Welcome to Flirting 101
Lesson 1
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Flirting is the gentle art of letting a person know that you are interested in them.
Flirting isn’t just a bird call to invite people to a relationship or a booty call; it’s also done to feel sexy, inviting, exciting and desirable. And perhaps, one or two off times, to make your partner feel jealous! But whatever may be the reasons, the fact of the matter is that flirting is tricky. Almost all of us have missed that someone was flirting with us.
Every message you send, intentional or not is important. So your attitude is nearly everything in regards to flirting. We want you to show a certain degree of eagerness, but not desperation. We want you to believe in yourself and demonstrate why we should believe in you too, without you seeming conceited. So let's go over the basics of flirting.
Flirting falls into five distinct styles. Let's review them and see if we can find your Specific style and perfect a method to attract that special someone.
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The Physical Flirt
1. The Physical flirt knows what they got going for themselves and is not afraid to use it.
2. Confident in using their body language to communicate interest, the physical flirt has no problems in touching their crush gently to indicate interest.
3. the physical flirt is not shy about letting a potential partner know how they feel and does so through physicality, non-verbal behavior and physical attractiveness.
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What works for The Physical Flirt:
They have little problem letting people know that they are interested.
They often result in sparking a physical connection with their date, much quicker than the rest.
What doesn’t work for them:
Other people might interpret their everyday manner as more sexually charged.
On the opposite end of the spectrum, people might not be comfortable with their overt physical manner.
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The Polite Flirt
1. Good manners are a must for this flirt.
2. Rule governed and polished, the basic arsenal in their armory is genteel and refined behavior.
3. They are always polite, and may refuse to engage in inappropriate or obviously sexual behavior that might make the other person uncomfortable. This type of a flirt is more likely to invite their potential date to a coffee shop or someplace quiet, as opposed to a noisy club, to get to speak to them at a more personal level.
4. They diligently follow courtship rules and will always choose civility over pushiness.
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What works for The Polite Flirt:
They never come across as looking needy or trying too hard.
They also never embarrass themselves or pass off as appearing too aggressive and insensitive.
They are always well regarded by the opposite gender for their elegant manner.
What doesn’t work for them:
They can seldom appreciate the flirting styles of other people. They may even feel that forward people are rude or impolite.
The Polite Flirt’s approach could be slow paced and quite indirect.
They like to keep their physical feelings in check for the sake of romance.
To the Polite flirt, being out-and-out direct when engaging in romance is simply uncouth. So they might fail to establish a physical connect with their date.
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The Playful Flirt
1. For them, flirting is a game. To the Playful Flirt, it is fun to meet new people, talk them up and make people fall for them.
2.The playful style is bubbly, funny, flirty and fun.
3. Playful flirts do not care how others might interpret their behavior as long as they are having a good time.
Note: Playful flirts can even flirt with someone when they are not attracted to them!
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What works for The Playful Flirt:
They are perhaps the most popular of all among the opposite sex.
They can easily mingle with their date and get a crackling chemistry with them in record time!
What doesn’t work for them:
Getting into a long term relationship is tricky for the Playful Flirt, as they have some big temptations to fight on the way.
For instance, a man who was a Playful Flirt all his life — now flirts with even a waitress when at a restaurant with his wife. He has a daughter too, and is quite loyal to his wife. But he simply can’t get rid of his habit. Now the two have just accepted that he will flirt wherever possible just to get an extra shot of self-esteem!
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The Sincere Flirt
1. They show sincere personal interest. This type of a flirt wants to create an emotional bond with a new crush. Their approach is to share things about themselves and get the other people talking.
2. They take the first rule of socializing to heart: that if you want to be an interesting conversationalist, you must get people to talk about themselves. They pay great attention to a partner’s personality.
3. For them, the best chemistry involves communication and full disclosure.
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What works for The Sincere Flirt:
This approach is highly effective and makes them liked by people immensely.
Seeking an emotional connect with a partner is defined as the most agreeable, desirable and effective of all communications, and flirts of this type usually go on to build lasting relationships.
What doesn’t work for them:
Some people might perceive the Sincere Flirt as boring, as most people like a little bit of fun and danger in flirting.
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The Shy Flirt
1. This Flirt is hard to read and quite until they really get to know you.
2. They are subtle and glance sideways at the object of their affection. They most likely blush when directly spoken too by their crush.
3. Casual contact with their crush can cause this flirt to stammer or mumble an apology.
4. This flirt is the anti flirt.
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What works for the Shy Flirt:
This style of flirting is considered extremely adorable and makes the object of a shy flirts affection feel flattered that the shy flirt, would try to flirt with them.
This flirt generally builds life long relationships.
What doesn't work for them:
The person they are flirting with may never know because of the very subtle style of this flirt.
It is common for this flirt to not make a move and lose the object of their affection.
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Lesson 1
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Flirting is the gentle art of letting a person know that you are interested in them.
Flirting isn’t just a bird call to invite people to a relationship or a booty call; it’s also done to feel sexy, inviting, exciting and desirable. And perhaps, one or two off times, to make your partner feel jealous! But whatever may be the reasons, the fact of the matter is that flirting is tricky. Almost all of us have missed that someone was flirting with us.
Every message you send, intentional or not is important. So your attitude is nearly everything in regards to flirting. We want you to show a certain degree of eagerness, but not desperation. We want you to believe in yourself and demonstrate why we should believe in you too, without you seeming conceited. So let's go over the basics of flirting.
Flirting falls into five distinct styles. Let's review them and see if we can find your Specific style and perfect a method to attract that special someone.
_____________________________________________________________
The Physical Flirt
1. The Physical flirt knows what they got going for themselves and is not afraid to use it.
2. Confident in using their body language to communicate interest, the physical flirt has no problems in touching their crush gently to indicate interest.
3. the physical flirt is not shy about letting a potential partner know how they feel and does so through physicality, non-verbal behavior and physical attractiveness.
=============================================================
What works for The Physical Flirt:
They have little problem letting people know that they are interested.
They often result in sparking a physical connection with their date, much quicker than the rest.
What doesn’t work for them:
Other people might interpret their everyday manner as more sexually charged.
On the opposite end of the spectrum, people might not be comfortable with their overt physical manner.
_____________________________________________________________
The Polite Flirt
1. Good manners are a must for this flirt.
2. Rule governed and polished, the basic arsenal in their armory is genteel and refined behavior.
3. They are always polite, and may refuse to engage in inappropriate or obviously sexual behavior that might make the other person uncomfortable. This type of a flirt is more likely to invite their potential date to a coffee shop or someplace quiet, as opposed to a noisy club, to get to speak to them at a more personal level.
4. They diligently follow courtship rules and will always choose civility over pushiness.
=============================================================
What works for The Polite Flirt:
They never come across as looking needy or trying too hard.
They also never embarrass themselves or pass off as appearing too aggressive and insensitive.
They are always well regarded by the opposite gender for their elegant manner.
What doesn’t work for them:
They can seldom appreciate the flirting styles of other people. They may even feel that forward people are rude or impolite.
The Polite Flirt’s approach could be slow paced and quite indirect.
They like to keep their physical feelings in check for the sake of romance.
To the Polite flirt, being out-and-out direct when engaging in romance is simply uncouth. So they might fail to establish a physical connect with their date.
_____________________________________________________________
The Playful Flirt
1. For them, flirting is a game. To the Playful Flirt, it is fun to meet new people, talk them up and make people fall for them.
2.The playful style is bubbly, funny, flirty and fun.
3. Playful flirts do not care how others might interpret their behavior as long as they are having a good time.
Note: Playful flirts can even flirt with someone when they are not attracted to them!
=============================================================
What works for The Playful Flirt:
They are perhaps the most popular of all among the opposite sex.
They can easily mingle with their date and get a crackling chemistry with them in record time!
What doesn’t work for them:
Getting into a long term relationship is tricky for the Playful Flirt, as they have some big temptations to fight on the way.
For instance, a man who was a Playful Flirt all his life — now flirts with even a waitress when at a restaurant with his wife. He has a daughter too, and is quite loyal to his wife. But he simply can’t get rid of his habit. Now the two have just accepted that he will flirt wherever possible just to get an extra shot of self-esteem!
_____________________________________________________________
The Sincere Flirt
1. They show sincere personal interest. This type of a flirt wants to create an emotional bond with a new crush. Their approach is to share things about themselves and get the other people talking.
2. They take the first rule of socializing to heart: that if you want to be an interesting conversationalist, you must get people to talk about themselves. They pay great attention to a partner’s personality.
3. For them, the best chemistry involves communication and full disclosure.
=============================================================
What works for The Sincere Flirt:
This approach is highly effective and makes them liked by people immensely.
Seeking an emotional connect with a partner is defined as the most agreeable, desirable and effective of all communications, and flirts of this type usually go on to build lasting relationships.
What doesn’t work for them:
Some people might perceive the Sincere Flirt as boring, as most people like a little bit of fun and danger in flirting.
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The Shy Flirt
1. This Flirt is hard to read and quite until they really get to know you.
2. They are subtle and glance sideways at the object of their affection. They most likely blush when directly spoken too by their crush.
3. Casual contact with their crush can cause this flirt to stammer or mumble an apology.
4. This flirt is the anti flirt.
=============================================================
What works for the Shy Flirt:
This style of flirting is considered extremely adorable and makes the object of a shy flirts affection feel flattered that the shy flirt, would try to flirt with them.
This flirt generally builds life long relationships.
What doesn't work for them:
The person they are flirting with may never know because of the very subtle style of this flirt.
It is common for this flirt to not make a move and lose the object of their affection.
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