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 Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 10:59 pm
well my bestie and i dated for a little bit,but
now he hates me and wont talk to me like we
use to before we dated. how do i make him
like me for me again even thru he hates me.?!!
and he has all this bad songs on his page about me.
i dont know what to do i miss him as my bestie friend but,
he being mean to me now .i want my bestie back and dont know what to do noww helpp me plzzzz.?! im soo saddd cuz i know i shouldnt never,ever dated him .!!!!! sad so again i say dont fall in love with your bestieee.!!! sad
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:26 pm
Dont worry Kitty girl. I would never fall in love with my best friend.
but i wanna know the reason why he hates you so much.
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:32 pm
Yeah........Im having a 'somewhat similar problem...we used to be friends........got close.......but he found a new gf.....n i said something i shouldn't have......n now we're not even friends anymore......
Some of you might know who i'm addressing here
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:39 pm
HopefulxDreamer Dont worry Kitty girl. I would never fall in love with my best friend. but i wanna know the reason why he hates you so much. tell me about it hope i know too .! sad
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:41 pm
xxHaileyBaby20xx Yeah........Im having a 'somewhat similar problem...we used to be friends........got close.......but he found a new gf.....n i said something i shouldn't have......n now we're not even friends anymore...... Some of you might know who i'm addressing here aww sorri to hear this wow guys can be soo meann .! sad
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:42 pm
well I guess its my fault....i shouldn't have said that......=( I miss him
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:48 pm
I understand how you 2 feel, but guyz can real jerks. (sorry fellas no offense). Im just saying that its a possibility that they enjoy making you guys feel this way. They want you to pour all your emotion to them, so they can feel more comfortable and secure. They want you to beg them to be friends and such. If i were you ladies...Not happening. Honestly if talking doesnt work theres nothing more you can do, but them go. If they see that you honestly dont care anymore, thats gonna hurt them in the long run!
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:51 pm
Yeah........thats exactly what I did. I tried to be nice about it really I did, but I only get ignored all the time...well I'm officially finished so yeah ^_^
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 12:02 am
Aww my poor love. yes it so hard to lose a good best friend that way. sometime it best not to in anyway it can ruin friendship so badly. and i no how it feels for u my love. v_v
Well love got to let it heal for him. he still broken from the brake up but give him sometime. i no he still cares for u in the inside and he been always there for u most since before we dated. he just acting out attention of how much u hurt him and want u to feel it badly... so u fall apart from what happen back then so u feel his pain. >.<
But ether way it goes, u already feel his pain and i no u feel so bad about it and how much u been saying sorri to him. but soon he will get over it.. he cant never hate the one he been around and be friends from the past. i no he still misses u and no that u both be always still be bestiee. In his heart he will always think of u as his best forever.
but if he choices to let it all go, all u got is too do the same. I no it going to hurt and u going to miss him so much. but in a away of life friend comes and go and time of that let friendship chain go and move on. Only hope that they will be alright in the time in there own life. Just as long as everything is going great with more happiness that always matter most.^^
Gust be glad u had a good time with ur old bestiee and i no he will return and speck to u again in a better way. I no he was the best friend u ever had. ily my sweet kitty *kisses my love* heart heart heart heart
btw love, i was ur bestiee too... or did u just call me that just for the feeling of me being a non-bestiee to u. o.o;
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 12:02 am
xxHaileyBaby20xx Yeah........thats exactly what I did. I tried to be nice about it really I did, but I only get ignored all the time...well I'm officially finished so yeah ^_^ Lol im happy to hear your situation has been resolved.If any guyz treat that way. Ignore them back. Trust me...it works ._.
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 12:15 am
HopefulxDreamer xxHaileyBaby20xx Yeah........thats exactly what I did. I tried to be nice about it really I did, but I only get ignored all the time...well I'm officially finished so yeah ^_^ Lol im happy to hear your situation has been resolved.If any guyz treat that way. Ignore them back. Trust me...it works ._. Yep a best way always works. makes a lot more better for ur self. good way to show it Hope. ;] btw im stop posting on this forum im going to leave this all to u guys now. hope we can hear some more about ur problems a we be gladly to help. byez *jumps out of topic* :B
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 12:17 am
Mr-Kittyboy Aww my poor love. yes it so hard to lose a good best friend that way. sometime it best not to in anyway it can ruin friendship so badly. and i no how it feels for u my love. v_v
Well love got to let it heal for him. he still broken from the brake up but give him sometime. i no he still cares for u in the inside and he been always there for u most since before we dated. he just acting out attention of how much u hurt him and want u to feel it badly... so u fall apart from what happen back then so u feel his pain. >.<
But ether way it goes, u already feel his pain and i no u feel so bad about it and how much u been saying sorri to him. but soon he will get over it.. he cant never hate the one he been around and be friends from the past. i no he still misses u and no that u both be always still be bestiee. In his heart he will always think of u as his best forever.
but if he choices to let it all go, all u got is too do the same. I no it going to hurt and u going to miss him so much. but in a away of life friend comes and go and time of that let friendship chain go and move on. Only hope that they will be alright in the time in there own life. Just as long as everything is going great with more happiness that always matter most.^^
Gust be glad u had a good time with ur old bestiee and i no he will return and speck to u again in a better way. I no he was the best friend u ever had. ily my sweet kitty *kisses my love* heart heart heart heart
btw love, i was ur bestiee too... or did u just call me that just for the feeling of me being a non-bestiee to u. o.o; wow love thx u i do understand it all now ,i was feelin really sorri for me more cuz i dd hurt him for doing what i did, but my heart was and will always be with u .!! ily u and only u and love yes u r my bestiee now and forever and i hope that i dont ever ruin us as bestie or loverss cuz ill go nutzzz.!! im happy u do understand my ways sweetie ty soo much.i just want him to be ok too even if he hates me i still miss him as a friend but like u said we have to move on.im happy u r here for me love thxxx u soo muchh ily alwaysss.!! ^__^*kisses u soo muchh moree* heart heart heart heart heart wow ily
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 12:22 am
I feel the samee way Cici! Even though my ex and I broke up i'd still msg him to see how hes doing................I dont think any circumstances will take away how i would always care for people.............cuz I know that if anything god forbid happen to him or any1 one day, I'll regret it.
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 12:31 am
xxHaileyBaby20xx I feel the samee way Cici! Even though my ex and I broke up i'd still msg him to see how hes doing................I dont think any circumstances will take away how i would always care for people.............cuz I know that if anything god forbid happen to him or any1 one day, I'll regret it. feelin so hurt by this. u know what i need to move on and try my best to remember how as bestie we where good friends alwayss and that i will never forget him .! smile even if he not talkin to me ill always care and feel that he is here with me alwaysssss.!! thx u girl for being my friend and helpin me thro this and i hope i can help u tooo. ^^
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