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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 2:01 am
There are threads about which signs we identify with, what signs our friends are, and so on. I was wondering what people's problematic signs are. I don't mean for this to become offensive, (no "I hate insert-sign-here") I was thinking more along the lines of signs that are just so different from you in mentality that it's difficult for you to understand each other.
What about the sign makes this the case? Is it one of those that is traditionally considered incompatible with your sun sign? Is there any other relationship between which signs tend to be problematic and things in a person's chart?
For me, I think it's Scorpio. It's my south node, but I don't know if that's relevant or not. I'm not sure what it is specifically, but those I have met seem to be problematic for me. I think it may be because Scorpio is such an intensely emotional sign, but as an Aquarius, I'm quite the other way. But Scorpio and Aquarius aren't totally incompatible traditionally - I've seen opinions ranging from 'very compatible' to 'definitely not,' with 'if they have common values then maybe' as the middle ground.
So, what do people think? What are your 'problematic' signs?
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 2:16 am
Im a saggitarius - who is oddly overwhelmed by Aries (to the point where they begin to annoy me), who can't really work well with Cancers and thinks that if she was left alone with a Virgo would probably suffer from a conversation along the lines of "so...the weather...".
Virgo is my South node, so that kind of makes sense and it's also kinda wrong for saggitarians to get along well with Virgos ayway, same with Cancer. Aries is weird, but I think I'm not a flamboyant Sagg - I'm more philosophical (aquarius ascendant, leo moon)
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 2:09 pm
i don't know enough people to really say anything about specific signs. (and i'm a Cancer, i don't want to say anything bad about anyone, ever! xp ) the only thing that seems rather consistent for me is heavily leo-types make a ridiculous amount of drama that i don't like dealing with.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 2:11 pm
I'm a Taurus...Most of the Saggs I know irk me a bit. I'm still friends with them, but sometimes they are too hyperactive and impatient for me.
Virgos also bother me with their tendancies to be harsh with their criticisms...But they're cool otherwise.
I'm sorry if I've caused any offense to you Sagittarians and Virgos!
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Posted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 3:19 pm
MST3Kakalina i don't know enough people to really say anything about specific signs. (and i'm a Cancer, i don't want to say anything bad about anyone, ever! xp ) the only thing that seems rather consistent for me is heavily leo-types make a ridiculous amount of drama that i don't like dealing with. Heh, that' so odd. I'm a Leo and I tend to think that Cancers are too dramatic. xp I think they're different kinds of drama, though. Leos are all about arm-flapping theatrics and Cancers have more tendencies toward despondency and the less obvious drama. Cancers are still some of my favorite people to be around, though. I usually have the most problems with Pisces. I'm a very steady, action-oriented person, and their fluctuations in the amount of energy they have along with their stereotypical reluctance to face reality generally doesn't make for a good relationship. This is especially highlighted in my life by my mom being a Pisces (with a Scoprio moon, no less). Our fights usually consist of her making a passive agressive dig, me completely flipping out, then her retreating and not talking to me for about two weeks. I generally have problems with any sign that doesn't like a roaring good fight. As a Leo, I like to scream and throw things and be done with it. xd
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Posted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 7:42 pm
i know one Leo moon (sun Aquarius, rising unknown) and he is just so FULL of himself. and since his girlfriend's dumped him he's just sulked about and been all "but i still love her wah wah" and just a complete d**k to everyone else. another Leo moon i know (Cappy sun, Pisces rising) is, not to be sexist, but a complete ******** girl. he is jealous and possessive and always always always craved for affection and attention.
of course, my best friend in the entire world is a Leo moon, so. it depends on a lot of other things, too.
my other really Leo friend has a sun mercury mars stellium in Leo, and everything is about his ego, though not in the stereotypically vain way: it's more that he's exceptionally cynical, convinced that he'll never be happy because so embittered, always going on how he'll never find anyone, etc. he's also big on Art and always having to do something meaningful. and he always goes on harping about people he hates. (i'm beginning to think that's a generational planet thing, as he is actually a year older than me, and another one of my "friends" who's a year older than me does the same thing. i think it's their Saturn in Scorpio, while mine is in Saggittarius.)
on their good days i love them, but on their bad days...yeah no. stressed
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:09 am
Frotteurism I'm a Taurus...Most of the Saggs I know irk me a bit. I'm still friends with them, but sometimes they are too hyperactive and impatient for me. Virgos also bother me with their tendancies to be harsh with their criticisms...But they're cool otherwise. I'm sorry if I've caused any offense to you Sagittarians and Virgos! lol, I'm a saggitarius and I have that problem with Aries!
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Posted: Sat Dec 17, 2005 6:07 pm
I'm a Cancer, and I usually have a rough time with Virgos, and I made the mistake of marrying one. Yeah, it wasn't pleasant.
I've generally gotten the feeling that they're expecting quite a lot from me, wanting me to be *just* such a way, when they have no intention of helping me be so, or coming to a compromise over certain issues. Virgos are like brick walls to me, in so many senses of the phrase.
Aries, too, has a tendency to clash with me, though not often as strongly.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 5:27 pm
Hmm...I don't really know the answer to this question. I can't say Cancer because a lot of my friends are, well Cancers. I can't say Sagittarius because I have a lot of friends that are, including my crush. xp I can only say the types of people I have trouble WITH.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 9:40 pm
I have had trouble with Libra's in the past, and they tend to get on my nerves a lot. People with a strong Libran influence sometimes come off as being somewhat fake to me... though I have met some really nice Librans so this isn't true for all! I really think it depends on how the energy is used.
I'm a Taurus, by the way...
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 6:29 pm
Libras i like a LOT--i actually think they're a lot less fake than most people i know. Virgos too, but i have a Virgo DC, so naturally i'm biased. Capricorns give me some issues, especially double Cappies. i dunno why, but they just do.
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 1:40 am
I heard that if you look closely at Venus, you can figure out people's friends. For example, my venus in Pisces in 11th house. I am friends with Piscean and Aquarian like people. Also Venus rules my 6th and 1rst houses. So I additionally befriend Arian and Virgoan like people. Then my mercury conjuncts Venus which adds more to Virgo and also adds Gemini. Then look at the rest of the aspects for trines and what-not.
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ImaginaryQuicksilver Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 12:35 am
I generally don't give a s**t who I'm friends with. If we get along well, we're friends, yay~
Even so, I really dislike self-centered people who even would get in the way just to attention whore, which are mostly Leos. Of the few Leos I know, they ALL act like that. I'm pretty sure there are nice Leos out there, but I haven't seen them on my watch just yet sweatdrop .
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Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 9:12 pm
Raisetsu I generally don't give a s**t who I'm friends with. If we get along well, we're friends, yay~ Even so, I really dislike self-centered people who even would get in the way just to attention whore, which are mostly Leos. Of the few Leos I know, they ALL act like that. I'm pretty sure there are nice Leos out there, but I haven't seen them on my watch just yet sweatdrop . That's probably because you've met emotionally immature Leos who haven't learned to deal with personalities yet. Once they grow, they tend to be confident enough to not need all that attention and can be genuinely happy, generous people without needing limelight in return.
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Posted: Mon Mar 13, 2006 6:24 pm
I think my biggest problem sign is Pisces. It is hit or miss with Pisces, I either get along with them great and we are close or they backstab me.
Example: My sophmore year in high school I knew three Pisces, my boyfriend at the time, and two female friends. My boyfriend cheated on my with the one friend and the other friend later turned on me as well.
I cannot think of any other signs I have had big problems with.
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