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 Posted: Sat May 02, 2009 12:21 pm
I just got a call from my bf this morning and at first I am willing to admit that I felt like my heart was ripped out of my chest and that I wanted to hide but once I heard what he had to say I felt better.
basically he said that he wasnt dumping me but that he had to focus more on his job and that he wanted to get me a promise ring. but temporarily we are at friends level. How do you go back to cahtting like friends when you have been in a long distance relationship with someone for nearly 6 months?
I feel very awkward trying to start a conversation that way with the person I love more than life itself?
any advice or words of encouragement? sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue May 05, 2009 2:08 pm
I understand how you feel. I had to do the same thing when me and my ex broke up, but I still wanted to be friends. It's difficult, but after a while you get used to it. We didn't end up so well though for other reasons. Basically stray away from anything that would be discussed between a couple. Just ask about how his everyday life and how things are going. Mostly what it needs is time.
Just PM me if you wanna talk more. I'm willing to listen and give advice.
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Posted: Tue May 05, 2009 5:33 pm
Thanks for the advice. It means alot to me. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed May 13, 2009 3:52 pm
heres whats on my mind currently:
People are so damn annoying! i go to work and do my assignments without complaining or telling them that i wount do it and youd think theyd be grateful for my work being done right but oh no! they would rather stand there and scream at me and tell me how much of a screw up i am and that i should be "perfect" .
im standing there thinking "yeah if i was so damn perfect id not need this job much less work anywehere else!"
i hate people !
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2009 6:28 pm
Sounds like you've got some pretty lousy superiors. While I would consider myself pretty fortunate to have any kind of job, and it's true that sucky jobs build character, I'd suggest that you try to find something better as soon as possible. Nobody needs to put up with that level of abuse.
If that fails, though, remember all the juicy details. It'll make a great story to tell your kids/nieces and nephews in a couple of decades.
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Posted: Mon May 18, 2009 7:25 pm
As much as the job might suck right now, the biggest thing to remember is try and not thing of it as a terrible job. If you go to work everyday thinking "Man, this job sucks!", then you'll already be in a terrible work mood, and it will only get worse, and you will purposely look for proof of how terrible it is.
But, if you think "Hey, it could be worse" or some other slightly optimistic feeling, as hard as it may be, you'll likely find yourself in a better mood and might begin to overlook some of the smaller crappy details and notice the better ones.
It's not just dumb psychology, I've experienced it, and so have many others I know.
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Posted: Mon May 18, 2009 7:26 pm
yeah i know but it still stresses me out to no end and i wish that the store manager would keep his BS home where it belongs because it makes me go from focused to forgetful and everytime i mess up they yell at me for it and i just want to blow up that place that much more sweatdrop stressed
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Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 12:32 am
sorry i havent posted uin awhile. i have been super busy and now dealing with a break up that happened to me two nights ago.
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namine melfina Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 8:21 am
If you're superiors are that bossy and you hate it, quit, get a new job, and find one that's better. I know it might be hard in this economy, but hey, if you're unhappy with your job and you're not doing anything about it, then you might as well get a new one that suits you better.
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Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 1:51 pm
normally that would be how i would handle that particular circumstance but in this case i dont hate all my co-workers just two certain people and my job is fairly easy so im cool with it.
i just have my bad days and here lately "murphy's law" has decided to mess me up three times this week. no biggie i always pull through it all
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Posted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 6:27 pm
New issue/question
Has anyone ever the vexing problem with being confused as to what the person you love wants? I was having a heated discussion with a certain gaian member. and I was needless to say very confused and nervous as to what this guy would say to me in a pm.
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