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 Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 10:10 am
I'm very confused. I used to think I was bi because I like girls and guys. But now I pay much more attention to girls and practicly never look at guys. I'll start thinking "Maybe I'm lesbian" and then something happens to change my mind again. I am in love with a girl, but does that mean I'm lesbian or bi? I don't know...
I also want to come out to my dad, but I'm scared... I don't want to get kicked out of the house...
ADVICE PLEASE!!!
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Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 11:00 am
 I would believe, off what you've said, you are probably bisexual, but lean to girls. Being bi doesn't mean you are 50% girl crazy, 50% boy crazy. It just means you have interests in each, but allowing you to be interested in one gender more than the other, without denying feels for the other gender. Sorry if I am confusing, I blame the penguins. They're at war with my evil rubber duck army at the moment.
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Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:44 pm
yea that what u are ur bi cuz thats the same way with me i like girl more then guys but i still like guys i maybe like 65% more into girl and guy is 35% into guys its just me but im still bi i still want to be with a guy in a relatinship and to coming out to ur dad it is hard iw was hard 4 me to tell my parents but i didnt tell me stupid me i left my journal under my bed and they found it an read it and when i came out of skool it was a hella big a** fight in my house i wanted to runaway most parent arent the same but be like oh my friend is w.e and see how he acts or be like what if i was bi or a les how would u feel about if his k wait a while then tell him ur that i would but i couldnt lucky i had my friends by my side when i got to skool the next day
sry i wrote lot
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Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:48 pm
- -xTalisha yea that what u are ur bi cuz thats the same way with me i like girl more then guys but i still like guys i maybe like 65% more into girl and guy is 35% into guys its just me but im still bi i still want to be with a guy in a relatinship and to coming out to ur dad it is hard iw was hard 4 me to tell my parents but i didnt tell me stupid me i left my journal under my bed and they found it an read it and when i came out of skool it was a hella big a** fight in my house i wanted to runaway most parent arent the same but be like oh my friend is w.e and see how he acts or be like what if i was bi or a les how would u feel about if his k wait a while then tell him ur that i would but i couldnt lucky i had my friends by my side when i got to skool the next day sry i wrote lot A lot is okay. Thanks for the help!
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Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:53 pm
iLickmimes - -xTalisha yea that what u are ur bi cuz thats the same way with me i like girl more then guys but i still like guys i maybe like 65% more into girl and guy is 35% into guys its just me but im still bi i still want to be with a guy in a relatinship and to coming out to ur dad it is hard iw was hard 4 me to tell my parents but i didnt tell me stupid me i left my journal under my bed and they found it an read it and when i came out of skool it was a hella big a** fight in my house i wanted to runaway most parent arent the same but be like oh my friend is w.e and see how he acts or be like what if i was bi or a les how would u feel about if his k wait a while then tell him ur that i would but i couldnt lucky i had my friends by my side when i got to skool the next day sry i wrote lot A lot is okay. Thanks for the help! np i luv to help ppl in this kinds of trouble with friends or family yea it hard but after u get over it its easy well kinda at least u got it out of ur chest
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Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:37 pm
When I first started liking girls, I thought I was bi because I was still kind of attracted to guys - but after a while I just kind of stopped really liking guys (I mean I still think they're cute and everything but I would never want a relationship). So I can kind of understand what you're going through...
As for whether you're bi, or lesbian, I'm afraid that's something you'll have to figure out for yourself. Sexuality isn't always a definite thing, and it's not something anyone else can determine for you. Just give it time and you'll figure things out =]
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Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:43 pm
Xx Noir-Keller xX When I first started liking girls, I thought I was bi because I was still kind of attracted to guys - but after a while I just kind of stopped really liking guys (I mean I still think they're cute and everything but I would never want a relationship). So I can kind of understand what you're going through...
As for whether you're bi, or lesbian, I'm afraid that's something you'll have to figure out for yourself. Sexuality isn't always a definite thing, and it's not something anyone else can determine for you. Just give it time and you'll figure things out =] Thank you, Oh Great Good Advice Giver... Thank you...
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Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:49 pm
iLickmimes Xx Noir-Keller xX When I first started liking girls, I thought I was bi because I was still kind of attracted to guys - but after a while I just kind of stopped really liking guys (I mean I still think they're cute and everything but I would never want a relationship). So I can kind of understand what you're going through...
As for whether you're bi, or lesbian, I'm afraid that's something you'll have to figure out for yourself. Sexuality isn't always a definite thing, and it's not something anyone else can determine for you. Just give it time and you'll figure things out =] Thank you, Oh Great Good Advice Giver... Thank you...
You're welcome, it's my pleasure to help ^^ And if you ever need to talk or anything, you can always PM =]
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Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 2:13 am
ugh, i've been havin the same problem girl. like, i was watching tv (and i've basically known i love girls for a long time) and suddenly this guy came on and i thought he was REALLY cute. but the more i thought about it (freakin out i was bi cuz i had come out as a lesbian and didn't want people thinkin i was a liar or anything) i did a lot of thinking and realized that i was really just appreciating his looks.
it's never an easy thing to know your sexuality entirely, especially when someone is beautiful (be it a man or woman) so all i can do is wish you luck as far as that goes.
now on the subject of comin out to your dad, that's another thing that you gotta think a lot about. i would say from personal experience to NEVER plan it. planning things only sets you up for failure because you start to get these expectations of either "omg, he'll hate me " or "maybe he won't mind" and stuff like that. really, all you can do is consider when an appropriate time would be, or maybe if he says something, take it as a que to come out and tell him (for example, if he says something about how hot a girl is... not that i'm entirely sure a dad would... sweatdrop ) anyways, you just gotta use a lot of discretion and be prepared for ANYTHING, cuz coming out always makes parents act 10 times different than we anticipate.
other than that, good luck. yeah, i know, wrote a lot, but i hope it helps. haha
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Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 7:37 am
Drak of Paradise I would believe, off what you've said, you are probably bisexual, but lean to girls. Being bi doesn't mean you are 50% girl crazy, 50% boy crazy. It just means you have interests in each, but allowing you to be interested in one gender more than the other, without denying feels for the other gender. Sorry if I am confusing, I blame the penguins. They're at war with my evil rubber duck army at the moment. You're fighting the penguins too? I hear they're in a war with the bear cavalry and I'm debating sending my elite ferret strike force to attack as well. Anyway, to answer the OP, I say...I dunno what to say. You're bi and you happen to like chicks a bit more. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 1:23 pm
Ikalos Drak of Paradise I would believe, off what you've said, you are probably bisexual, but lean to girls. Being bi doesn't mean you are 50% girl crazy, 50% boy crazy. It just means you have interests in each, but allowing you to be interested in one gender more than the other, without denying feels for the other gender. Sorry if I am confusing, I blame the penguins. They're at war with my evil rubber duck army at the moment. You're fighting the penguins too? I hear they're in a war with the bear cavalry and I'm debating sending my elite ferret strike force to attack as well. Anyway, to answer the OP, I say...I dunno what to say. You're bi and you happen to like chicks a bit more. 3nodding These penguins are rather interesting...
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Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 11:55 am
dont come out if you're not sure what you are yet.
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