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 Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 11:14 am
i used to be really happy with my weight, it was only ever people who said i should lose weight that ever got me down. i've lost a ton of weight now but i don't get any suport from my parents, my mum still thinks i'm over weight, its just hurtful coments that arn't intended to be hurtful that really get to me.
does anyone else have parents that go on about how you are and don't seem to except you?
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 2:41 am
Well, you came to the right place. There so many people here that have the same problem as you, as well as people that can help you see how beautiful you are.
I've never had problems with my parents and my weight (I'm semi-skinny and my dad cares little about such things). However, my mom has mentioned the weight problems of my ex-girlfriends. She doesn't mean it in a hateful way. She's just overly concerned for their health.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 3:07 am
Don't even get me started on my Mom.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 3:57 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:00 am
Shampoo_0405 Don't even get me started on my Mom. does your mum go on about your weight to?
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:33 am
I've honestly lucked out and gotten some of the ebst parents in the world lol. We're not rich by any means but we live comfortably, but they support me in the stuff that I do and don't rag on me about my weight (prolly because they are also overweight hard to say) they've always been there for me when I try to lose weight and fail....but they tried the diet with me lol. I know that's all off topic but I can say I'm here to support anyone who's parents get on them about their weight or are just feeling down. I always wanna cheer em up, my pm box is open anytime.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 5:58 am
My mom is plus sized too and growing up we use to diet together too. She eventually had a gastric bypass and loss a lot of weight (she is my sized now). My dad would always mention his concern but never really in a condesending way. My grandfather is a whole nother story...
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 9:47 am
emeraldwhirlwind I've honestly lucked out and gotten some of the ebst parents in the world lol. We're not rich by any means but we live comfortably, but they support me in the stuff that I do and don't rag on me about my weight (prolly because they are also overweight hard to say) they've always been there for me when I try to lose weight and fail....but they tried the diet with me lol. I know that's all off topic but I can say I'm here to support anyone who's parents get on them about their weight or are just feeling down. I always wanna cheer em up, my pm box is open anytime. thanks. its only recently that i've been able to eat infront of my dad, he always gos on about me picking at food. its so depressing. its not really any of his buisness. my parents arn't at all surportive. my mum has started losing weight after i started so no matter how much i lose shes always less than me, its depressing coz it feels as though i'm having to compeat against her. and all my friends are really skinny. i just wish i could get my motervation back and be as skinny as them *sigh*
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 9:49 am
Kawaii_Senpai My mom is plus sized too and growing up we use to diet together too. She eventually had a gastric bypass and loss a lot of weight (she is my sized now). My dad would always mention his concern but never really in a condesending way. My grandfather is a whole nother story... i wish weight wasn't an isue in society today. i always feel so judged. i hope your mum is okay after her gastric bypass.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 12:26 pm
Miya12 Kawaii_Senpai My mom is plus sized too and growing up we use to diet together too. She eventually had a gastric bypass and loss a lot of weight (she is my sized now). My dad would always mention his concern but never really in a condesending way. My grandfather is a whole nother story... i wish weight wasn't an isue in society today. i always feel so judged. i hope your mum is okay after her gastric bypass. She's fine now. That was a few years back. She did have some complications at first though that almost cost her her life. But thank God she's okay now.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 2:59 pm
Miya12 emeraldwhirlwind I've honestly lucked out and gotten some of the ebst parents in the world lol. We're not rich by any means but we live comfortably, but they support me in the stuff that I do and don't rag on me about my weight (prolly because they are also overweight hard to say) they've always been there for me when I try to lose weight and fail....but they tried the diet with me lol. I know that's all off topic but I can say I'm here to support anyone who's parents get on them about their weight or are just feeling down. I always wanna cheer em up, my pm box is open anytime. thanks. its only recently that i've been able to eat infront of my dad, he always gos on about me picking at food. its so depressing. its not really any of his buisness. my parents arn't at all surportive. my mum has started losing weight after i started so no matter how much i lose shes always less than me, its depressing coz it feels as though i'm having to compeat against her. and all my friends are really skinny. i just wish i could get my motervation back and be as skinny as them *sigh*
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 8:13 pm
Fuzzy Necromancer Miya12 emeraldwhirlwind I've honestly lucked out and gotten some of the ebst parents in the world lol. We're not rich by any means but we live comfortably, but they support me in the stuff that I do and don't rag on me about my weight (prolly because they are also overweight hard to say) they've always been there for me when I try to lose weight and fail....but they tried the diet with me lol. I know that's all off topic but I can say I'm here to support anyone who's parents get on them about their weight or are just feeling down. I always wanna cheer em up, my pm box is open anytime. thanks. its only recently that i've been able to eat infront of my dad, he always gos on about me picking at food. its so depressing. its not really any of his buisness. my parents arn't at all surportive. my mum has started losing weight after i started so no matter how much i lose shes always less than me, its depressing coz it feels as though i'm having to compeat against her. and all my friends are really skinny. i just wish i could get my motervation back and be as skinny as them *sigh* u didn't post anything cry
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 3:13 am
Shampoo_0405 Don't even get me started on my Mom. My Mom shoves losing weight like it's a drug or something. I'm pretty much the only over weight one in my family and she is makeing lose weight for she wants me too. Now, it's ok..I mean it's good to work out, but my Mom has make up schedules for when I should do what work out. She says nasty things. She packs my own lunch for school and controls everything I eat. I mean..it's nice for I am losing a bit weight..but it's going too far.
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 6:27 am
Shampoo_0405 Shampoo_0405 Don't even get me started on my Mom. My Mom shoves losing weight like it's a drug or something. I'm pretty much the only over weight one in my family and she is makeing lose weight for she wants me too. Now, it's ok..I mean it's good to work out, but my Mom has make up schedules for when I should do what work out. She says nasty things. She packs my own lunch for school and controls everything I eat. I mean..it's nice for I am losing a bit weight..but it's going too far. Have I ever mentioned how much I hate your mom for treating you like garbage? evil
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 8:31 am
Shampoo_0405 Shampoo_0405 Don't even get me started on my Mom. My Mom shoves losing weight like it's a drug or something. I'm pretty much the only over weight one in my family and she is makeing lose weight for she wants me too. Now, it's ok..I mean it's good to work out, but my Mom has make up schedules for when I should do what work out. She says nasty things. She packs my own lunch for school and controls everything I eat. I mean..it's nice for I am losing a bit weight..but it's going too far. your mum sounds really over the top. how much do you weigh if you don't mind me asking? yoiu should only lose weight for yourself or a boyfriend, not because parents pressure you in to it. hugs
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