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 Posted: Fri Jun 12, 2009 2:10 pm
So, I broke up with him in February (communication issues). I explored other options which were ok.
So recently me and him started talking again and it felt pleasant. Like the begining was awkward because he said he thinks about me everyday when he wakes up. (I really have missed him) But it was a really nice conversation, I wish he was like that when we were together. But after that we talk to each every so often.
Last time he was talking about how bored he was, and I said maybe sometime this summer we can go see a movie or something (just being nice as a friend) before I go to college this fall a few states away. But I recently saw some of his photos, and he got hotter. I am not saying I miss him because of this, but he knows that when I find someone highly attractive I can not control what I say and I stammer (I've grown to ignore his current hottness). I know he wants me back and I want him, but I don't want to start anything before I leave because that is unfair to him.
What do I do so I don't spill my feelings to him and lead him on only to leave in 2 months?
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Posted: Fri Jun 12, 2009 4:15 pm
I'd be honest and talk about it if I were you. He wants you and you want him, so this is a decision you two should be making together. It sounds like the only thing holding you back right now is the fact that you think it would be unfair to him since you're going to college far away. But what if he doesn't feel like it would be unfair? What if he just wants to be with you no matter where you are? What if he wouldn't mind only getting to see on holidays and breaks until you're finished with college?
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Posted: Fri Jun 12, 2009 5:37 pm
Yeah like he doesnt like long distant relationships, because that also added into why we broke up because he moved half an hour away, and even though I told him it was fine just call me, he said he didnt want that cause it was unfair to both of us.
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Posted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 6:00 pm
He broke up with you because he moved a half hour away? neutral Wow. (Sorry.)
Well I guess then if he still doesn't want to do a long distance relationship, the you guys can just enjoy each other's company until you leave. If you do want something more, then communicate and tell him before it's too late.
Or wait until you're both old enough to be on your own and can either live together or make your own commute back and forth.
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Posted: Sun Jun 21, 2009 10:51 pm
Nikolita He broke up with you because he moved a half hour away? neutral Wow. (Sorry.) quote] Yeah I know right lol. I believe it's going to be ok. We decided we were going to spend time together this summer before I go to college. I think its funny because I have always been able to make the commute, I have even went farther for other things that were not as important as a relationship. He's wierd, but he's a cutie lol. Thank you all for the advice.
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