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PostPosted: Thu Apr 30, 2009 3:11 pm


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Not sure if this goes here but what the heck.

I'm going on 17 years old now and this is new to me so I'm totally worried.

Ever since a few months ago, I've been wanting a baby. Sometimes I dream about them, and whenever I see them i just think about how wonderful it would be to have a little bundle of joy of my own. i know having a baby right now isn't sensible because well the economy sucks and stuff but it's just a small obsession I'm hoping to get over soon.

Also, for my whole life I've considered myself a straight girl. For the last few months I've been thinking about other women and dreaming about them etc. etc. etc. To the point where having intercourse with my boyfriend is no longer appealing to me. Do we all experiance this sometime in our life. I've never really looked at the same sex in a dating kinda of way to recently and it's kind of strange to me.

Have any other girls experienced this? Is this normal?
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PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2009 1:25 pm


I'm almost 23 now, and I've been wanting a baby since I was 19. I'm finally old enough and with someone where having a family is a possibility, but he wants to wait. sweatdrop In my case, I think a lot of my urges for a family come from hormones, but I know part of it is also just me wanting a family. Actually, I had a really vivid dream last night about being pregnant. whee So with this issue I can relate, and I think it's normal. I know I've heard other teens say similar things.

As for dreaming about the same-sex, I'm not sure. If you're not sure, maybe a talk with a counsellor might help you sort things out? Not because there's something wrong with you, but because they might be able to help you sort your thoughts and dreams out, and figure out if there's something behind your dreams or if they're just dreams and don't really mean anything. Sorry I can't be of more help with this issue. >_<

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PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2009 7:32 am


Haha, thanks on both Nik.
I guess I just think it's weird because whenever I think of teenagers with babies I also think of Maury or Jerry Springer so it seems like a bad thing to want.
PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 11:56 am


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Wanting a baby is completely normal. I know I personally think about pregnancy, and babies quite a bit. I occasionally wonder what my kids will be like, I've thought of a few names I like, and I absolutely love shopping for my adult-friend's baby. I just consider myself to be a very "motherly" type.

Just think though, I'm sure you'll be a great mom...but if you have kids now it wouldn't be the best time. If you want to be a good mom, a great mom...then you'll wait until the time comes so you'll be ready and can give them the best life possible.

What's helped me not want to get pregnant now, is the actual reality of it. I'm dating a guy who wouldn't mind going "further" into our relationship, but the thought of me getting pregnant, and that actual struggle of being a teen mom, has made me quit fantasizing, and face reality.

Try spending more "me time" and stay busy. Get your mind on sports/school/books/etc. and you should realize that you kinda "don't need" a baby right now.

Thoughts about being with another girl..
Well, I've kinda wondered before But I'm not really into the whole "bisexuality" thing. It's most likely hormones putting thoughts into your head. Try focusing more on your boyfriend, and what you like about him to keep things "spicy" between ya'll.

Media of any kind can be making you have crazy dreams and fantasies. Tv, magazines, books, even just talking to friends about such could put these thoughts in your head and give you dreams. Medication and eating before bed can also.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 01, 2009 6:49 pm


Best bet, wait till you can afford it, dedicated and 100% ready. You don't want a kid at 17, nor at 20 and maybe not even 25. Lot of work and discipline.
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