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 Posted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 4:14 pm
Okay so, i'm 14 and i have this friend and we'll call her... "Kelsey". (I'm not using real names). I'm straight and have never found girls very intresting when it came to feelings and dating but 1 month back when me and kelsey started to become extremely good friends i started to have feelings. They weren't regular bff feelings either, they were the kind that you like someone. So i thought it was just a phase and it wouldnt bother me. But lately these feelings for her have been getting extremely strong and it's been hard to ignore. Everywhere i go all i can do is think about her. I don't know if she's bi or not but i do know she's never kissed a guy before but i always hear her talking about guys so i asume she's pretty boy-crazy. I like her alot and i don't know how to tell her becuase i've never kissed/liked a girl and i'm just afraid of rejection by her. Were great friends and i don't wanna ruin her friendship but i just want to expierment with her. Past couple days she's slept over my house and stuff and i've come so close to telling her but i never could. So i need advice. Should i tell her? How can i understand these feelings? I think i might be bi curious but i don't want to be.
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Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 11:14 am
That is how I found out that I liked guys. I never really thought about being gay or bi and mostly only had one girl on my mind and I was about....well actually, I was about 13 or 14. I met this one guy that quickly became one of my closest friends, but I already knew he was bi. It never bothered me though I never really wanted to like guys and such. But the more I hung with him, the more I liked him and not just friend liked. I really fell for him and it confused me so much. It was eating me up so much that I just decided to accept who I am. I say first, try to figure out if you truely like her and the possiblility of would you date her, kiss her, etc. Once you have that figured, if you feel like she wouldn't over-react or that she would be cool with it...just let her know that you probably like her. Don't just rush into saying, but kind of ease the subject and ensure that you won't try anything with her but you felt like you should let her know....but if you don't think she is handle it, don't rush to tell her....wait for a while until you are comfortable enough to tell her.
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Posted: Sat Oct 24, 2009 12:31 pm
oh wow you know im going through the exact same thing right now...i know how you feel confused and afraid to tell your friend. im in the same place at the moment...with my best friend and i think the best way to take things is to take it easy..don't give her 2 much at once you know hug her a lil longer comment on how good she looks once in a while you know. she how she reacts to small things and if you see she likes it do more and let things fall into place....hey feel free to add me and if you need some one to talk to ill be here
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Posted: Sun Dec 20, 2009 6:24 pm
Toxic Pens Okay so, i'm 14 and i have this friend and we'll call her... "Kelsey". (I'm not using real names). I'm straight and have never found girls very intresting when it came to feelings and dating but 1 month back when me and kelsey started to become extremely good friends i started to have feelings. They weren't regular bff feelings either, they were the kind that you like someone. So i thought it was just a phase and it wouldnt bother me. But lately these feelings for her have been getting extremely strong and it's been hard to ignore. Everywhere i go all i can do is think about her. I don't know if she's bi or not but i do know she's never kissed a guy before but i always hear her talking about guys so i asume she's pretty boy-crazy. I like her alot and i don't know how to tell her becuase i've never kissed/liked a girl and i'm just afraid of rejection by her. Were great friends and i don't wanna ruin her friendship but i just want to expierment with her. Past couple days she's slept over my house and stuff and i've come so close to telling her but i never could. So i need advice. Should i tell her? How can i understand these feelings? I think i might be bi curious but i don't want to be. Wow. I know EXACTLY how you feel. There's this girl that I met not too long ago that I like a lot. I know that she's bi though, so I guess it's a bit different for me.
I'd say that if she rejects you, then she can't really be that good of a friend. Friends stay by you through thick and thin, no matter your sexuality. I hope that you can find it in yourself to tell her. You never know what might happen. (:
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:59 am
i know how u feel im bi and i have this friend shes the greatest but shes straight and im scared to tell her i like her alot more then friends should i think ive fallen in love with her. i dont know if i should tell her
heart Amy heart
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