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What do you think ((after reading first post))
  Yes, you are bi sexual
  No, you are straight
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Oliver the Imp

PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:10 pm


'Ello, I would just love everyone's opinion to help me decide if I am bi sexual or not. I am very confused on this, here is my position as it stands:
I have a boyfriend, whom I love, and looking back on my past, I have realized that I have been teasing (playfully slapping and such)both sexes. I have done this for a while now and am now realizing that I could be bi sexual. Examples: I would go up to girls and slap their butts for no reason then wave them off. I would often find myself fixed staring on one girl or guy. I have two lesbian friends, whom are dating each other, and one bi sexual friend (who pretends to be bi just to get some sexual attention), and at the Homecoming Dance (a week or so ago), I found myself dancing with my boyfriend and when he was off with his friends, dancing with other girls. If you have read this far you will now get to know that I do have permission to post this. I had previously tried to ignore the fact that I might be bi sexual, but as I imagined it wouldn't and didn't work. ((I was afraid of my parents thoughts on this then I completely didn't care what they said because it is my life.))I kept catching myself staring at other girls and messing around with them. I love the feeling of taller girls hugs (boobage cause of my height), and I also love tall guy hugs (squeezing their a** cause of my height once again). I also find myself flirting with both sexes very often.
I am very confused on if I am Bi- Sexual or not. Please post your opinions on if I am bi-sexual or straight (as I thought I always was)

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 29, 2005 2:04 pm


Well, can you imagine yourself having a major emotional relationship with a girl? Can you imagine falling in love with a girl, marrying a girl (assuming you find a place it's legal)? Basically, if you feel that you could do all the same things with a girl and be comfortable that you could with a guy, I'd say you're bisexual.
I'm still not sure what to call it when you're completely comfortable doing stuff with guys, but you're just sexually attracted to girls, not emotionally.

Anaithnid


kageling

PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 8:02 pm


Just give yourself time to think it out--there's no rush to label yourself as anything.

And really, don't ask us for help. We can only define sexualities for you, we don't know how you think or how you feel. Only you can tell us what you are. Don't let anyone else decide for you.
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