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Conservative Businesswoman
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 Posted: Mon May 25, 2009 7:01 pm
I hate how the best guys in the world are your best friends. You are friends with them a couple years and you get to know them. Sometimes they turn out really sweet. Then you start to like them as more but they can't stand the idea of you being their girlfriend or anything else more than a friend because you are to you... crying i know get a life tasia there are other guys out there
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Posted: Sat Jun 20, 2009 2:45 pm
Here's the thing. NEVER, EVER be boyfriends with best friends. Why? It will screw up your friendship. Like how it is now. Yes, there are more fish out there in the old big blue. I hope your over it now and have a hot, cool boyfriend that makes the best friend envious and jealous that you found happiness without him. Muhwahahah~ *coughs* *hacks up a lung*
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Posted: Mon Jun 22, 2009 1:28 pm
I disagree. In my eyperience most longer lasting relationships are the results of extremely close friendshipts taken to the next level.
Howerver I agree, that you always put a great friendship at risk. You might loose this particular friend if something goes wrong.
But if you have to think about if you prefer spending a short time happy as his girlfriend or if you rather have him longer as a friend then you he probably isn't worth it.
However: if you should find yourself in the situation saying: I want to be happy WITH him... even if it is for a short time... I want to be with him for ever.. but if I can only be with him for a short time... then I'd rather be WITH him a short time, than next to him for a long time, then you should put the effort in it and make him see you really love him... because then you have real feelings for him... and maybe he will realise... maybe he wont... no guarantees given
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Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2009 9:34 am
well for one i am only fifteen so my looking ahead skills are easily clouded.
i like him a lot but he is my BEST friend he knows more about me than anyone and can't ruin it with a relationship. thanks for the advice but i know that the first reply is right now matter how much i like him.
but our friendship is still okay even though he knows i like him. so i will take what i got
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Conservative Businesswoman
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Posted: Sat Nov 28, 2009 5:32 am
my advice may not be the best, most of my friendz are girlz. I wouldnt ruin my friendship by seeing them as a girlfriend. Some have asked but i usually decline. They understand.
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