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 Posted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 7:19 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months, and both of us have discussed sex, and have pretty much gone up to anything but sex until last week.
My parents left the house for awhile, so he came over. When we tried, he couldn't stay hard, which is understandable because he coulda been A, nervous, and B, worried about my parents coming home.
Like 5 days later, he came over again and we were fooling around, and despite the fact that we decided we wouldn't try again unless my parents weren't home, we agreed to just be quiet since everyone was asleep.
Only problem this time, is I got dry really quick, and couldn't get wet again after awhile, therefore sex not happening.
We're both comfortable with eachother, and want to have sex. So thats not the issue.
Anyone have any ideas?
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 12:56 am
Buy some lubricant. 3nodding Anything that's water-based will work with condoms, whereas anything else that's oil based like Vaseline will deteriorate the condom and could cause it to break. Saliva works too, if you're into that. Good brands to try are KY Liquid/Jelly, and Astroglide, but your local pharmacy probably has some other brands that you could try too.
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 9:25 am
Nikolita's right. Grab a water-based lubricant from the store. That's exactly what it's for! blaugh
And as for him not keep an erection, you're right, he was probably nervous or worried. No cause for concern unless it ends up being a long-term problem.
And as always, make sure you're using protection!
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Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 7:26 am
.... and, there's no such thing as too much foreplay.
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Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 6:05 pm
LorienLlewellyn Nikolita's right. Grab a water-based lubricant from the store. That's exactly what it's for! blaugh And as for him not keep an erection, you're right, he was probably nervous or worried. No cause for concern unless it ends up being a long-term problem. And as always, make sure you're using protection! Yep! If you're not on hormonal birth control for back-up, then definitely use spermicide or a contraceptive sponge, or some other method so that if the condom DOES ever fail, you have an extra bit of protection. You can never be 100% protected, but the more methods the better.
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