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 Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 3:13 pm
I'd say I masterbate a few times a week (2-4 maybe) Is that too much?
Also, I only use my fingers. I'm sort of scared to stick anything up me, and I tried with my finger once and it hurt a bit so I stopped.
And I can't ever make it last longer! I usually read erotic stories to get me going, and I can feel and tell when I'm going to 'climax,' and then it does, and it's pretty small and quick, just like a quick shudder, and then I don't feel like doing it anymore.
How can I make it last longer and be more pleasurable?
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 4:25 pm
2-4 times a week is not too much. heart It's normal, if you're satisfied with that, then it's just right for you.
If it hurts to penetrate yourself with your finger(s) but you still want to try, there are a few things that will help.
First, relax and try not to tense up. If you've never penetrated yourself there before, with your fingers, or had sex, or used a tampon, you're naturally going to be a little tight there.
If you have some form of lubrication available, that helps a whole lot. KY liquid is a good choice, or astroglide, you could probably find either at a local drugstore or a wal-mart. If you can't get ahold of any, a last resort would be using your saliva, but it dries out quicker than something like KY.
Using a lot of lubrication and going slow when you use your fingers will help a lot if you still want to try it.
An easy way to make your masturbation sessions last longer, and possibly make your orgasm longer and more pleasurable is to build up to the point right before orgasm and then stop the stimulation. Let yourself cool down and the sensation fade, and then slowly build back up. Doing this as many times as you can stand, or feel like doing will probably help a whole lot.
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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 5:14 am
LeRaven I'd say I masterbate a few times a week (2-4 maybe) Is that too much? Also, I only use my fingers. I'm sort of scared to stick anything up me, and I tried with my finger once and it hurt a bit so I stopped. And I can't ever make it last longer! I usually read erotic stories to get me going, and I can feel and tell when I'm going to 'climax,' and then it does, and it's pretty small and quick, just like a quick shudder, and then I don't feel like doing it anymore. How can I make it last longer and be more pleasurable? 2-4 times a week . . . I do it once a day at least. If you're using a vibrator, experiment with different speeds. I found what makes mine longer is to kind of pulse while I'm climaxing, to give that extra little push. I haven't figured out how to make it slower, though. I do hear you on not feeling like doing it anymore after, though. The only time I ever feel like doing anything sexual after I have an orgasm is if my boyfriend is touching me and bringing me back to that spot.
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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 6:25 pm
LeRaven I'd say I masterbate a few times a week (2-4 maybe) Is that too much? Also, I only use my fingers. I'm sort of scared to stick anything up me, and I tried with my finger once and it hurt a bit so I stopped. And I can't ever make it last longer! I usually read erotic stories to get me going, and I can feel and tell when I'm going to 'climax,' and then it does, and it's pretty small and quick, just like a quick shudder, and then I don't feel like doing it anymore. How can I make it last longer and be more pleasurable? I don't masturbate at all, and that's fine, so yes 2 - 4 times a week is fine too. Try experimenting different things. Use your fingers, get a sex toy you're comfortable with, etc. Use lots of lube, and try to relax as much as you can. Only do what you're comfortable with.
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 12:16 pm
smasha LeRaven I'd say I masterbate a few times a week (2-4 maybe) Is that too much? Also, I only use my fingers. I'm sort of scared to stick anything up me, and I tried with my finger once and it hurt a bit so I stopped. And I can't ever make it last longer! I usually read erotic stories to get me going, and I can feel and tell when I'm going to 'climax,' and then it does, and it's pretty small and quick, just like a quick shudder, and then I don't feel like doing it anymore. How can I make it last longer and be more pleasurable? 2-4 times a week . . . I do it once a day at least. If you're using a vibrator, experiment with different speeds. I found what makes mine longer is to kind of pulse while I'm climaxing, to give that extra little push. I haven't figured out how to make it slower, though. I do hear you on not feeling like doing it anymore after, though. The only time I ever feel like doing anything sexual after I have an orgasm is if my boyfriend is touching me and bringing me back to that spot. Well I'm only 14 so sex toys aren't exactly reachable sweatdrop But I actually tried to use my electric toothbrush for the first time the other day when no one was home. The end of it of course, but I didn't stick it in me, but I think it actually made it more, pleasurable and lasted longer 3nodding
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