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 Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 7:35 pm
So This has happened to me several time with different people. Someone begins giving me a b*****b but i can't exactly orgasm. I hardly feel anything down there. Whenever i have, i never do finish. Sometimes i'm nervous and i'm not sure if that has something to do with it. I was wondering,
-Does this happen to other males?
-What can i do to actually "Finish"?
-Why is it that i can hardly feel anything?
D:
Thanks in advance for the replies :]
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 7:49 pm
Yup, being nervous can make a big difference. It's a lot harder for most people to orgasm when they're nervous or uncomfortable. Having a partner and an environment that you're comfortable with might help a lot.
As for why you don't feel much, well it's tough to say. It could be a technique issue, possibly a partner being too gentle, too slow, too fast, etc. My current partner, for example, says he doesn't feel much if I go fast even though past partners liked it fast. So communication and experimentation might help. But it's also possible that oral sex just isn't your thing. Lots of guys love it, but there are some that just don't care for it.
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Posted: Fri Apr 10, 2009 8:32 pm
Given that you say you "hardly feel anything," I think it's probably one of three things. Either they're doing it all wrong, you had too much to drink, or you are really, seriously not attracted to the person(s) giving you a bj.
Any thoughts on which it might be? Could you stay erect, or not really?
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Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 12:27 pm
@LorienLlewellyn Thank you :]
@ Truocpal8176
I don't drink before i have sex. I can stay erect though. I just don't feel it :/
lol
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Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 11:56 pm
Then I think Lorien's probably right, your partner is doing it wrong. It just seems like bad luck for you that this has happened different times with different people!
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Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 6:03 am
It's got to do with you. You either not fully ready or your not relax enough. Just try kissing to start off with to get into the mood and if that doesn't help..try her out first...if that still doesn't help and you are really concerned go and see your doctor about it.
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