HaveYouEverFelt?...

[Keevan Draco]

ll-Shadowless-ll

Have you ever felt it when you really wanna change your life.
Casue ppl are taking it over and bossing you around casuee they have a threat on you thats holding you back and making you do everytihng they say.
Casuee the threat is about hurting someone you really love..
And you never want it to happen..
You try to be helped but its too hard.
Casuee you need to find all the information.
Its like being trapped under someone..
Like noo freedom will ever be seen again.
razz
Srry to ask a stupid questiong?
But i juss wanna know if it ever happens to other ppl..
razz

since sarcasm seems to run rampant these days (yes...i'd like a biscuit and a cuppa darjeling please!)

yes...that's just normal feelings of oppression we get from time to time. happens all the time...a simple cure would be to remove the offending item from your life and move on.....

The not so simple cure involves making changes with your life and accepting the consequences of your actions for good or ill.....your choice, of course, but you have to ask yourself a couple of questions first and be true to yourself before real change can begin...

1. Is the threat physical or psychological?
(if it's physical....contact your local authorities or people you really trust and tell someone. It's called "terroristic threatening" in todays legal climate, and is considered a felony class crime. If psychological, you really need to converse with the object of the threat, and find out how he/she/it feels about it. If it's a dirty little secret that you feel devastated about if it were to be found out......by telling the other person the truth, you've effectively destroyed the threat by others. (yet, there is the possibility that the object of the threat could be "hurt" by your confession....there's always a risk darkling, life is a gamble and there are no sure solutions to anything).....savvy?

2. If by changing, do you, in essence, "loose yourself" in the process?
(as the great shakespeare once penned...."first and foremost, to thine own self be true..." If by changing, do you loose the greater parts of yourself in the process.....is it truly worth it? can you maintain the things that make you "you" by making a sacrifice to change your world? Things change, it's the great constant of the universe, but to be able to make great changes and still maintain the essence of "you" is the greatest skill of all......not an easy thing, but not impossible i assure you.)

sorry in advance for the lecture....it's my nature to be long winded, and hope that in some small measure.....there's a ray of moonlight to guide your path. stay sane inside insanity......
Keevan,