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 Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 12:24 pm
is it ohk for a bi person to date a girl and a guy at the same time?
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 12:55 pm
evn if theyre different genders i still think its technically cheating :/
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 2:25 pm
whoa whoa, WHOA!!! heeeeeellz no it's not cool. it doesn't matter if you got a bf and suddenly find a gf you like, you gotta break one of their hearts. it doesn't matter what your orientation, you don't date more than one person at a time. that's just wrong and extremely unfair to your significant others.
i don't mean to sound rude saying that, but honestly, i've met many a bisexual who tried to cheat by saying that, and i don't find it's simply not true.
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 2:48 pm
A bi dating a male and a female at the same time is the same as dating two men or two women. And a threesome isn't so cool either.
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Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 8:19 pm
what if they both know about the other person
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Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 8:22 pm
That quilifys EVEN MORE!!
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Posted: Mon Sep 07, 2009 5:12 pm
Hey, if they're okay with it, i'd say go for it. I'd never personally do that. It's be to hard. If you can get it to work, like i said go for it.
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Posted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 8:53 am
I would say that provided both partners knew about it
and they were both okay with it.
Then why not?
There are plenty of people in the world
of multiple different sexual orientations
that make all sorts of non-monogamy work for them.
(Swingers, polygamists things like that)
So if want to try that then I say go right ahead.
Just make sure you're communicating well and that everybody involved is fully aware of the situation.
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Posted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 10:14 am
you can be as bi as you want but thats still cheating, no matter the situation unless they both kno about each other thats still cheating
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Posted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 11:32 am
Well unless all three of you are happy with and awear of whats going on a polyamous(sp?) relastionship could work, but lots of talking would have to ensue before hand.
(I don't know from practice as I'm not poly, thats just how I think starting it should go down with alot of talking!)
But if its not open and all in engreement then it's still cheating
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Posted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 11:39 am
If all members involved know, and they're all ok with it, then yes.
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Posted: Thu Oct 08, 2009 3:38 pm
FuzzyBunnyKins Well unless all three of you are happy with and awear of whats going on a polyamous(sp?) relastionship could work, but lots of talking would have to ensue before hand. (I don't know from practice as I'm not poly, thats just how I think starting it should go down with alot of talking!) But if its not open and all in engreement then it's still cheating bi is a term that is applied to sexual orientation, not the number of people you can date at a time. you are more than welcome to date multiple people, but they all that to know each other and be ok with it. it is not just one persons decision as it effects everybody in the relationship.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2009 11:42 pm
i personally don't like the idea of dating multiple people, regardless of their cognizance of the other lover. it just doesn't seem right because they would have unconditional love, but it would be shared, while in a really good relationship, it's a deep personal and special relationship that shouldn't be shared with a third party.
or maybe i've watched too many disney movies and it's distorted my opinon on love. either way, i wouldn't like it, but i can't oppose if it makes you guys happy. i just frown upon it and don't talk about it, so whatever.
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Posted: Sat Nov 28, 2009 1:57 pm
If you are bi i think it is ok to date a guy and a girl at the same time but when my girlfriend (now fiance) was dating me and a guy from our school i became jealous but i did not tell her sweatdrop ; then the guy dumpped her like yesterday's garbage and now its just me and her. but i dont think it is concidered cheating or anything like that.
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Posted: Sat Nov 28, 2009 11:38 pm
I don't personally agree with polyamory, but if both parties that you are dating or thinking of dating are okay with it, then yes. If not, absolutely no.
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