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x-iRainny-x

PostPosted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:49 pm


ok well.... how do ju know your in love? o.o; >.<; i know most people are like its the way you feel about the person and stuff but is that really love o.o idk this might not make any sense but im half asleep and ... >_> <_< yeah .....
PostPosted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:27 pm


Damn o_o Thats a good question! Hmm...~feelz stupid~ ._.;
Im supposidly in love, but i know how i am o-o
Maybe its the way your chest starts to feel when that person says. I love you. Idk ~thinks more~ confused

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x-iRainny-x

PostPosted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:40 pm


dont feel stupid kite kite XD it was just a question idk u might be right kite kite or maybe its different for everyone else idk i think im trying to use my brain while im half asleep and im coming up with all this complecated stuff XD but thank you kite kite for trying to answer :3
PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 3:03 am


Wen you fall inlove with either girl or boy you just know it gives you a sertain feeling lets say wen you talk to him/her you feel happy and comfortable to be with and no not the happy and comfortable feeling you feel wen you are with a good friend.
Trust me wen your in love you just "know"
But yes explaining how you know your in love is hard
specially wen you never been in love

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x-iRainny-x

PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 6:25 am


yeah it is hard >.< but you answered it really well :3 and thank you for your answer =3
PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 10:14 am


iKite_x
Damn o_o Thats a good question! Hmm...~feelz stupid~ ._.;
Im supposidly in love, but i know how i am o-o
Maybe its the way your chest starts to feel when that person says. I love you. Idk ~thinks more~ confused


Kite, remember what u said to me, ''dont think too much'' XD

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 4:33 pm


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iKite_x
Damn o_o Thats a good question! Hmm...~feelz stupid~ ._.;
Im supposidly in love, but i know how i am o-o
Maybe its the way your chest starts to feel when that person says. I love you. Idk ~thinks more~ confused


Kite, remember what u said to me, ''dont think too much'' XD
lol yea and not thinking is easy fer me :B
But now she has me wondering the meaning of love D:
PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 4:41 pm


Well i guess can be involved

You need both love and lust in a relationship
without love there is lust and thats just wrong
and without lust there is no connection
So you need both
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H o t a r u__S e m p a i

PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 6:18 pm


I think the feeling of being in loved can be described as personal and similar, but no 2 descriptions I think will ever be completely alike.

there are similar reaction but i think only you can personally know when you're in love

My beliefs on love ;3
-i believe people are perfectly capable of falling in love with more than one person.
-I believe ppl are perfectly capable of falling out of love.
-I believe love can bloom from lust.
-I think if you want to say I love you while you're dating someone it's ok, you don't have to be possitive that you are "in love", if you feel the urge go ahead.

I'm a very realistic person and the whole thought of love being universal and can be described by one person is a little bothersome.

So sweetie I'm basically gonna finish with what basically everyone else has said you'll know when you know :3
PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 6:35 pm


yeah i guess yall are all right lolz thank you for all of yalls help :3  

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 8:07 pm


Well i recently got a new favorite saying..."you know your in love when you can't sleep at night because reality is finally better than your dreams." That is my favorite saying from Dr. Suess. And it makes sense. If you can't fall asleep because your thinking of that person...then your in love. If that person is on your mind like 24/7 your in love. You get this feeling everytime you see that person. Like your stomache has lots of butterflies, and you just feel nervous, but you can talk to that person without any troubles.
PostPosted: Wed Apr 29, 2009 12:26 pm


wow love is very powerful u just know when it the right time to feel the power offffffffff LOVE it takes u beyond anything u ever felt it just is what is it love is what makes us human and feel any feelin hidin deep inside our soul waitin to find just the right person to feell it with ,trust me u will know when it hits u soo hard u cant even think. so yea love is love there really isnt much u can do it justs happens when it does so let love find u .!!!! ^^ im in love and i feell like he the only one i want and care for then anythings else mm i soo love with him soo muchhh oh yeaaa im in LOVEEEE.!!!!hehehe ^__^ yeah girl love is special so awesome that it can drive u nutzzz without u even knowin it hehehe girl feel what u feel in u and in him and u will know .^^ from kittyy heheheh good luck girlllll .!!!!! wink

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PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2009 10:53 pm


H o t a r u__S e m p a i
I think the feeling of being in loved can be described as personal and similar, but no 2 descriptions I think will ever be completely alike.

there are similar reaction but i think only you can personally know when you're in love

My beliefs on love ;3
-i believe people are perfectly capable of falling in love with more than one person.
-I believe ppl are perfectly capable of falling out of love.
-I believe love can bloom from lust.
-I think if you want to say I love you while you're dating someone it's ok, you don't have to be possitive that you are "in love", if you feel the urge go ahead.

I'm a very realistic person and the whole thought of love being universal and can be described by one person is a little bothersome.

So sweetie I'm basically gonna finish with what basically everyone else has said you'll know when you know :3

o:
i chose to do this one in responce to what she says bc i like what she says. i wanted to add my 2 cents worth though
starts with infatuation, that person becomes the world to you and you cant think realistically, you are incapable of even seeing that person's flaws.. or at least you are incapable of caring about them
over time, the infatuation leaves. this is where most relationships end. love comes after infatuation
if your unsure, dw. if it happens, yah you will be sure of it.
i have talked to people, real love with that depth is rare.
for myself, after several months of being around him, one day i just suddenly knew that i loved him. there was a break up, it hurt like mad. im still friends with him, several months later, i kept being unsure if i was over him. funny thing, one day i just suddenly knew that i was finally completely over him.
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