|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 1:49 pm
Me and my bf both want to have sex, and this will be our first times. I really want to do this, I'm sure and I've decided it. But have a problem of pregnancy. I'm so afraid of it. I'm almost 16 and I don't want to be young mother. Of course, we wouldn't do this without condom, but I don't trust pice of gum. What else can I do?
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 3:55 pm
Well, you're doing the right thing by asking for help. ^_^
You could get birth control from your doctor or planned parenthood, or try spermicidal jelly with the condoms.
Just remember, don't double up on condoms. ^_~
Oh, and this should've probably gone in the Sex and/or Birth Control subforums. <3
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 5:18 pm
It's great that you don't want a baby before you can take care of one. Like Preston said you can get another form of birth control to use in addition to the condoms. You can sit down with your regular doctor or with a doctor from a clinic like Planned Parenthood or Family Planning. Have the doctor go over all of your options with you. The pill is one of the most common methods, but there are many others.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 6:10 pm
If you're really that afraid of getting pregnant, you can always change your mind until you're both older and getting pregnant (accidently or on purpose) wouldn't be such a problem.
It'd be really good for the two of you to talk about what you'll do together should you get pregnant. You'd have 3 options: Abortion, adoption, or keeping it, and you should know ahead of time what you'll do if anything unplanned happens.
Otherwise, if you're both going to go ahead and have sex, the others have already said it - use condoms and be on hormonal birth control, or use another back-up method to go with the condom.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
