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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 8:44 am

So I know that it's possible to get STDs from unprotected oral sex but is it possible to get STDs from oral sex when it's a first time for both people? Are there STDs that you can get without having sex and then could transmit them through oral? I'm curious because I never really considered using protection for oral because it's a first for both of us but one of my friends seemed very surprized when I was talking to her and said, "You really need to ask him to use protection." So what do you think?

Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 1:57 pm

OhtarwenElenya

So I know that it's possible to get STDs from unprotected oral sex but is it possible to get STDs from oral sex when it's a first time for both people? Are there STDs that you can get without having sex and then could transmit them through oral? I'm curious because I never really considered using protection for oral because it's a first for both of us but one of my friends seemed very surprized when I was talking to her and said, "You really need to ask him to use protection." So what do you think?

If you really trust him, I'd say it's fine. There is a slight chance of getting an STD off a toilet seat or something, but I doubt it.

I think your friend needs to read up on her sexual education.

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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 6:09 pm

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OhtarwenElenya

So I know that it's possible to get STDs from unprotected oral sex but is it possible to get STDs from oral sex when it's a first time for both people? Are there STDs that you can get without having sex and then could transmit them through oral? I'm curious because I never really considered using protection for oral because it's a first for both of us but one of my friends seemed very surprized when I was talking to her and said, "You really need to ask him to use protection." So what do you think?

If you really trust him, I'd say it's fine. There is a slight chance of getting an STD off a toilet seat or something, but I doubt it.

I think your friend needs to read up on her sexual education.

I think you need to too. You can't get and STD from a toilet seat. That is an urban legend and an excuse that people who don't want to admit they have had sex use.

There is a chance that you may have gotten an STD transmitted to you as a baby from one of your parents but the curable ones are taken care of in the hospital. If you are worried you should both go to a clinic and get tested. Plus then you will know for sure in the event you decide to have sex.

So yes there are STDs that can be transmitted through oral and it's unlikely you have any but it's best to check and you'll feel better.

Your friend probably suggest that just because she doesn't trust him as much as you do and wants you to be safe.

Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 6:30 pm

OhtarwenElenya

So I know that it's possible to get STDs from unprotected oral sex but is it possible to get STDs from oral sex when it's a first time for both people? Are there STDs that you can get without having sex and then could transmit them through oral? I'm curious because I never really considered using protection for oral because it's a first for both of us but one of my friends seemed very surprized when I was talking to her and said, "You really need to ask him to use protection." So what do you think?

It doesn't matter whether or not it's your first time. If you're having oral sex, then yes there's a risk that they can be transfered during oral. If you're not comfortable with having oral with someone you're not sure is clean or not, ask them to get tested BEFORE having oral sex with them. Then if you're clean, you'll know you're ok. You might want to get yourself tested too, just in case.

Technically, you're supposed to use protection (condom, dental dam, etc) but I think most people don't. It's up to you and what risks you're willing to take.

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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 8:21 pm

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OhtarwenElenya

So I know that it's possible to get STDs from unprotected oral sex but is it possible to get STDs from oral sex when it's a first time for both people? Are there STDs that you can get without having sex and then could transmit them through oral? I'm curious because I never really considered using protection for oral because it's a first for both of us but one of my friends seemed very surprized when I was talking to her and said, "You really need to ask him to use protection." So what do you think?

If you really trust him, I'd say it's fine. There is a slight chance of getting an STD off a toilet seat or something, but I doubt it.

I think your friend needs to read up on her sexual education.

I think you need to too. You can't get and STD from a toilet seat. That is an urban legend and an excuse that people who don't want to admit they have had sex use.

There is a chance that you may have gotten an STD transmitted to you as a baby from one of your parents but the curable ones are taken care of in the hospital. If you are worried you should both go to a clinic and get tested. Plus then you will know for sure in the event you decide to have sex.

So yes there are STDs that can be transmitted through oral and it's unlikely you have any but it's best to check and you'll feel better.

Your friend probably suggest that just because she doesn't trust him as much as you do and wants you to be safe.

http://experts.about.com/q/2106/3609581.htm

I said slight.

Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 12:05 am

From what I know, there are STDs that can be transmitted through birth. AIDs is the biggie. I didn't use protection because both myself and my bf were virgins, but getting tested is a good thing. If you trust your partner, then it's okay.

But the main thing to remember is that the point of this is to say that oral sex isn't just a casual venture. It's called sex for a reason and needs to be taken seriously.

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