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mind-power

PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 8:28 pm


um.. I think I might be bi.. or it might just be a stage, I'm really confused. I'm attracted to other girls, but.. I'm not sure what it is... help me please.
PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 8:31 pm


Think about it for a few moments. If you can't really figure it out, just wait and see what happens. It's not wrong if you're bisexual, although I am really afraid of what might happen if I turn completely gay (A.K.A. how the hell I'll live with the rest of society). But it's not wrong. Just a shocker.

Specter125


Kahri

PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 10:56 pm


The questioning stage you are going through is normal. Many many people go through it, deciding who they are at the end. Just hang in there, take it easy and be honest with yourself.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 2:29 am


the_kewlest_loser_ever
um.. I think I might be bi.. or it might just be a stage, I'm really confused. I'm attracted to other girls, but.. I'm not sure what it is... help me please.

I think you might be bi-curious.. You'll know, I think, if you've been in a relationship with a girl and have done things with her
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Dark Eagle Babe


Yuyi the Mermaid

PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 7:36 am


try not to think too hard, or you will get confused. The answer is already there. Didnt you say you were attracted to girls?
PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 6:20 pm


Carol Brown
try not to think too hard, or you will get confused. The answer is already there. Didnt you say you were attracted to girls?
yes, but not like i am to guys... it's..um.. like i can't help but stare at other girls.. i havn't tried to tell any of my friends yet.. i'm not willing to start an actual long-term relationship with any of them, but I feel sexualy attracted to them... sweatdrop

mind-power


ToeboysGurl

PostPosted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 2:08 pm


the_kewlest_loser_ever
Carol Brown
try not to think too hard, or you will get confused. The answer is already there. Didnt you say you were attracted to girls?
yes, but not like i am to guys... it's..um.. like i can't help but stare at other girls.. i havn't tried to tell any of my friends yet.. i'm not willing to start an actual long-term relationship with any of them, but I feel sexualy attracted to them... sweatdrop


And that's perfectly acceptable. Thats how I started qeastioning myself. (I'm biselxual myself, with homosexual tendancies. which just means I lik girls more then guys.) I was lucky when I figured it out cuz I had ALOT of help from my best friend, who also is. In the end, I would have figured it out a little later. (most likely AFTER my friends figured it out about them, and me) When my friend came out to me, she told me how she figured it out (the reason why I'm wrting this novel lol) "Would I ever care if I never had another relationship with a male? No, I wouldn't. Would I care if I never had another relationship with another female? Yes I would." That's my advice to you. Oh that, and, don't worry; it will become clear in time. mrgreen PM me any time you need advice, as I tell my friends in school: my mind's always open to here them out and to give them advice.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:32 am


Be honest with yourself and your feelings and you will eventually figure everything out. 3nodding It helps if you can find someone supportive to talk to as well, either a friend or someone else you trust.

Scatterheart

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BelthazorWyatt

PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:01 pm


im in the same as u

im feeling atracted to boys, and also girls

but i feel differente when i see a guy than a girl
when i see a guy a like i feel exited redface but when i see a girl i like i feel like "oo, she is pretty heart "

i hope u understandme redface
PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:27 pm


This may sound blunt, and vulgar.
But this is probably the most effective way of determining
Whether you're gay, bi, or straight.
When you see a girl, does it make you hot?
When you see a guy, does it make you hot?
As in aroused.
Hope that's PG-13 enough.

Nigatsu Sakura

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