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Mystic_moon15

PostPosted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 9:49 pm


ok this could have gone under prayer and or advise.
but here we go. ok first of all im crying right now so if thr are any major spelling erors im sry.
ok when i was younger i beat by my step dad. and my lil sis told my cusin that he was now beating my lil brother ans possibly her too. iono what i should do now. cause i dont want them to end up like me i really really need help. sombody plz tell me what i should do i cant sleep because of it.plz plz help. crying
PostPosted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 11:58 pm


well i emailed my school councelor and the county sherif was that right?

Mystic_moon15


Mystic_moon15

PostPosted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 5:55 am


will somebody please help me out here i am sooo lost on this hole situation, so like i sed was it the right thing to do that i told the cops or what? and what should i do in the meentime? i feel i cant just sit here and do nothing i am still freakinout and had like only 3-4 hours of sleep last night and my bf go fgure is asleep and he is like the only one who can really calm me down. please tell me what to do? crying confused
PostPosted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 2:02 pm


Mystic_moon15
will somebody please help me out here i am sooo lost on this hole situation, so like i sed was it the right thing to do that i told the cops or what? and what should i do in the meentime? i feel i cant just sit here and do nothing i am still freakinout and had like only 3-4 hours of sleep last night and my bf go fgure is asleep and he is like the only one who can really calm me down. please tell me what to do? crying confused


Hey, hey, hun, just take a few deep breaths and calm down. I think it was the right thing to e-mail those people, just pray that they'll come and sort this out. I don't think there's much you can do beyond that. Just pray. I'm praying for you right now, kay? God'll work this out. Just be calm, and secure in His promises. He said he woruld never leave you or forsake you. He's right there. Can you feel Him holding your hand?
I don't know how, but this'll turn out ok. Trust in God. He does amazing things.
PM me whenever you need to, kay?
Annika

Ginzeng


Seority

PostPosted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 5:22 pm


yeah somebody needs to talk to your step-dad
ill be prayin too
PostPosted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 9:27 pm


thankyou both for your prayers unfortunatly itwont do a bit of good to talk to him cause yes it may stp the beating if theyre lucky but then he will just do as he did to me and verbally and emotionally abuse them instead. some of my bf's friends sed i should call some teen help hotline you think i should do that to? and i have been praying so i hope these prayers will be answered. thing is i swore when i left i wouldnt let it happen to them but now it is and i must help.

Mystic_moon15


ioioouiouiouio

PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 12:54 am


Mystic_moon15
well i emailed my school councelor and the county sherif was that right?

this was absolutely the correct response. In cases of child abuse, authorities must be notified immediatly so that the authorities and intervene before permanent, lasting damage can be inflicted upon the minor(s) involved.

You did the right thing.
PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 7:35 am


Cometh The Inquisitor
Mystic_moon15
well i emailed my school councelor and the county sherif was that right?

this was absolutely the correct response. In cases of child abuse, authorities must be notified immediatly so that the authorities and intervene before permanent, lasting damage can be inflicted upon the minor(s) involved.

You did the right thing.

well im glad i did, too bad no one did for me. but i aslo am posibly going to talk to some abuse hotlines.

Mystic_moon15


allialto

PostPosted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 9:17 am


Well your a very good sister for caring in the first place. youve done better than some would do. My sister abused me so by my standerds you are a living saint.
PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 3:50 pm


allialto
Well your a very good sister for caring in the first place. youve done better than some would do. My sister abused me so by my standerds you are a living saint.
that sux for you. my sister protected me and the strange thing about my younger sibblings and me is i dont really like them cause they drive me nutz( they are 3 and 6 so im sure you get it) but yet i realized i rally do love them. my councelor sed if i decide it is best to get someone involed i should get D.C.F. and gave me the #. ive watched a TV show with something to do with them and my concelour sed they wont take the kids away unless it is life or death but they will have a talk wioth my step dad wich is what i want but i will wait to call and see what happens but if i find any suspitious marks I will call on him. but please continue to keep us in your prayers thankyou.

* I will update as things go on and let you all know if anything comes up.*

Mystic_moon15


Mystic_moon15

PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 8:22 pm


Update on this:
on thursday i found out that somone notifide DCF but the interesting thing is sweatdrop No one has a clue who called. confused My bf sez it is a gift/ sign from God. please pray that all works out.

the reason i know someone called is because a social worker came and talked to me. i told the lady evrything inclueding mypast. but i geuss they also talked to my lil sis and my lil bro too.

*and i geuss my step dad told the people that i had done this all befor about him beating people* Please also pray that these people have enough sence to know he is lieing. thanks.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 2:25 pm


You did the right thing informing authorities. And to calm your nerves I suggest you have a calm conversation with God. Just talk to him and He'll help you out no matter what.

Knowing me though I would get in the way even before anyone of my parents abused my siblings. I care that much. You should not do this though ^_^'' this could seriously get you hurt. the best thing to do is watch over your siblings and keep praying to God for strength!

Tarani Sarihi


Cradoc

PostPosted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 3:15 pm


You did the right thing I hope it gets worked out I'll keep you in my prayers.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 4:42 pm


You did the right thing. I probably would have punched him right in the jaw and contiued till I was locked up. I loose my temper easily. Just keep praying.

Legends_of_Aloria


Mystic_moon15

PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 6:02 pm


Vanessalainia
You did the right thing. I probably would have punched him right in the jaw and contiued till I was locked up. I loose my temper easily. Just keep praying.

i prolly would if he wasnt so much bigger then me. but im also going to conciling now for anger and depression issues.
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