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 Posted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 8:47 am
My mom and grandma are overwieght and they are telling me im too fat.Like my sister and brother are skinny and they make fun of me to.When im eating breakfast(reeses puffs are the best!!!!!!)My big sister and brother Natilie and Chris say"you stupid fat pig no wonder you gain so much weight fast.You know why you stupid fat a**?Because you are a good for nothing lazy,stupid big,ugly,fat a**!!!!!!!!!"So yeah it would be great if I lost weight and they stopt saying that.But I dont know.What do you think?Im 12 And 3/4 and 5'6 and I weigh 224 lbs.
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Posted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 11:32 am
Ok
Ask yourself....several questions:
1) Are you having health problems?
2) Are you having social problems (people bothering you)?
3) Are you having personal problems (anything personal you hate about being big)?
4) Are any of the probelms you have enough to make you want to lose weight?
5) Do you for any other reason want to lose weight or are you happy the way you are?
6) What are the good things you like about being big?
If you are having more problems than not and aren't happy with it....sure. Give it a shot. I was pretty big when I was younger. I'm still pretty big at 22 so...if you want to lose weight eventually...yeah...do it now. *nods* It's easier when you are younger. 3nodding Good luck either way.
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Posted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 12:54 pm
Umm, what Jinnari said.
You shouldn't lose weight merely to placate your annoying relatives, since if you don't lose weight and keep it off you might as well not lose it, and keeping off weight is a serious change to your lifestyle. Losing weight should be something you do for yourself.
If their insults are really getting to you, talk with them one on one or call a family meeting. Tell them how it's hurtful and say that whether or not you lose weight is your decision, that will not alter your lifestyle just to fit their aesthetic preferences, and that either way their comments aren't helping.
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Posted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 4:46 pm
I think you could stand to shed a few lbs...not for other people, though.
You have to want to do it for yourself.
And I only say lose a few pounds because of health reasons. I'm 18, 5'2" and 200lbs and my doctors are telling me I'm gonna like...die and stuff. razz
I was at 230...but I dropped 30 when I got a job. I had less time to sit around and eat, I was moving more, and I totally rocked Subway with root beer and sun chips.
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Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 7:13 am
Health reasons and becasue YOU want to should be the only reasons I think a person should lose. Trying to please everyone else always leads to disaster! Trust me!
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 5:44 pm
Yeah I guess yall are right.
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 9:39 am
just do it for yourself. if your happy the way you are and don't feel judged or anything then you don't need to. though you may deside later down the road that you had lost it when you had the chance. but again, still your choise. losing weight takes alot of deadication its really hard work
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 10:12 am
dominique1049 Yeah I guess yall are right. Coolies. What did you decide on?
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Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 1:47 pm
I myself would say get out and do more exersize and just maybe try to tone up...that way your family would get off your back, you could tell them off...I know how you feel, I didnt get it from my family but I did get it from school, I do have a skinny sister though *not codi* my older sister is like half my size, and my grandma is always compairing us to her...uggg it gets annoying
although when I was 12, I was at only about 160, I was still over wieght
but only loose wieght because YOU want to....not because you wanna fit in.
I myself dont mind being about 220 pounds...but im also 20, but I cant say that I wouldnt be happy wieghing only 150 pounds....then I could buy cute shirts and pants...LOL
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Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 1:34 pm
dominique1049 My mom and grandma are overwieght and they are telling me im too fat.Like my sister and brother are skinny and they make fun of me to.When im eating breakfast(reeses puffs are the best!!!!!!)My big sister and brother Natilie and Chris say"you stupid fat pig no wonder you gain so much weight fast.You know why you stupid fat a**?Because you are a good for nothing lazy,stupid big,ugly,fat a**!!!!!!!!!"So yeah it would be great if I lost weight and they stopt saying that.But I dont know.What do you think?Im 12 And 3/4 and 5'6 and I weigh 224 lbs. first of all i bet you look lovely and large is not ungly it for years large was beutiful and skinny was hidous and sickly looking large was helghy because it ment well fed and most of the time rich and i bet you sister and brother or who ever they are are just spolid roghten and are brats and don't deserve a sister like you they sould treat you better if i was there i teach them a lessen or two about treating people with respect scream scream scream domokun domokun domokun stressed stressed stressed
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Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2005 10:54 am
I have finaly come to a decision thanks to everyones helpful comments. biggrin I will not neccisarily go on a diet.I will just start eating only when Im hungery.And when Natilie and Chris are not around I will exercize a little.And when they say something rude I will punch them in thier noses.So I say thank you to all who replied or voted.
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Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2005 1:07 pm
Good decision.
Why are you only going to excercise when your sibling's aren't around thoug?
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Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2005 2:36 pm
well if they are not around I dont have to listen to them make fun of me(I look realy wierd when im exercizing)when im exercizing.
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Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2005 2:52 pm
Gah. That's such a stupid thing to do. ><
People should never make fun of a fat person for excercising, especially when they spend half the time shouting at them to lose weight.
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Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2005 2:59 pm
furreal! yet they do it anyway.Hey fuzzy your awsome do you mind if I add you to my friends list?
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