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 Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:24 pm
ok, first yes im a boy... i know that gaia frouns on have a avi thats not your gender but dressing up girls is so much more fun. ^.^
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i just had sex... like a week ago. it was bolth of our first times. we were alone music insence comfy bed locked door all that. we were bolth really into it (i think)
Then about and hour or so into it she started to pull away, like get distant. i slowed and saked whats was wrong and she nuged be off of her and said "im gust getting really tired" kissed me and fell asleep...
is that normal, did i ********, was i bad or herting her. i asked and thats all shell tell me. "i got tired" im so confused. im i just being over analitical and stupid?
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Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:41 pm
All you can do is talk to her and ask what's up. Maybe she got nervous, maybe she realized she was in over her head, or maybe she really was tired. But you won't know until you ask her.
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Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:42 pm
thank you for the support
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Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:59 pm
she might be really tired, after people who had sex they become really exhausted.
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Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 11:17 pm
You will probably have to ask her. There could be a lot of explanations for it.
- She really was tired
- She was in pain because it had been going on so long
- She had thought she was ready but became uncomfortable with it.
Communication is the basis of any good relationship so just talk to her.
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Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 11:03 am
StreetchIcK123 she might be really tired, after people who had sex they become really exhausted. uhum....that can be the reason
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Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 6:19 pm
Mod edited for coherence.
wait... and an hour or so is too long? ( don't laugh i don't know )
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Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 7:39 pm
Not a big deal if you were into it for a hour she probabaly got tried
also i you've ever masterbated you'd know you get really tired or thats just me.
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Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 9:23 pm
TylonAzerealGar Mod edited for coherence.wait... and an hour or so is too long? ( don't laugh i don't know ) It varies for everyone. Some people can have sex immediately after they come/orgasm (male and female), some people need to wait a few minutes (both male and female), and some people have to wait awhile longer (both male and female).
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 11:48 am
Very true. There are some people who can c** in quickies (normally less than 15 minutes, but everyone defines it differently).
There are many people who take it long and luxuriously. If you lasted for an hour on your first time...well, wow. Most guys don't. They get over-anxious, which makes it hard to hold it.
Some guys also are "double headers" or are able to orgasm twice in a row.
Many women can't achieve an orgasm. Everyone is different. But the key is communication.
Just ask her.
It's not a very good relationship if you aren't comfortable asking.
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Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 12:06 am
Sex is made up of three stages (or four, I forget) but they basically mean you can't get it off constantly
There's the 'warm up' stage where you get an errection
Then there's the 'excitement' stage when you actually orgasm
And finally the 'resting' phase, which usually takes longer in men, but just lets your body get back to normal before cumming again.
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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 1:21 pm
Probably she was tired.. I mean, if she got asleep probably it was true.. but f it was your both first time she could also have given it a second thougth.. but I believe you should ask her..
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 12:45 am
Huh, you know something like that happened to me too the last time i had sex, we had to stop because he got tired, and i was wondering if i was doing something wrong....or not doing something...i mean im on the bottom...theres nottoo muchi can do....that i know of...so yeah...but it sounds like she just got really tired....so yeah...
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 8:07 am
An hour is a really long time for over all sexual intercourse. I know from experience that she really was tired. Think for one moment: It was both your first times, and you went on for an hour. I know, also, that women tire faster than men. I get tired after about twenty minutes. A lot of men like to go on longer than that.
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 5:20 pm
TylonAzerealGar ok, first yes im a boy... i know that gaia frouns on have a avi thats not your gender but dressing up girls is so much more fun. ^.^ now... i just had sex... like a week ago. it was bolth of our first times. we were alone music insence comfy bed locked door all that. we were bolth really into it (i think) Then about and hour or so into it she started to pull away, like get distant. i slowed and saked whats was wrong and she nuged be off of her and said "im gust getting really tired" kissed me and fell asleep... is that normal, did i ********, was i bad or herting her. i asked and thats all shell tell me. "i got tired" im so confused. im i just being over analitical and stupid? dude...how old are you...by the way you type you sound to be like 13 or something...but then again...i guess you cant judge a book by its cover... if you were like 13 or so...then she probably thought about what it was she was doing...and she realized...just as you should have...that it was too young to be having sex...
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