me for the longest time either, she said that bisexuality was a choice. Well, I certainly didn't choose, its just the way I am. And I do get the pervert thing that pisses me off too, even though I myself am also a perv 3nodding it doesn't mean that every bisexual you met is too. My Girlfriend is bi like me and shes not a perv at all.
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 7:49 pm
WARNING! LONG ANGRY RANT AHEAD, WHILE IT'S NOT INTENDED TO BE BIPHOBIC IT MIGHT COME OFF AS SUCH, YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED
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While I understand that a lot of Bisexual people are mad that people don't believe them, you don't have it worse, you aren't looked down on(Except when you COMPLAIN).
If nobody every faked being Bi for any reason, then nobody would ever question Bisexuals, and then being Bisexual would be a blessing.
If you're Bi then you still CAN ignore GLTQ(The B is left out in this example on purpose) problems, if you so choose you can settle down with somebody of the opposite sex and never have anybody spit on you or disown you or shout "f*****t!" at you or even hear "Stop being so sensitive!" when you object to having f*****t shouted at you. While Straight people get 45%(The other 55% is gay people of the opposite sex and people of the same-sex) population as potential parters based on Gender and sexuality alone, And Gay people get 5%(The other 95% is straight people and people of the opposite sex) of the population as potential partners. Bisexual people get 95% of the population based on gender and sexuality alone(The other 5% is gay people of the opposite sex)
If you're Gay, or Trans-gendered you have no choice but to get involved in GLBTQ problems, Even if I hated politics and just wanted to live a normal life, I Can't, because I only like men and 95% of men don't like me and might even try to hurt me if I tell them I like them. And if I want to settle down with a husband and have kids, well I can't, because I have to fight for that right.
there are over 38 states I can't go to because there are no hate crime laws or anti-discrimination laws, so if I go there then somebody could bash my skull in and there is a good chance they'll get away free, and my boyfriend wouldn't be able to visit me in the hospital, and the doctors can decide they don't want to treat a f*****t. And if I tried to LIVE in that state? I could get evicted and lose my job because I'm gay.
If you're Bi, you don't have to worry about ANY of that, you CAN, but you don't HAVE to, You get a choice in getting involved.
So before you complain about people not BELIEVING you(Which is the only problem gay people ever have with Bi people besides being whiny about not being believed) remember that you're still lucky, because you still have a choice about whether or not people will discriminate against you. And people going "Are you REALLY Bisexual?" should be the least of your problems.
Don't blame Gay people and say we "Look down" on you, blame the people who lie about being Bi for creating the need to be untrustworthy in the first place. Because you have it WAY better off then we do.
OH! Also, on why the GSA isn't the GBLTQSA, It's because Gay is usually used as an umbrella, and you don't need an alliance to protect Bisexual people from Bashing BECAUSE THEY HAVE A CHOICE IN AVOIDING IT.
I'm not saying BEING Bi is a choice, I'm just saying that if you ARE then you have the choice of dating somebody of same-sex OR Opposite-sex.
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 8:10 pm
sometimes i'm disappointed in myself for being gay and not bisexual, because then i trust my self control enough so that i could just ignore my feelings for girls and act on the ones for guys....
there are some girls at school who say they're bisexual & i have issues trusting them about that. as my english teacher says, "how do you guys do it?! there are girls that like guys and girls that like girls and girls that like girls to get guys' attention and girls who act like they act guys when they really like girls and there are girls that like both and (says the same for guys) GEEEEZ. how do you do it!!! the world is one complicated place, man."
or SOMETHING along those lines.
i wouldn't really want to be in a relationship with someone that is attracted to me only sometimes =/ i say i'm gay simply because it's the most simple and accurate term. if i say i'm bisexual not only will guys think i have a chance, but quite a few people will assume i'm leading towards straight, and a lot of people won't take me seriously, and i'm only bisexual SOMETIMES. yay for hormones notrly. even when i am bisexual most boys are ew. if i say i am it suggests that i'm like that all the time or something, and i don't want to lead anyone on in the very wrong direction D:
when i first heard of the GSA i pictured this diagram for people ranging from gay to straight, meaning that it was for people in the middle too.... same with trannies.
i understand where you guys are coming from. my friend gave me this awesome piece of advice, which was FORGET ABOUT LABELS. like who you like. once i get more comfortable in my skin (i just came out) i'm going to say "i'm gay" less and less, but simply imply that i like girls.
i'm not sure if this works for everyone, but: focus on friendship first. i know that breaking up and stuff can & has ruined friendships, but idk. i wouldn't go out with someone that isn't my friend AS WELL AS such a good friend that even if we DID break up we wouldn't be able to get along. but i guess people change, too, sooooo hmmmm.
rawr people are complicated.
if that person gives you bad vibes just make your crush a controlled crush, if you can. my definition of a controlled crush is where i stop thinking "dannggg i'd like to do this this and this to them", or at least try to. if you can think that without having that aching hunger boil up inside of you (owwww ;-; ), then be my guest. it's still a crush (though controlled!) imo though 'cause yeah i can't help have dreams about them or very much enjoy touching them.
@trans. i cannot relate to that or anything you said o_o (mostly talking about the 2nd post here). i haven't met anyone that dislikes trannies(if that term is offensive to you, sry. idk how to spell the real word >___>). though i guess i've met people that think crossdressing is weird or w/e, but yeah i don't hang out with those people. most of my friends kind of pity you because you're a guy/girl stuck in a girl/guy's body ;____; my friend is a lesbian in a guy's body and ZOMGGGGG I LOVE HIM. n______n he is super cool. that is off topic kind of but oh well.
DON'T YOU LOVE LONG POSTS?! gonk
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