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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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 Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 8:55 pm
as if i'm totally leading on my friends! ok, so i chill with a bunch of guys (always have) and, like, the problem is i think i kinda lead them on sometimes. i mean, i can't help it, that's just the way i am. but i always do stuff that ends up being accidentally cute or funny (it's that lil kid in me =P) but yeah, and i feel like i lead them on to think they mayhave a chance with me. i mean, we were walking today, and they were like, "i envy the chick who likes you. i mean, you're a hot lesbian" so its not like i'm lying about my sexuality or anything. i guess i just feel bad cuz i know what its like to love a straight person and that's prolly what it's like for them... plus i read this book called "hard love" (haha, which is weird, cuz i NEVER read) and it was about this straight guy who falls in love with a lesbian, and i don't want it to turn out like that. =/ i dunno. i just feel kinda blah about it.
anyone else have a similar prob?
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Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 9:03 pm
I can't recall having that problem as not having anyone really to talk to at that age.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 9:13 pm
that sucks. but that's why they invented the internet i guess. biggrin
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Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 5:46 am
Yeah. My ex-boyfriend (before I came out) is trying to get me back. My girlfriend is ready to kick his a**. We were at a leadership confrence with our school's GSA and he was hooking up with this really ugly chick. My friend said that she got hit with the ugly stick so many times it turned her hair green. We just laughed. lol
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Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 6:37 am
I do. At uni i only have male friends (electronics engineering = sausage fest). Before i had told them i was gay, i was a little weary of things i said to them, to be sure i wasn't leading them on. After i had came out to them though it was all good, and they respect my sexual preference.
As i had explained to my best mate, "Just think of me as a dude with a vag." XD
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Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 6:52 am
sort of? i mean, i don't think i'm remotely attractive in any way, but this friend of mine has been talking to me for a long time, and i think there was something freshman year, and it's complicated. buut i was coming out to myself at the time, and i only just came to the point where i said that i'm gay. i haven't come out to him or the rest of the group, but i'm hoping he gets the idea. we get in arguments since then, and he's generally not as cool as he used to be. he's kinda a jerk to me? i dunno, but i don't like it when guys like me anyway, it feels weird. i try to make it sort of clear that i like girls. i hang out with guy friends also, but they're pretty much not attracted to me, have girlfriends, or just completely understand that i'm all about the chickies xD
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Posted: Mon May 18, 2009 2:27 pm
I had a situation that is similar except I was the one that got hurt. I was in love with my straight best friend for four years. Yeah, it sucked.
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