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 Posted: Fri Nov 18, 2005 11:49 am
Today, me and my bf add sex for the second time...well it was felling good and as it was dark we couldnt see almost anything... Then i felt in my fingers something strange and i asked my bf: did u came? and he said: no... Then he went to the bathroom, and in spite being dark i could see something in the bed...and then i turned the lights on and it was blood and i was like: eek gonk crying And i looked to my legs and it add blood... blood was everywhere!: Hands, legs and some in my tumie....i started freaking out cuz i always thought that virgins only bled a litle( and i wasnt a virgin...)
When my bf got back to the room, h was really scared cuz he thought he add hurt me...and he add blood all over him too...my question is: Is this normal?? i dont know if i'm hurt down there cuz i'm to scared to look at my v****a with a miror... crying
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Posted: Fri Nov 18, 2005 1:45 pm
Cat_woman03 Today, me and my bf add sex for the second time...well it was felling good and as it was dark we couldnt see almost anything... Then i felt in my fingers something strange and i asked my bf: did u came? and he said: no... Then he went to the bathroom, and in spite being dark i could see something in the bed...and then i turned the lights on and it was blood and i was like: eek gonk crying And i looked to my legs and it add blood... blood was everywhere!: Hands, legs and some in my tumie....i started freaking out cuz i always thought that virgins only bled a litle( and i wasnt a virgin...) When my bf got back to the room, h was really scared cuz he thought he add hurt me...and he add blood all over him too...my question is: Is this normal?? i dont know if i'm hurt down there cuz i'm to scared to look at my v****a with a miror... crying Maybe you have your period?
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 2:57 am
smasha Cat_woman03 Today, me and my bf add sex for the second time...well it was felling good and as it was dark we couldnt see almost anything... Then i felt in my fingers something strange and i asked my bf: did u came? and he said: no... Then he went to the bathroom, and in spite being dark i could see something in the bed...and then i turned the lights on and it was blood and i was like: eek gonk crying And i looked to my legs and it add blood... blood was everywhere!: Hands, legs and some in my tumie....i started freaking out cuz i always thought that virgins only bled a litle( and i wasnt a virgin...) When my bf got back to the room, h was really scared cuz he thought he add hurt me...and he add blood all over him too...my question is: Is this normal?? i dont know if i'm hurt down there cuz i'm to scared to look at my v****a with a miror... crying Maybe you have your period? dont think so, because i stopped and i'm on pill, so my periods are regular
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 3:17 pm
Maybe you should go to the doctor. That happened to me and it didn't turn out pretty.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 4:18 pm
You should go see a doctor as soon as you can, and don't have sex again until you know what the problem is. That way you don't have to worry about making it worse, or anything like that.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 4:52 pm
I agree. Doctor and no sex till you know why.
And if you're not comfortable looking at your own v****a, you should think seriously about if you're ready for sex. Even though you've had it, I really think you should be comfortable with yourself in all your degrees of naked.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 7:07 pm
Ok well just breaking the hymen isn't the only reason virgins bleed. Sometimes you actually tare the skin which bleeds. But that sounds like a lot of blood. You really need to go and visit your doctor right away and get checked out. And why are you afraid to look at yourself with a mirror?
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 12:49 pm
i'm totally freaking out and i'm crying while i'm writting this... I'm confortable about looking to my v****a, i was just scared about if it was hurt or something...and i looked and it is, but not mutch...i dont wanna go to the doctor...today in the car i asked my mom: mom..can i ask u something? she said: sure.
me: when did u make sex for the first time? she: ...hummm... i had over 20 and then she started saying how wrong she thinks that is when girls with 13/14/15 years old make sex...well i'm 15(please dont flame me). So i dont have no 1 to talk..besides my bf who as ofered himself to go with me to the hospital, but who will pay? i'm so scared and besides all this Friday i have an English test and i need to take at least 17( 1 to 20) and i cant focus myself! What should i do? Who should i talk to? My best friend doesnt no what i should do, my mom is to oldfashioned and if i talk to my dad he kills me! crying and i cant stop crying. My cousin who is a doctor could help me, but she could tell to my parents and i'm afraid of disapointing everyone.
Despite all this, i do not regret i've made with my bf, and i think this all stuation will only help us to learn a lesson and to keep or relationship more strong.
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 3:42 pm
Well, to be blunt, if you can't handle the consequences of sex, are embarrassed, or refuse to take care of your body, it's a really *big* indicator you aren't ready to be sexually active at all.
So I guess you really have two options. You can...
1) Suck it up and be a big girl and go talk to your mother, a doctor, a school counselor, SOMEONE and get checked out and take care of yourself. Which requires some responsibility and maturity.
Or
2) You can continue to cry and hide like a child and not do anything which could be dangerous to your health and shows that you really lack responsibility and maturity.
Ball's in your court: you made the decision now you have to deal with the consequences.
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 7:23 pm
Pirate Dirge Well, to be blunt, if you can't handle the consequences of sex, are embarrassed, or refuse to take care of your body, it's a really *big* indicator you aren't ready to be sexually active at all.
So I guess you really have two options. You can...
1) Suck it up and be a big girl and go talk to your mother, a doctor, a school counselor, SOMEONE and get checked out and take care of yourself. Which requires some responsibility and maturity.
Or
2) You can continue to cry and hide like a child and not do anything which could be dangerous to your health and shows that you really lack responsibility and maturity.
Ball's in your court: you made the decision now you have to deal with the consequences. Perfect advice. Thanks! mrgreen *agrees completely*
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 12:11 pm
Pirate Dirge Well, to be blunt, if you can't handle the consequences of sex, are embarrassed, or refuse to take care of your body, it's a really *big* indicator you aren't ready to be sexually active at all.
So I guess you really have two options. You can...
1) Suck it up and be a big girl and go talk to your mother, a doctor, a school counselor, SOMEONE and get checked out and take care of yourself. Which requires some responsibility and maturity.
Or
2) You can continue to cry and hide like a child and not do anything which could be dangerous to your health and shows that you really lack responsibility and maturity.
Ball's in your court: you made the decision now you have to deal with the consequences. ok...i'll print this post to gain courage!thanks!
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 3:54 pm
Then how did you get on Birthcontrol? My mom pays for it because I don't have a job and i don't want babies right now but i haven't had sex yet tho btu if a i did I would tell her. I'm 17 but It makes no difference how old you are! She gave birth to you so you should tell her if you are sexualy active she might have had teh same problem.
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Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 12:48 pm
SweetJenny Then how did you get on Birthcontrol? My mom pays for it because I don't have a job and i don't want babies right now but i haven't had sex yet tho btu if a i did I would tell her. I'm 17 but It makes no difference how old you are! She gave birth to you so you should tell her if you are sexualy active she might have had teh same problem. You don't need your parents to get on birthcontrol, not where i live anyway. I'm on birthcontrol and pay for it myself. Though my mom is th eone who wanted me to be on it. Lol but i went all by myself. and for me that's a big deal. But point being, atthe sexual health clinic, they won't tell your parents or anything. They'll give you free condom's too, lol but i have never took any.(me being virgin and all)) Okay now i'm ranting. So to sum it up, you don't need your parents to get birthcontrol.
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 9:04 am
SweetJenny Then how did you get on Birthcontrol? My mom pays for it because I don't have a job and i don't want babies right now but i haven't had sex yet tho btu if a i did I would tell her. I'm 17 but It makes no difference how old you are! She gave birth to you so you should tell her if you are sexualy active she might have had teh same problem. i'm on birth control, because i have some hary problems, if u know what i mean...
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 7:57 am
no not really ... Kinda slow today
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