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[Eyes Wide Shut]

PostPosted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 7:24 pm


I don't think I've ever posted here before, but i lurk quite a bit..
I'm about 5'1 and 265lbs...
My guy is about 6'0 and maybe...180lbs..
He wants me to be on top during sex, but I'm afraid I will squish him even though he says I won't..
Has anyone else had this...issue?
PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 8:43 am


Are you lying on top of him or putting all your weight on his hips? o.o

I can imagine that having 250lbs on top of you would be something, but you have to keep in mind it's not like you just like limp and lifeless when doing... you know. ^_^;

MangaJoe


Fuzzy Necromancer

PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 12:47 pm


Don't worry about squishing him. The human body can take more than twice its own weight in pressure, especially if it's not dead weight.

Anyway, some guys like to be squished a bit. ninja
PostPosted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:44 am


i have this same issue!
well, kinda

my bf is like 5'5 and 165 lbs while i'm a much larger 5'6 210 lbs. he wants me to be on top but i'm afraid of hurting him. plus, he won't let me have a shirt on b.c he likes boobs but i worry about the jigglies.
they watch when you're on top and that makes me uncomfortable >.<

i think we need to take big breaths and just do it
and if we hurt 'em, they'd let us know. no CSI for us!

MadameStoner


Fuzzy Necromancer

PostPosted: Sat Jul 18, 2009 9:51 pm


Here here! You need to woman up and do it.

You shouldn't feel self-concious during sex. The simple fact that you are naked is enough to drive your guy or gal wild.
PostPosted: Sun Aug 09, 2009 2:24 am


well i've been trying on top (i dunno about you) and i'm getting more comfortable with it. i just cant seem to get fast enough for my liking though...

practice makes perfect i guess?

MadameStoner


Aeris The Angel of Chaos

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 11:50 pm


I personally dont like to be on top even though I dont mind it. It just feels awkward. Doggy is fun though XD
PostPosted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:38 am


Awe, I used to feel the same way
But believe me

Guys can take it 4laugh

Deflowered by a Lollipop


Eleisum

PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 8:30 am


Never had a problem with crushing and I'm dealing with a similar size ratio. I find the matress does give some and ofcourse I don't just lie on him, I'm propped up and I'm leaning back at times. It's all good.
PostPosted: Fri Oct 16, 2009 7:50 pm


Deflowered by a Lollipop
Awe, I used to feel the same way
But believe me

Guys can take it 4laugh



Adds an element of Danger....


I doubt your dating Doug Jones...... OTherwise, its fine...

Matt Pniewski


Jinnari Kisaragi
Crew

Divine Spirit

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:45 pm


I don't know why people keep asking this question. I may be a b***h but frankly I think if the guy asks for it...give it to him. If he breaks a hip...well he asked for it. lol

All joking aside....and seriously folks....as I have said before....you won't break him. I am more than twice my bf's weight and he takes it...and keeps asking for more. And this is either sitting or laying on top of him. He says it makes him feel warm and cozy...and sexy. Guys like that. lol I just don't like being compared to a blanket all that much. lol
PostPosted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 7:32 pm


they are all good, unless you can't bend that way. whee at the most you'll just send him to the ER, and he gets a shot of pain killer for pulling a muscle or something...still a win win really. He gets to brag about going there because of lusty love making, and he also gets a free high....just don't ask me more about that.. >.>

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