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Melody Hikari-Shinu Anson Vice Captain
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 Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 4:00 pm
Either I am truly a d**k/dork, or I really enjoy ******** with people. =/
My latest, uh, "attack" is on a friend of mine who I loved for two years until recently. Mostly, I decided to stop after the "two months of him not sending me any messages", though his idea of resetting his character 2 years after he joined an RP acted as a catalyst.
Now, I want to see how far I can push him until he starts to shove back.
D| Either he's really dense, or he's really trying to not yell at me, since it didn't take much when Kira and I were fighting for him to yell at both of us.
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Posted: Sun May 31, 2009 3:04 pm
I'm sorta like that. I'm both manupulative and a perpatrator.
I know how to toy with people's minds to get them to do what I want after a long argument or something. They think they've won because of whatver happened but the second they leave angrily, I just smile. Since they are now pissed for hours while I not only got what I had started the arguemnt for but I also am quite happy with the results.
Usually I do this with my little brother. My BF and I will be hanging out and my brother will try to bother us and just hang around trying to join into our conversations. Eventually I'll start screaming at hime while my BF gets kinda freaked out and my brother will leave sullenly or very angrily. I then smile and continue "talking" to my BF.
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Melody Hikari-Shinu Anson Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 01, 2009 8:57 am
xD
Now now, don't scare off the boyfriend. You can let loose after marriage.
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Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2009 11:46 am
That's my plan! lol. I just hope I can wait that long. But I don't plan to marrry my current boyfriend though. I've got years of dating before I plan to settle down.
And trust me, if you had met my brother you would understand. My BF is shocked when I yell but he also wants my brother to leave. My little bro is soooo annoying. Do you have any siblings?
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Melody Hikari-Shinu Anson Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Jun 04, 2009 2:36 pm
Yea, and I used to want to play with my brother's friends and called them mine once. emo I was the baby sibling. Well, I still am, but not so whiny.
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Posted: Thu Jun 04, 2009 6:50 pm
I'm in the center. It's not fun. I call My older sister's friends my friends sometimes. We are in the same school so I see them. But I don't think of them as close friends like my own.
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Melody Hikari-Shinu Anson Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 12:04 am
Heh... I think I should apologize.
Eventually.
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 7:06 am
At least you're being annoying on purpose, Mel.
Robert is annoyed with me, and has every right to be.
But does EVERYTHING have to be a battle? Does it always have to be "I win" or "you lose" or something?
Seriously.
We were discussing things about each other that annoy us, and he got to a part when he was like "it feels like you trap me into calling you later, when you ask 'so when you wanna talk later?'" and I'm like "dude, no one's forcing you to ******** call." And he's like "but it FEELS that way, I feel obligated to..." "you know you're not obligated, right?" "yeah..." "then fine. Don't call. It's not like I'm going to shoot you."
One of the ones I said was "it's like, you don't even consider how I feel about having to pay an additional 20 bucks a night for the hotel for Otakon." "Well we THOUGHT there would be a third person, it was all we could do at the time..." "Yeah, well, now there's no excuse to not try to GET a third person, but you don't want to." "*sigh* I TOLD you I'd cover it, honey." "You KNOW I wouldn't let you do that alone, Robert." "Then you have no right to complain."
That last part. That's the one that got me. It made me feel cold and hollow. I ended up crying pretty hard.
But it's not like you could tell at first. I just ended up with my voice sounding kind of dead. And disturbingly calm. Like all the life or emotion was sucked out of it, just dark and dead.
After a while, he said "that was too harsh, wasn't it...? I'm sorry..." "Yeah." "Honey, really, I'm sorr--" "You already said it, didn't you?" "... Yeah..." "Then you've done enough. There's nothing else you can do, is there?" "I guess..." "Fine. *choking up a little at this point*" "Honey..." "You know I try. I REALLY try. I try REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY hard to make things nice for you. I really do. *severe choking up*"" "Honey, I know, and I appreciate it..." "... *dead voice again, after a pause* Fine, then. You're right. I have no right to complain. It was all we could have done at the time." "Yeah... Better to be prepared for a third person than unprepared?" "OR we could have just paid the extra 20 bucks up front if we DID get a third person." "..."
I'm not having a good night or day.
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Melody Hikari-Shinu Anson Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 9:25 pm
I don't TRY to be annoying. I just do it without much thought. I've a strong want for revenge, probably stemming back from elementary school [I've told you how many times I wanted Mewtwo's powers and what I'd do with them]. It's also probably a built up of all the frustration, and since I finally took him off the safe zone, or the "whatever you do, don't kill this person" list, I just unleashed it all on him, trying to find a way that I could push back against him even more, finding any button I can push that would result in him finally pushing back, so that I could probably "destroy" the relationship that had been. I'm not sure if it was so I could build it anew from the destruction, as things that are completely destroyed are easier to fix than horribly mangled constructions.
Also, that "You have no right to complain" line seems out of place to me. o_O I'm trying to follow the map of events, and that line seems so out of place. How do you have no right to complain? Because you weren't paying and he was covering it? You have right to complain a little, since you were accepted as a roommate, and he's denying you the right to pay. [If I'm understanding this right]
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Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 4:01 pm
I don't think the "No right to complain" line was out of place. A lot of the time it's the fastest way to stop the arguement for a short time. Really, since complaining won't fix what's already happened, it's pretty useless. Unless you're sick and/ or dying, there is never much of a place for complaints if it's already happened.
At least, he apologized. If he knows what happened and acknowledged that you're upset with it, then that is something to feel a little better about. Also that he must have been thinking about what he said and mainly about you in general. Not much but it's something smile
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