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 Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 5:18 pm
hey guys i really need some help & advices.
i met this girl about a year ago & we became really good Freinds, we can tell each other any thing.
she called me 3 weeks ago telling me she was single & that she likes me alot.
but her folks don't want her to be Dating because of what happened to her ween she was younger, but she is old enuff to make her own decision!
they won't let me even call or text her at all
& she lives acrost states
this really suck a care so much about her i don't know what to do
what do you advice i do
what would you do if you where in my shoes?
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Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 5:22 pm
Everything is circumstantial.
How old are you and her?
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Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 6:26 pm
The first thing I try to do in any situation is to pray. It's the best answer I can think of. If the two of you are meant to be together, God will provide a way. Nothing can interfere with His plans. But even if you're not meant to be together, there is a good reason for it. Prayerfully consider this, and while it's easy to let emotions get in the way, just be attentive to whatever answer God gives to you. Sorry I can't be more specific, but this is the best advice I could give to anyone.
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Posted: Sat Jul 25, 2009 3:34 pm
Arkythiana The first thing I try to do in any situation is to pray. It's the best answer I can think of. If the two of you are meant to be together, God will provide a way. Nothing can interfere with His plans. But even if you're not meant to be together, there is a good reason for it. Prayerfully consider this, and while it's easy to let emotions get in the way, just be attentive to whatever answer God gives to you. Sorry I can't be more specific, but this is the best advice I could give to anyone. Umm what if "God's plan" or "fate" don't want them to be together. What if God has a different man in mind for her. I say go and take what you want. Kick the door in and kidnap her if you have to. (please note that particular aproach is illegal and should only be attempted if you realy LOVE this girl.) of course i could use information such as what happened to her when she was younger and you ages.
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 12:30 pm
well both of us are 20 maybe i need to specify that!
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 3:43 pm
SKULL_SHADOW666 well both of us are 20 maybe i need to specify that! then yeah. ******** the door down and take her if you real want to be with her. I have never believed in letting things get in the wa of me being with someone. Not parents, not boyfriends, not even a relationship i happend to be involved in. true love waits for nothing. also, completely off topic but what's with the three sixes?
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Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 12:48 pm
well thanks but i would haft to buy a plain ticket first it's a long distent relationship
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 8:32 pm
SKULL_SHADOW666 well thanks but i would haft to buy a plain ticket first it's a long distent relationship dosen't change it. my roomate actually hitchiked across canada for a girl.
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Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 3:52 pm
Lazarus The Resurected SKULL_SHADOW666 well thanks but i would haft to buy a plain ticket first it's a long distent relationship dosen't change it. my roomate actually hitchiked across canada for a girl. Nice... and totally sweet smile To the other dude.. I was in a long distance relationship for a year. Buy a freaking plane ticket. It's not that hard. Make it work. If you love her then nothing should be able to stop you from seeing her. Take it from one who knows.......
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Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 6:25 am
If she's 20, her parents have no right to say that she can't be with you. Well, unless she's still living with them, but then sh could move out.
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Lady Venibeth Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 3:37 pm
yeah she is still liveing with her folks with sucks
man you ppls have bin really helpful& i'll save up some money for a plain ticket
THANKS!
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 11:30 am
Well.........I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend until middle of High School, but I had one since grade 8. I don't commend it, but being sneaky can always help. IE: go online and have her use a handle no one who knows her would expect.
Back when my husband and I were forced apart, he had a myspace handle called, "Launchpad" and no one in my family evern knew he knew about Darkwing Duck. It was a way for us to keep in contact until my parents finally realized thast I'm old enough to make my own choices.
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 11:31 am
Mind you, I was 20 when that happened.
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Posted: Thu Dec 03, 2009 6:50 am
yeah my 'rents stopped trying to make choices for me when I was 16. well, dad did anyway my mother still thinks she can tell me what to do even after she kicked me out of the house.
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